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ok, here's the scoop, i asked one of my friends to talk to the guy that i like....she said that he hates me and thinx i'm ugly and stuff. i don't know whether or not to believe her and i don't know what to do. i don't really think he'd say that, but should i ask him or what? please help if you can. thanx
~ArL0*

I think you should ask him. Just go up to him and be like "you hate me?" and see what he says. And if he asks who said that tell him the truth! Your friend has no right to go and tell you stupid lies like that...And its really mean. So if he said he never said that confront your friend and ask her whats up with the lieing. She might like him too thats why shes saying that. I hope I helped.

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what do you do when you know (or think) a guy doesnt like you but your just like totally infatuated by him and he just like makes your heart hurt whenever you think about him or see him?

Cry haha ya umm.........You cant really do anything about it if he doesnt like you. Just keep talking to him and get together with a group of friends and invite him and just hang out and stuff! Flirt with him a little too. He might start to like you back!

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how exactly do u think i could do the research, its not like i can type it onto google, ill get porn ha ha...

Just like go to google and type in "starting a strip club" or something like that or look for books on strip clubs just search high and low to find stuff. Also find people who own a strip club and ask them questions.Also be creative with the name like think of something original and exotic! And (lol) on the inside be creative too like go to difernt strip clubs and see what they have in there and get some ideas but try to be very unique!!

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me and my bf have been together for a long time now. we haven't gone very far at all. he loves me and i love him but he is pressuring me into going further. i know for sure i don't want to because im not ready. im 14. i love him tho and i want to make him happy... what do i do? he respects me and everything so its not like he is like DO IT OR I WILL BREAK UP W/ YOU i can just tell he really wants to and he asks me if i will and stuff. sometimes he tries to do stuff and i tell him to stop but he keeps trying. later i talk to him about it and he says he jsut cant help it. ill rate

When ever he does try to do something get pissed off and be like STOP IT! and then explain how important it is to you that you dont want to do anything yet. Sorry i didnt help much

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im 20 and a female, i very much want to open my own strip joint...what do you guys think...also what do you think i should do...give me suggestions about all little things like what do you guys like about going to them..(like what should i call it, what should i have inside?) thanks for taking the time

Go for it...If thats your dream to open a strip place go for it. Reserch on what to put in there.

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Alright well I'm rather skinny..I'm 5'1" and and I weigh about 90 lbs...I'm 14 years old. Well I have like really skinny thighs and I wish they were bigger. It's so hard finding pants that are tight around the leg and it makes me so mad. I always find pants that are tight on my butt because my butt is kinda big and it doesn't fit well with my skinny legs. Does anyone know what I should do to make my legs bigger or what pants I should buy. Most likely I'd like to know about making my thighs bigger. Thanks.

If you want to make your thighs bigger you should run. Also lean against a wall and slid down into a sitting position like your sitting in an invisible chair and hold untill your legs get shaky and burn like heck (lol :oP ). For the cloths i think you should shop at PacSun, Ancore Blue,Delias,Alloy,WET SEAL (that one for sure),and look for size 0 that would fit you perfectly. Wet Seal has tiny cloths so i recomend you go there!!! Hope i helped

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Ok the deal is that there is a dance this friday and me and sum of my friends are going to eat afterwards, but this one kid is coming that me and my friend just cant stand!! He is SO immature and is always acting like a 10 year old, we have tried everything to keep him from going be we have run outta ideas, then, I found out that he had ISS and never told his mom, i was gonna call and tell his mom but i got him insted, so now i cant. And now the other guy thats going with us dosnt want him going either. Please give me some advice to keep him from going with us!!!!!

