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to believe or not to believe, that's the question
ok, here's the scoop, i asked one of my friends to talk to the guy that i like....she said that he hates me and thinx i'm ugly and stuff. i don't know whether or not to believe her and i don't know what to do. i don't really think he'd say that, but should i ask him or what? please help if you can. thanx
~ArL0*
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Is she your best friend? If not she might just be saying it because she fancies him! If you don't think he'd say that, he is a nice guy and knows she is one of your friends then he wouldn't say that. Try asking him
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ok..my question is why did you send her over..and does SHE like him???That is really harsh sounding from a guy...
His behavior will tell you how he feels about you. if he is totally avoiding you..and making snide comments about you..she was right..but if not..i wonder..what kind of friends tell YOU this??
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yes, you should go talk to him. it's possible he likes you but your friend is secretly jealous so is saying he hates you. asking him yourself is the only sure way to know. be casual when you ask, and you will most likely get a straight answer. if your friend was right, well theres other guys out there. but if he really does like you, have a one on one talk with your friend. go somewhere where theres no a lot of distractions and tell her how you felt when she lied. if your friend is sincere, she will be sorry for it. the best thing would be to forgive her and let her know your there if she needs anyone to talk to. =)
//laura
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I think you should ask him. Just go up to him and be like "you hate me?" and see what he says. And if he asks who said that tell him the truth! Your friend has no right to go and tell you stupid lies like that...And its really mean. So if he said he never said that confront your friend and ask her whats up with the lieing. She might like him too thats why shes saying that. I hope I helped.
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She sounds like she's lying. If he's really your guy friend I doubt he'd be that harsh, knowing it could easily get back around to you. I suspect she may like him as well. You should talk to him and tell him he said some hurtful things. He'll either deny it, and then you have the opportunity to tell him what she said and see how he reacts, or he'll apologize, or he'll really be nasty and say it to your face. I bet he'll deny it though, whether he did say it or not.
It sounds like she made the whole thing up though.
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you may not be able to trust that certain friend. i have lots of friends that get jealous like that. if you dont think he would say that then nip it in the but and ask him. i've done that before and that's how i found out that my friend was lying to me. take a chance...and if he tells you you're ugly, smack him across the face cuz thats extremely rude. good luck & hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
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ask him urself .. dont let other ppl do the work for you .. cuz then everything gets messed up .. go up to him
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Awww...! Well maybe you should get a friend that you really trust to ask him again, just one though not all your friends he might get mad. If he says the same thing which I'm hoping he won't, then you should ask him if he really said it. He might get embarrassed and feel bad afterwards. If he says he does like you or something I think you still should say well hey my one friend told me that you hate me and you think I'm ugly...what's up with that. Well good luck and I hope I helped. <3 Ryah
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Well since she is your friend, then yes, you should believe her! Why would a friend lie about something like that? I wouldn't want to ask him if it was true about what he said because he might tell you he did in front of everyone and you will get your feelings hurt! So yup, you should believe your friend! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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well if it's your friend, i think you should believe her on this one .... but if your that curious then go and ask the guy urself but your probably gonna get oyur feelings hurt if you do!!
*BeSs*
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Arlo,
First you have to ask yourself how much you trust this friend. She could have lied to you, especially if she was jealous or didn't want to see you happy. Me and many other people I know have the problem of asking other friends to confront people about our issues for us, because we are afraid or embarassed. Believe me, you dont want that problem. I think you should just ask him yourself.
I hope this helped!!
~MysteryGirl
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