what should i wear leg warmers with? Give me good combos, and if you could suggest some cool style of leg warmers and where they're from that would be neat. thankz
Tell me they aren't in again. Grief. Mom made me some and I wore them with everything. All the time. I usually only see them with leotards. Some people wear them with jeans. Maybe a small shoe so that you show them off. They're from the 80's and Jane Fonda made them popular. And Flashdance too.
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I am trying to make my own column and just when I pick everything that I want in my column I try to go to it but there is nothing there. It is like I didn't even do anything. So can someone help me get so that I will have my own column.
Also remember that you have to answer at least 5 questions to have a column.
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Things around the househave been so hard latley because my mom has this boyfriend named dale who treats her like crap. The only thing keeping them together is there son Mathew who is my half brother. Things just keep getting worse and worse though. its to the point where I cry myself to sleep cuz I know how much pain my mom goes through. I wish I could help but I cant. He even hit her quiet a few times before. She flips out on me when I forget to take my purse, keys, her pay check, or money everywhere I go cuz if i dont then dale would take it. He sneaks around 24/7 he snoops in MY ROOM scrouging for things. Me and my mom couldnt leave the house at the same time cuz he would lock us out if we did. What can I do to get my mind of thses things? Is there any way I can help my mom out cuz I hate seeing her like this. Dale would flip out if my mom were to go with her friends to dinner, or 6flags. why does she have to sit in the house 24/7 just because he wants her to but yet he will yell at her the whole entire time? sorry for the long entry
Is there a close relative you can talk to or stay with? You all need to get out of this situation before it escalates to someone getting killed. Tell you mom how you feel, but you probably need another adult and/or the police to step in. Your mom needs to pack you guys up and leave because it just isn't safe or healthy to be there.
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okay i have a dumb quesion? is this site free? lol i didnt even question it cuz i was too excited about helping other people haha but i was reading something and it said something about fee's? unless its too late at night and im just tierd hahha sorry for my dumbness!
It's free but there are some cool shirts for sale. The sale from them helps defray the cost of the website.
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ive been takin these pain reliever pills that have sleep aid in them to help me sleep, nd then last night i tried to not take them nd i was layin in bed from 1am to 6am wen i desided to take them cuz i couldnt sleep wit out them even tho i was so tired my eyes could hardly stay open but once i closed my eyes to go to sleep i couldnt get to sleep! so idk but i think i mite be like addicted to the sleepy pills, so wut should i do to get UN addicted nd still get the sleep i need??
thnx!
You are going to have to not take them cold turkey and just deal with it a few nights. Worrying about not sleeping makes it worse. Get some exercise to help you feel better because sometimes unexpended energy makes you sleepy. If you can't sleep, do relaxing things like listen to music or count stars or turn on the tv. Let yourself know its ok if you aren't sleeping, but you need to at least lay down and relax. Eventually, your sleep pattern will correct itself if you go to bed and get up at a regular time.
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ok. My sister has behavioural problems which make her argue and shout all the time, we are supposed to be seeing a family counciller soon because it's a REALREAL problem but my parents keep forgetting about me and giving my sister loads of attention because they say she's 'got problems' they keep explaining it to me and saying they understand how i feel but they just DON'T what do i do?
I hate it when that happens. Just try to be good and hold up your end of the log. I would definitely bring it up with the family counselor. Remind your parents often when you need something because as long as she is getting all the attention you may be forgotten for a while. Chances are that your sister needs to be ignored for a while, but see what the counselor recommendsd.
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I'm searching for an apartment right now, but am finding it extremely difficult because of my dog. I have an very friendly dog that is great with people of any age, but he is also a rottweiler, and because of their bad reputation, most insurance companies are allowed to turn down people from owning any rottweiler, no matter what temperment, from living on the property that they insure.
I think it is wrong for them to be able to do that, and is just another form of discrimination. I believe that there are no bad breeds, just bad owners. It is never a dogs fault when they are aggressive, because they are all subject to their environment. They depend on humans for everything, and when they have a bad life, they have no way of running away and finding a better one. I believe it's always the owners fault when a dog hurts another animal or human, and that no matter what size a dog is, they still need to be in complete control, and never even get the chance to hurt a person or animal.
I want to try to make a pettition of some sort to stop the discrimination against "bad" breeds such as rottweiler, pit bulls, and german shepard dogs. And make people in the US realize that they need to start to focus on the bad owners instead of the poor dogs who are forced to live under bad ownership.
The problem is that I don't know where I would start. I know of a web site where I can start a pettition, but I'm not the greatest writer, and I don't know how I would actually make my pettition seen by the government at least in my town, if not my state. Can someone point me in the right direction?
