about

I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

advice

What are some good shampoos and conditioners that aren't tested on animals?

Suave is pretty good. So is Pantene. I'm pretty sure they aren't tested on animals.

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13/f~my bff got high at school and she didnt notice~on an inhailent~she was forced abused with drugs till her mom went to rehab by smoking,shots of sumthin,alcohal,INHAILENTS~at school i mean she couldnt walk and was very clumsy and dizzy and like 'out of it'~is it bad i no its just inhailents but is it bad~she says its not but im just not sure~i mean she was kinda messed up~is it bad

Even if she didn't notice she was high, she was, obviously. If she was out of it, I'd tell the school nurse.

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i got my period a few weeks ago- more like two- for the first time. and like recently iv been like noticing smells coming from down there in the day. i know there like normal but im afraid like people can smell it... and like its really like faint but is there anything i can do to like toooo make it stop?..before it gets worse.
yeah thanks.

It's gonna smell. Just wash yourself extra good, wear a pantiliner & bring body spray with you. =)

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Ok so theres this kid and he liked me in the middle of the school year adn we would hang out alot. But my best friend at the time really liked him. So one night i was at my house with my other friend and we were on the phone with him and he asked me out and i said no because my friend liked him and i was trying to be a good friend or w.e. So we stopped talking for a while. After that I started to like him and to this day regret saying no. Now he is going out with my other friend recently and I kind of like him again. I know thats wrong and everything to do to my friend but were not like really close. Anyways me and him were hanging out the other day and his girlfriend wasnt there so we were just chilling. He was saying how he felt that him and his current girlfriend arent going to last and stuff. So he left his keys on the couch and I took them and he didnt notice until he was about to leave. Then we were just joking around and he was like on my lap and stuff. Im really confused about this whole thing and if I shouldnt be liking my friends boyfriend. I feel bad but, I regret saying no to him. Should I still regret it and should i like him?

If you & your friend aren't close, & you like him, tell him. Tell him you regret saying no, and he said himself they aren't gonna last. When they break up, go in for it. =)

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how can i take off my acrylic fake nails without going back into the salon to get them taken off?

ive heard about soaking them in hot water.

Soak them in acetone & peel them off. I didn't feel like doing that though, so I bit the tip until the nail cracked, and then I just took it off like that.

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i really want a ringtone that is a song. i really really want "this is why i'm hott" by mims. but i don't want to pay $9.99 a month for a ringtone. is there anywhere where i can download my own ringtone from my itunes? i know there is one, i just don't know the name of the website. and is it free? i would really like it to be free. thanks everyone!!!!!

Well, since you have Verizon, I'm guessing you have VCAST. It's 9.99 a month to buy ringtones from Verizon? Mine are 2.50 a piece, and I've got cingular, and that just comes up as the charge on my bill. I'd just buy it off my phone instead of going through the trouble to get it from ITunes.

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how to i get a guy 2 like me?

Be yourself, and be confident. If a guy sees you have confidence, he'll be attracted because confidence is sexy. Don't be afraid to be yourself. You know how you can be a dork around your best friend, and you know they won't care cause they'll be doing the same thing? Be like that around him. He'll know that you're not shy, and that you're not afraid to let people see how you really are. Flirt with him too. Smile at him a lot & make eye contact. Just be yourself, be confident & flirt. But don't come on too strong, it'll be initimidating.

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okay...so this might be long but i really need help with this....i really like this guy, we'll call him H. he is a really good friend of mine and we talk all the time about all kinds of thing, but he likes one of my bff, lets call her S. they have had some problems and other things and whatever problem H has with S is expected to be fixed by me. H is one of my bff so i cant just say no, and he knows i like him, but he asks me to do these things anyway. they are my bff so i try my best to fix things between them and get them back together even though it kills me. i just want to be able to stop liking him and just be friends. anyone wanna help me?

If he knows you like him, but he does this anyways, then he's not really your friend. He's rude. He's rubbing it in your face that they're together by getting you to fix their problems. Stop holding his hand & let him fix his problems himself. Don't look at him in a boyfriend-girlfriend way, because it's making things awkward. Find someone else that you really like, and that likes you back & won't be rude to you about it.