>>RohoBaby

I duno what ISS is but maybe try calling his house again. Like when ever he picks up just hang up then try again later lol! But another way it to have everyone just tell him your not going anymore cause you think youll be tierd and then after he leaves the dance go eat!!! Its kinda mean but i mean if hes THAT annoying you kinda havta do that!! Hope i helped

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theres this guy who liked me all of last year.. i "went out" with him once, but he dumped me the same day, and i knew i couldnt count on him, so even though i liked him, i never said yes the next thousand times he asked me.. now that he's finally moved on and has another girlfriend, i think i was being stupid, and i miss him so much.. i know i should tell him but i dont know what he'll do.. i'd even settle for just being friends, but see since i said no so many times we dont talk that much anymore so we're not even really friends.... should i tell him how i feel? i'm afraid he'll be like "too bad, you had your chance" cause i did that to him so many times.. and i feel awful now cause i feel like i made a huge mistake:( so what do i do??!

I think you might be kinda jeliouse that he has another girlfriend now...(sorry for the forwardness :o) )But anyway i think you should definatly tell him if thats whats really in your heart!! Tell him that you WOULD just settle being friends! But dont tell him that you like him still because that might cause frikshin in his new relationship!! So wait untill they have broken up (but not to soon after they break up) then share the news!! I hope everything gos well and i hope i helped!!

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i like this guy and so does my really good friend and shes like really really pretty n im not and hes a BIG flirt so ofcourse he flirts w/ her but my friend already told him that i like him and i wanna no if he likes me back? wat do i do? plz help me

Aww hun im sure your gorgouse! But if you want to know if he likes you, have one of your other friends ask him! Dont have the friend that likes him to ask him cause she might get mad/jeliouse.Just have a friend ask and say "Hey (his name) do you like (your name) like more then a friend?" then have her tell you the WHOLE story!! I hope i helped! If you need anymore help just ask!! XoXo

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does anyone know any ways to cover up cuts?

A bandaid....Or cover up :o)

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Okay hey
well, I have this really big crush on my chorus teacher. and this isnt one of those eww god these ppl have problems kind of things so dont think that. But anyways. im 16 and he is 26. He is really really cute and he is just so sweet and funny, and REALLY flirtatious. A lot of my friends see that. I even tlak to this guy online and stuff. and he blocks EVERYONE unless they are on his buddylist, and he put me on it. Anyways... I think about him non stop. And if i have a problem, then he is always there to help me out with it and everything. and if i am faking a guy problem thing, then he is always there to help me out. A lot of my friends say that they seriously with no doubt in their minds, think that he likes me but he just wont say or do anything becasue of his job. And everyday it seems to get more and more serious about him. And now he's all telling me to stop hanging out with my friends and everything becase they are bad influences( he said this after i asked him to help me with singing lessons) and that felt like soemthing a bf would do. And i would do anything in the world for this guy and its really serious... What do i do?
-Shakenya

I think he likes you. But that wont look good to your school and he would get fierd if you had any relationship what so ever with him. Also he would get introuble for dateing a minor. I know you like him and all and it seems he really likes you too but your 10 years apart and thats quiet a bit. You cant stop love so you can go on liking him but i would hold off on the relationship at least untill you 18. Yes thats a long time but if you want him to stick around as your chorus teacher then i suggest you dont have a relationship with him! Sorry that advise was probibly what you didnt want to here but thats my opinion! Hope i helped!

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Can girls get pimples.... down there?

Umm not really. At least i dont think so? You might want to go to the docter with that one. That might be seriouse! Hope i helped

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Is there anyway to get rid of acne and blackheads fast or at least to get less of it?? PLEASE TELL ME!! I'm 13 and a girl

Hey hun. If i were you id get ProActive. It works so good!I only put it on at night when your supposed to put it on night and morning and it still works good!!! Hope i helped!

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I have naturatly light ash blonde hair, which is about 2 inches long on top. I really want to dye the tips of my hair red, but I dont know how to go about it! What would I have to do to just dye the tips??

Go to your hairstylist and have her/him do it! Its the best way to go! But if you dont want to do that then go get some red hair dye (like bed head) from the store and just put it on the tips. (The directions should be on the box!!) Hope i helped!

