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Help Me Please!!
Ok.. So this guy wants me to go to his house after school.. should i go or not!
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if your sure your not gonna mess around and do anything your going to regret then i GUESS its ok...
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A little bit more info would be better, but basically;
Are you comfortable with this boy? Do you see him as a friend?
If you go, do you think it will be awkward?
Does he fancy you but you don't or you aren't entirely sure?
Are you worried if he makes a move, you will have to go through with it even though you may not want to?
They are good points to think about. Ask him what you'd be doing.
Only you can make up your own mind.
He might be inviting you over purely as friends - but there's also that chance he might be looking for something extra.
Just don't forget if you do go and it turns out to be doing something you don't want to, never be afraid to say no. :)
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it all depends on if you are comfortable or not. if you guys are just friends.. then go ahead! maybe he likes you as more than a friend though and hes expecting to hook up with you.. if you think thats the case then you need to decide if you want to do that or not. if you dont you can still go but if he trys to put a move on you then just say no. you dont have to do anything you dont want to. if you decide that you dont want to hang out with him at his house alone then tell him you would rather hang out with a bigger group because you arent comfortable with him alone and then invite some other guys and girls to come along. hope i helped!
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If you feel comfortable, go. But if he's someone that you've just met online, or he's a lot older than you, it's just common sense not to go because something dangerous could happen. But if he's just a guy from school, and you think everything would be okay, then go right ahead. But, I'd follow my gut instinct. It ususally turns out to be the right thing.
Jess♥
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Well it all depends on what he wants you two to do while your there if you like him then go but if you dont like him then make sure he knows it just as friends not anything more.. ask and see if anyone is or can come w/ you but if you do like him dont worry about it and GO!!! hope i helped!!
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is he is alot older then you, creepy, you dont trust him, you dont know him that well, or you feel uncomfortable around him then no dont go. if hes your friend, you know him well, you completely trust him, you're comfortable around him then go.
ps. try being a bit more specific and you'll get better advice =]
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hey
that was a little vague. but...
yeah if you're friends with him / like him & want to get to know him better. if you think he's hot... anything else.
no if he's kinda weird / you dont really know him that well.
is anyone else gonna be there? if so, then yeah go. if not, just bring your cell & im sure nothing is gonna happen.
have a good time if you choose to go! i hope i helped :]
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