You could try calling your local pet rescue service or vet. They could give you some information about what you can do and some resources to help you out. You can always form a letter writing campaign to your local, state, and U.S. leaders regarding this problem.
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I still have time to think, but I have NO idea what I want to major in. Im really good in english but dont want to do any teacher sort of thing and the author life is too risky. I love horses, but couldnt be a vet b/c i could never bear the sorrow of putting a horse to sleep. I love animals in general. I love designing too, but Im not awsome in math so interior design would be a bit too tricky. I cant really draw. Could anyone just list some cool things to look into even if it has nothing to do with my interests? Thanks... for the help. :-D
Have you considered volunteering at different places to find out what you might like? Use those writing skills to write a letter to find out if anyone can help you by shadowing or answering some questions about their occupation.
You could edit a newspaper or be a broadcast journalist. You could be a zookeeper or zoologist, it isn't easy, but you probably wouldn't have to put anyone to sleep. The vet would do that. You could be the next Jane Goodall and do behavoir research. There was one guy here that all he studied was ants. Believe it or not he was pretty darn interesting.
You can learn to draw, and if you are interested in something that requires math, you get better at it.
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ok im like having a really hard time right now n stuff.
it seems like all my parents and sister do is yell at me and throw sh*t in my face. and its really making me MAD! i mean i cant be around them cause they'll just find some thing to yell at me or piss me off about. and this just adds to the stress of me going to a different high school from all my friends.
i was a cutter, but im not anymore, and im getting really bad urges because my parents n sis r pissing me off beyond belief. im about ready to tell them to f*ck off and just leave the house and go stay with my friend carl. grr!
wtf do i do? im soooooo mad!
You need a punching bag, literally. You can get one from Wal-mart. Or even one of those cheesy blow up punch bags. You need to just let it out. Part of growing up is learning how to channel your anger into something not dangerous. Eventually you may can channel it into poetry, an art project or a sport.
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I am really trying to cut down on the snacks for when school starts. Unfortunately, I work in an icecream shop... for about 5 hours at a time...ugh...any tips on how to stop myself from eating the icecream I crave?
Drink a bunch of water instead of eating it. The water will fill you up, and you won't want it as much. Try to focus your thoughts on something else. Reward yourself with something besides ice cream when you have made it a whole week without eating the stuff. Buy something not edible or indulge in some "me" time.
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This may not be the right category, but I couldnt find a better place. I just found out today that one of my friends from school, that I graduated with passed away yesterday. His friends were going through his cell phone, found my number and called me. I had one class with the person, we always flirted with each other and talked about hooking up. I never called him after we graduated because I thought, yeah hes to good for me. Well, he still had my number in his phone and I feel bad for never calling him. I want to go to the viewing to see him one last time and to pay my respects to him. He was a great guy. But, then again, I dont want to go because I want to remember him from how he was before. I dont think I could handle seeing him in a casket. I dont know what to do. Should I go to the viewing or not? The viewing is Friday..so I need answers soon. Thanks!!
Its a really hard thing to do, but I would go. You don't have to look at the body if you don't want to. The most comforting thing will probably be talking to other people who knew and loved him.
Please forgive yourself for not calling him. It will be ok.
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Is there any way to change the ratings other people have given you? Is there someone I can ask? Some of my ratings are SO unfair, ex:
- A person asked if Dickies would still be in style by the middle of the year. I said yes and also gave them a link for a new style of Dickies dresses. Turns out it was a guy, but how was I supposed to know?
- Instead of giving someone a long list of picture websites, I gave them my one favorite.
- Someone put "my head hurts!", don't know how THAT didn't get deleted but anyways, I made a joke about it and they rated me 1. Wish I could rate them back.
Thanks for reading my dumb question. :) Has this happened to anyone? It really annoys me and wrecks my feedback.
Oh yeah it happens to me every 5th question. Don't sweat it. Just keep answering questions and eventually it will all even out. Feedback ratings drop out after 30 days or so.
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I am 17/f. I had this childhood friend of like 8-9 years. We were best friends, but then we hit a ofrk in the orad and she turned to drugs about a year and a half ago. When I fisrt found out that she did it, I was pissed and told her that she was dumb and shouldnt do it again. She told me she wouldn't, that she was just tryingit so I gave her the benifit of the doubt. Her and I stopped being friends about 6 months ago. She started becoming really selfish,and just always pissing me off. She was telling me she was clean but I know her too well and could tell by how she wasacting that she was lying to me. Now she hangs around with my younger sister who is 16. I just found out the other day, that just as I thought, she is still using. My sister told me she snorts heroin in front of her all the time and that she is getting really bad. She also told me that she offered her soem to try but my she told her no. The fact that she had the nerve to offer my sister drugs really pisses me off. I feel like calling her up and telling her off. I have been debating on doing this for like the past 3 days. I cant seem to stop thinking about it. I understand that she is ruining her life but why would she encourage someone else to do the same? I wanna call her or so bad! I am so mad! I don't know what to do.