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Does anyone have any sad songs... because I am in an extremely down state right now... and that would probably help me cry out my problem...

One song that makes me bawl everytime i hear it is "sarah mclachlan - i will remember you". But it might only be me because that song was played on my grandpas remebrance video and now everytime i hear it it reminds me of him...But other then that im not sure sorry!!

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what is a good thing to use to get rid of stretch marks that isn't that expensive and that works fast?!

Theres this on cream my step mom used to take away her strech marks. Go to any drug store like Walgreen,RiteAid,LongsDrugs or anything like that they would have it...Hope i helped

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Hi Kr4z3y_Ch3lly.. I have a problem.. I'm having problems at home and I'm not sure how to deal with them.. The first of my problems is that my parents are getting divorced and its really hard for me to deal with. I've also been having to deal with my brother's recent death in Iraq. Also.. my birthday is in... 6 hours and I'm not sure I can party hard enough!! haha didn't that sound convincing for a minute? lol Michelle I'm just joking about all this I just wanted to see if you'd believe it for a second.. lol well you are THE coolest friend and I think its great that you are offering your amazing advice to the world.. anyway thanks for everything you've done.. Love ya girl!! --Linsey--

Awww Linsey hey! Ya i did belive it until you said "my birthdays in 6 hours" and the name was linsey at the bottom! HaHa your so awsome! I love ya too!!

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hi i feel so dumb asking this plz dont laugh .........when i eat meat and then poop someimtes there is like blood in my turd does this mean im pregnant?......thats what my friends say

Ummm i have no idea. Go to the docter and ask him/her...Sorry i didnt help

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hey well my boyfriend and i have been going out 4 over a year. and everything is okay and stuff but i get really jealous cuz girls are over all over him and stuff like that and they know he has a girlfriend some of the stuff that bugs me is like this girl always hugs him and hes like its ok i dont even like her but i like really care and all that stuff. me being jealous ok ?? * thanx 4 the help *

Of corse being jelous is ok! Everyone gets jelious once in a while. Have you talked to him? If not then tell him what you feel. He might think its stupid but just let him know that its important to you. If you have talked to him just talk to him again. If he doesnt stop hugging and stuff with other girls, just do the same but with guys! Then he'll get jelious and confront you then you can tell him that thats exactly how you felt. If you dont want to do that, just talk to him and tell him how much you care about whats happening! Hope i helped...

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Female:14
Well I have just recently stopped living with my dad because things over their were getting too hard to live with. Like my dad and stepmom kept on going through my stuff and my dad didn't even spend time with me. Anyways fights and stuff have been going on and I haven't been over to my dad's house in almost a month. Anyways my stepmom keeps talking to me (even though I dont really like her) and keeps telling me I need to talk to my dad. The thing is I have. But I also need to talk to her she says. The thing is I don't know what to say to her. I have so many problems with her, and I just feel like I'm about to cry everytime we get on the subject. She's also one of the main reasons my parents got divorced. My dad started cheating on my mom with her. So basically my dad was raising two other kids (victorias children) and left us for about two years. How do I talk to Victoria? (my stepmom)

Hey hun, i know exactly how you feel. My situation sounds almost like yours! Well..When you DO talk to her and you feel your going to cry, just let it out to show her that thats how you feel about the subject. Tell her exactly what you told me. I know it will be hard saying that she was the one who ruined your parents relationship, but you have to tell her in order for her to respect you and for her to stop bugging you about talking to her. Also now that your not living with them anymore it will be easyer to tell her the truth. Just tell her you need to talk to her alone, sit in a bedroom or on the couch in the living room just you and her,or go out to the car and sit in there with her just her. I know you might think that it might hurt her feelings but if you think about it she has caused more hurt feelings in your parents relationship and in you. If you need anymore help you know what to do! I hope i helped...

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