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Teacher...
Okay hey
well, I have this really big crush on my chorus teacher. and this isnt one of those eww god these ppl have problems kind of things so dont think that. But anyways. im 16 and he is 26. He is really really cute and he is just so sweet and funny, and REALLY flirtatious. A lot of my friends see that. I even tlak to this guy online and stuff. and he blocks EVERYONE unless they are on his buddylist, and he put me on it. Anyways... I think about him non stop. And if i have a problem, then he is always there to help me out with it and everything. and if i am faking a guy problem thing, then he is always there to help me out. A lot of my friends say that they seriously with no doubt in their minds, think that he likes me but he just wont say or do anything becasue of his job. And everyday it seems to get more and more serious about him. And now he's all telling me to stop hanging out with my friends and everything becase they are bad influences( he said this after i asked him to help me with singing lessons) and that felt like soemthing a bf would do. And i would do anything in the world for this guy and its really serious... What do i do?
-Shakenya
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did u ever think about it that its all in your head and that thats against the law . plus its just sorta wrong. anyway i think that he is just prob a nice guy and trying to help you out is just a way of him expressing himself.
p.s. you are a little freaky by thinking that you would have a intimate relationship with a teacher.
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Well, considering that if you had a relationship with him it would be illegal, then you shouldn't do anything with him. There's something off with him if he's willing to be flirty with a student who is 10 years younger than him. Possibly your getting the wrong signals from him and he's just being a good teacher opposed to flirting with you. I don't know I just think you need to find a guy in a closer age range. I'm not trying to be negative about the whole thing and I'm sorry that it's not the advice that you want to hear, but it's what I think.
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Well at the moment I don't think you should go for him. I know you really like him and all and it seems he likes you too, but it can get both of you in a lot of trouble. You can still sign up for singing lessons so you can be around him but I wouldn't try and make anything too serious happen. Hope I helped <3 Ryah
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Show up for singing lessons and start stripping during a song.
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If a grown ass man has a crush on a student, then he is seriously unbalanced. Nothing could ever come from this situation...except maybe him getting fired or slapped with a lawsuit! Dont pursue this...he may be nice and sweet but really...its sad when a man doesnt have anything better to do than hit on a 16 year old. Think about that!
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hmm...toughy! my friend had a really big crush on one her teacher once and she looked up where he lives, his phone number etc... anywayz, the best thing to do but i know it's going to be hard is seriously just get over him. I mean he's your teacher and he can get in sooo much trouble if anyone caught you guyz doin anything...so ya try to get over him...♥
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I think he likes you. But that wont look good to your school and he would get fierd if you had any relationship what so ever with him. Also he would get introuble for dateing a minor. I know you like him and all and it seems he really likes you too but your 10 years apart and thats quiet a bit. You cant stop love so you can go on liking him but i would hold off on the relationship at least untill you 18. Yes thats a long time but if you want him to stick around as your chorus teacher then i suggest you dont have a relationship with him! Sorry that advise was probibly what you didnt want to here but thats my opinion! Hope i helped!
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he is your teacher and he is bein a teacher not a b/f. he is really to old for you. also if you really care about him you won't try anything b/c it could get him into serious legal trouble and he could even get fired. so be careful i hope i helped_______Mo
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Probably the thing to do is just continue to talk to him. Make him feel more and more comfortable around you, stay after school, get "singing lessons" that cause you to have to stay after alll the time. He probably wouldn't confess it to one of your friends, just because they're young too. Wait a little bit longer, hang out with him some more, and then make a move. This is an interesting story! Let me know if he does anything after awhile. He's probably scared to go forth with something like this, it could mean his career if he gets caught. So don't tell too many people who you can't trust.
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I think that it's a little odd to like a teacher, but parents are usually not that close in age. Just tell him how you feel and see if he feels the same way. Good luck!!
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Have one of your friends or someone on his buddy list ask him if he would be with you if it wasn't for his job. And it might work out because my parents are 14-16 years apart.
XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21
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