You deserve better & so much more.

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he says he deserves repsect from me but i think i do from him.

he cusses at me, and hes uber hypacrtitical.

he says i have to change if i want to live in his house.

uhm HES NOT MY REAL FATHER !

and there is no fucking way that im going to change for anyone, especially him.

so. i kinda cut. /:

Don't cut yourself over somebody else. I learned that the hard way, and sometimes I regret it. Anyways, if he doesn't respect you, then don't respect him. You're absolutely right. I don't understand how somebody could want respect but then give you none in return. Which is hypocritical. Talk to your mom about it. He's not your real father, so he shouldn't treat you that way. But until he starts repsecting you, disrespect him.

Fuck that "YOU SHOULD ALWAYS RESPECT YOUR ELDERS" shit. If they don't give you respect, then they don't deserve it themselves.

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I want the jordans retro 3 the black, red, and white ones. Are they coming out tomorow or next month??

Check a shoe store site. They should have it. Try Foot Locker or something.

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okay well i'm 13 and a female and i had already lost my virginity and this girl at school had found out now she's telling every one what should i do? i mean i don't want her to and at first she promised me she wouldn't tell any one then she goes off and tells the girls that will twist and spread rumors like "did you know so-and-so had sex with 20 different guys?"(when it was only one) or "yea she works at a strip club downtown"(i don't hello)

i don't know what to do and now my reputation is on the line.please help!

and thanks!

If she ruins your reputation, it'd be dumb for you to sink to her level & ruin her's, but then again, revenge is sweet. Ruin her reputation and see how she likes it.

Or just confront her about it & she has a smart remark, punch her in the face.

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Well, so there's this guy and we are best friends, i think. it's really confusing we've been best freinds for a year now and he has these mood swings like a woman. So anyways i just went up north for 5 days and he tells me when i get back that he dosnt miss me. but now my other best friend says that while i was gone he said this really mean stuff about me. Now just this wendesday which was the day i got back my best friend goes away. then she tells me that he sent her a text saying. - hey are you having fun yet I MISS YOU- it hasnt even been a day yet. now these guys have dated before and they found that it was a bad idea. so they dont like each other anymore. O and when we talk hes always bragging about how hes talked to her more and she blah blah with her more. It makes me so mad please help me understnad whats going on with him i feel like we are like an never ending rollar coaster.

If he was talking shit about you behind your back, then confront him about it. Did you hear it from a reliable source? Maybe she said that to you because she's jealous that you guys are friends. Some girls are just evil or whatever, so they do that stuff to manipulate you & ruin your friendships. Just ask him up front, and if he really said it then you what kind of friend he is.

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Ok so I'm a year older then all of my friends. And I don't want them to know. I didn't get left back or anything. I have my reasons why I don't want them to know. So I'm scared that if one of them sees my school I.D. They will see that I wasn't born the same year they were. I'm so scared. I really can't tell them the truth don't ask why please. So I was wondering if someone can help me make up a lie. I kniw lying is bad but I'm desperate. This tortures me so much!. I need a lie to tell them why it says that I'm a year older. Like I don't know maybe my passport did that when I came here I seriously need help please!

You shouldn't have to lie about your age. I'm older than some of my friends, and some of my friends are older than me. It doesn't affect our friendship or get in the way. I mean, yeah some of them can drink & whatever, but it doesn't bother me. Friends don't care how old you are, they care about you, and your personality. Age is nothing, so stop worrying about it.

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could never quite comprehend that...
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Cant you tell when someone doesnt love you,
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Dont you feel when the love isnt authentic...
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Isnt the lovemaking so distanced and cold,icy cold...
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When you look in their eyes dont you see love dont
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live there,at least not love for you...



Why do most of you torture yourselves in that manner...
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why do you you spend x amount of money to hold on to
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a person that just does not love you the way you would
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want them to...


