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Dad problems...and stepmom too.
Female:14
Well I have just recently stopped living with my dad because things over their were getting too hard to live with. Like my dad and stepmom kept on going through my stuff and my dad didn't even spend time with me. Anyways fights and stuff have been going on and I haven't been over to my dad's house in almost a month. Anyways my stepmom keeps talking to me (even though I dont really like her) and keeps telling me I need to talk to my dad. The thing is I have. But I also need to talk to her she says. The thing is I don't know what to say to her. I have so many problems with her, and I just feel like I'm about to cry everytime we get on the subject. She's also one of the main reasons my parents got divorced. My dad started cheating on my mom with her. So basically my dad was raising two other kids (victorias children) and left us for about two years. How do I talk to Victoria? (my stepmom)
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Hey hun, i know exactly how you feel. My situation sounds almost like yours! Well..When you DO talk to her and you feel your going to cry, just let it out to show her that thats how you feel about the subject. Tell her exactly what you told me. I know it will be hard saying that she was the one who ruined your parents relationship, but you have to tell her in order for her to respect you and for her to stop bugging you about talking to her. Also now that your not living with them anymore it will be easyer to tell her the truth. Just tell her you need to talk to her alone, sit in a bedroom or on the couch in the living room just you and her,or go out to the car and sit in there with her just her. I know you might think that it might hurt her feelings but if you think about it she has caused more hurt feelings in your parents relationship and in you. If you need anymore help you know what to do! I hope i helped...
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