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boyfriends moving =[
Well, I've been going out with my boyfriend for a month and half, about. I like him a lot, and my friend likes his brother a lot too. Both my friend and I found out yesterday, out of the blue, that they`re both moving to the state neighboring us. For me, its hared enough to see him because I have a strict father. I don't know I can handle him moving away because I'd never see him. I want to break up with him because I think its best, but he said theres a chance he might come back here if he doesn't like the new school. I don't want to break up with him now, just in case he comes back,but I don't wanna wait because then he might think I found someone else. I have no idea what I should do. Any advice?
[14/f]
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ok, well first you have to talk to your boyfriend about it. tell him what you think.
and see what he says. and FOLLOW YOUR INSTINCTS!
if you think you should break up with him, break up with him, if you think you shouldnt, dont.
as easy as that.
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I totally understand. I think you should talk to your boyfriend about it. Tell him you think it's best. Chances are, you'll probably want to move on once he's gone. But something else you should do is follow your heart. WHat do you think? If you don't break up with him now, you could realy regret it. Ask him what he thinks is best. If you talk to him, then you could both be happy.
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your completly right in every thing if you really dont want to break up with him than say lets go on a breake its putting it in a nice way and honestly the best solution is to go on a break or break up with him because your not going to get to see him and you both can met somebody new or worse one of the to of you could wind up really hurting the other theres a saying for a reason
"LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS NEVER WORK" and i have yet to prove that statement wrong i hope i helped goodluck remeber theres plenty of other fish in the sea my inbox is always open if you need any more advice
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If you really like him, don't let distance stop you. Continue seeing him, and if he comes back, you've got nothing to worry about. And if he doesn't, distance shouldn't stop you.
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hey, well sometimes long distance relationships work. then again, sometimes they dont. i would try it out if you really like this guy. maybe every weekend or every other weekend you guys can see each other. work some type of visiting plan out. other than that, it will be a phone/computer relationship.
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