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which guy?!
ok bottom line..
im hanging out with 2 guys that like me. i dont like one more than the other so i dont know which one to hook up with. and the other problem is that those guys are good friends, so i don't want to break their relationship.
help is appreciated!!
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Hey!
Heres what I think I would do. I would probably just wait for one of them to make a move on you. Because if guy 1 comes out and says hey wanna go out with me, then he's probably either talked to guy 2 and they've worked something out, or he's being a jerk and breaking up his friendship, either way it's not your fault, because he asked you first.
Just one word of advice, dont let it get to a point where you have to decide between both of them, if it does get to that place, then you should just tell them that you couldnt handle breaking up their friendship, and that either they can decide, or you just wont go out with either of them.
Thats what I would do anyway, unless you have a stronger feeling for either of them, then it would be a bigger deal and you'd have to follow your heart.
Good luck, and I hope I helpped, Love ya,
Angie91
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My advice to you is -back away very slowly- either one you pick the other one will be angry and you will end up breaking their friendship apart.
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well maybe you shouldnt hook up with either one. because if you do you might loose the friendship of the other one.. which im assuming you dont want to do. or otherwise if you want to choose one then hang out with them a little more. then decide which one you like more. or hook up with both of them.. that always works ;)
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Well, if you do want a relationship with one of them, go for it. (For that guy) But if you don't want to lose the friendship(s), you don't necessarily have to say yes to either of them/hook up with them, etc.
Jess♥
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hey
well, which one do you like more? with whom are you better friends with? with whom can you see yourself being bf / gf with & being happy? would they go out of their way for you? do you feel a different kind of closeness that you've never had with anyone else?
make a list of pros & cons. what will you gain by going out with each of them? being happy? being sad? more stress?
if you STILL can't figure it out, talk to each of them & ask them a few questions about it. see if you can have a conversation for 30 mins to an hour without anything sexual or even holding hands. just see if you can actually talk to them about anything.
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