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triangle of sorts
okay...so this might be long but i really need help with this....i really like this guy, we'll call him H. he is a really good friend of mine and we talk all the time about all kinds of thing, but he likes one of my bff, lets call her S. they have had some problems and other things and whatever problem H has with S is expected to be fixed by me. H is one of my bff so i cant just say no, and he knows i like him, but he asks me to do these things anyway. they are my bff so i try my best to fix things between them and get them back together even though it kills me. i just want to be able to stop liking him and just be friends. anyone wanna help me?
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He really shouldn't expect you to fix things between him and your other friend. Just say no. But if you want to stop liking him, focus on other things. Get into something after school to look forward to, like a sports team. Hang out with other friends, flirt with other guys, just get your mind off of him. That should work.
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If he knows you like him, but he does this anyways, then he's not really your friend. He's rude. He's rubbing it in your face that they're together by getting you to fix their problems. Stop holding his hand & let him fix his problems himself. Don't look at him in a boyfriend-girlfriend way, because it's making things awkward. Find someone else that you really like, and that likes you back & won't be rude to you about it.
You deserve better & so much more.
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