Call her. At least it will be off of your chest an you will have done something about it. She may not listen, and she may hang up but you tried. I would also advise your sister not to hang out with her anymore because she could get into trouble for just being with her.
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what are some things u can say when ur talkin to ur crush and u wana keep the conversation going but he stopped talkin n theres nothing to say....plz help
You could just lean over and give them a kiss. Honestly, a joke or a silly story works just fine.
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Okay, well i really love show choir, it might sound dorky to some people but i LOVE it. So now im going to a HUGE high school, and theres not many freshman that make it into my schools show choir group, so at my audition i want to be able to sing REALLY good. I dont really need a private teacher right now, and i sing a whole bunch, but does any body know any good tips for me to make me become a better singer?
Definitely drink a lot of water. Don't drink carbonated sodas and juice. Lemon juice in decaf tea or just plain water is ok. Don't eat anything two hours before you go to bed. Sing every day, and spend at least an hour warming up. Think of it as athelete practice.
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im sry i just picked this category cuz its where most people go. but somhing weird just happened. i was out bak and itss very dark cuz its like 9. and i look at the woods in my yard and.............i saw something. ....i dont want 2 believe wat i saw cuz peeps wud tthink im wweird....but i saw a pair of bright...hypnotic...red eyes. now im the kinda guy who think movies like signs and the mothman prophocies r wicked gay. i dont get scared by hem i getbored. but as i stared at these eyes i felt llight headed andd i kept hearing this sharp,crackly sound coming rom he eyes. then it all of a sudden took off!!i jumed up in the air i saw its shadowy silouhette in the sky. it reminded me alot bout mothman. but i live in Mass. this has really freakedd me out. should i tell som1?
Yep, sounds like a random weirdo to me. Or maybe just a possum. Take a nap.
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omg ok i have to get my wisdom teeth pulled! SOMEONE PLEASEE answer...how bad does it hurt? are you awake? and how long is your mouth all swollen? im really scared.. i ABSOLUTELY hate the dentist..and im scared to go.. but im more worried about the ?'sz i asked..soo please answer! p.s i rate!
Wisdom teeth pulling isn't too bad. You won't feel like doing much for 5 days or so. It depends on how impacted they are as to how much swelling there is. When I had them done, they gave me a pain patch and pain pills. I felt very little actual pain. I spent most of my time asleep both during the procedure and after. Stock up on pudding, creame potatoes, and ice cream. That will probably be all you want to eat. The sooner you get them out, the better you will actually feel.
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I dont know what to put this under but whatever Lol. Im 14 And I Want To Help Kids Who Get Abused,Raped,Suicidal..And That Is Shy. I Dont Know What You Would Call It. But Do You Know A Site. About This Or Anything. Is It A Therapist? Please Help When I Grow Up I Really Want To Help Please!
It could be a social worker, a psychiatrist, or a psychologist. Talk to your school counselor. Believe it or not, this site has people that you want to help everyday. Not one in each category, but one or two. We especially get a lot of shy people.
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It's me again! The guy that was 4 hours away is now datin a real close cousin of mine n i just found out that they r engaged.By the way I broke off my relationship with the drug user. I realized that I was totally in love with the guy four hours away. Neway, I told him about it and he said he loves me too then he tells me hes engaged to me cousin. They have only been dating for like 9 days n me n him were dating for like 9 months. Me n my cousin r now in a fight n are not talkin! This is really hurting me not talkin to her, but I can't forgive her, because she was the first person I told that I still loved him then 2 hours later she starts going out with him.Then 9 days later they r engaged. Um.....i dunno what to do n i feel like total shit, because of this, writing this rigt now n thinking about it has started me crying. I dunno what to do abotu this I really need ur advice. Thanx! ***Crying***
Crap. I would avoid them both. How can you be engaged in 9 days? What a bunch o nuts. Eventually you will forgive her, but don't even think about it now. You have to get over him first. Stay busy. Go out with friends, read a book, watch a movie.
Find somebody else. This guy apparently can't be trusted anyway. You have a lot of time to find someone worthy to date. Forget these losers. I am glad you broke it off with the drug user, but doesn't mean that it didn't hurt. Just be nice to yourself for a little while, and you will feel better soon.
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I usually buy my makeup from somewhere like Target, or the drug store or whatever...well...I wanna get some nice expensive makeup that will last and be realllllyyy good...does anyone have some advice on good makeup to get from a deparment store that is not too expensive.
I am not a huge makeup wearer, but you can go to any department store or places like Merle Norman and try it on for free. Just ask the desk clerk. It will help you decide on what works for you.
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