Why put yourself through such agony..where is your integrity...
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where is YOUR LOVE FOR SELF...
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where is it...
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What is so WRONG with many of us...
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Where is the RIGHT within that is standing for
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our defense....


YOU always know,deep down inside when someone just
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does NOT LOVE YOU...


Okay, so what exactly is your question?

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Maybe I'm just a person who feels this way, but when I give advice, half the people don't even respond to me, like give me a rating. Of course I know it's their decision to rate, but I really don't appreciate the fact that I spend a good amount of time answering a question, and the person doesn't rate me. Does anybody else feel this way?

I don't really care for ratings. Just as long as I help someone to try & solve their problem or whatever. The ratings & feedback don't matter to me. That's not my reward.

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Hey
For my birthday, I'm going to a fair with a lot of friends. Then friday's for dinner. It should be really fun. The boy I like is coming and it makes me a little nervous. I really want him to like me and I'm starting to think he does. What can I do?

Just be yourself. Flirt with him, smile at him. Make eye contact, but don't totally just ignore everyone else & concentrate on him.

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when guys have sex for the first time , why do they always cum quickly?
I mean im sure they have masturbated before..
And since they cum so quickly , would it still be enjoyable?

Maybe he can't control it. But, yeah the sex would still be enjoyable.

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So my cousin lives with me.But she's jealous of me - saying how get all this stuff when she has it.I've never done anything to her.She touches my stuff like all little sisters and siblings do.She's very rude and gets into trouble at school.But no Im so upset that Im crying because she took some of my jewellery and broke it and then took something of mine which has sentamental value,put it under the wheel of bed and started scraping my REAL jewells of and everything and she dont know whats it like for me -sharing a room and being the girl whos being hated.How do i control my stress because all I want to do is runaway and everything i own - really nice stuff i ALL GONE - and she denies it well shes admitted to it but she still lies

Is there another room of the house she could go to? If so, either you move there, or she does. And make sure there's a lock on the door. Get a lock on it, and lock the door so she can't go in there. Or, I'd talk to your mom about what's going on.

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Well, I've been going out with my boyfriend for a month and half, about. I like him a lot, and my friend likes his brother a lot too. Both my friend and I found out yesterday, out of the blue, that they`re both moving to the state neighboring us. For me, its hared enough to see him because I have a strict father. I don't know I can handle him moving away because I'd never see him. I want to break up with him because I think its best, but he said theres a chance he might come back here if he doesn't like the new school. I don't want to break up with him now, just in case he comes back,but I don't wanna wait because then he might think I found someone else. I have no idea what I should do. Any advice?


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If you really like him, don't let distance stop you. Continue seeing him, and if he comes back, you've got nothing to worry about. And if he doesn't, distance shouldn't stop you.

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Hi,
Alright...I've always been known as a tomboy. But in 6th grade I started liking this boy. I would NEVER tell anyone. But, I told myself that I shouldn't care what people think of me, just ask him out. But I can't do that because he's BEST friends with all my friends (that are boys)!! Especially my BEST BEST friend who've I've been friends with since pre-school!!! So, it's been 2 years and I still like him! He talks to me a lot and our lockers are RIGHT next to eachother! So I don't know how my friend would feel. But lately he's been asking ME what the homework was and talking to me when he's near me. On top of that, my BEST BEST friend (that's a boy) told me that the boy I like thinks I'm cool (but he doesn't know[no one does]). And on to of all THAT, I've been hearing his name come up more with my friends (girls and boys). So, I don't know if he likes ME now or not. But now, I'm going to move at the end of the summer, and I figure that on the last day of school I'm going to ask him out. IVE NEVER HAD A BOYFRIEND BEFORE! Should I ask him out? Does he like me? Would my other friends feel awkward? I'm so condused!

If you like him, tell him. Don't wait til the last day of school to ask him out. Ask him out now! The last day of school is months from now, and if he likes you, it's gonna bug you to wait so long. So talk to him, ask him out. I doubt your other friends will feel awkward. It shouldn't bother them. My boyfriend is friends with practically everyone I'm friends with, and they didn't care that we started dating. Everything is the same between everyone.

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