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hey

so my boyfriend and i have been talking about oral towards eachother.

and i was just wondering, how do i give it to him?

and what do i do when he gives it to me?

help.. (link)
hey

well, don't ever start out just sucking him. cause he's not aroused. you gotta work up to it. like, when you guys are making out, take off his shirt, or better yet, unbutton it if possible, keep kissing down his body up to the beginning of his pants & sloooowly start unbuttoning them & stick your tongue down a little past his boxers / underwear. he might like jerk up cause he's suprised but that will turn him on. then, take his pants off & his boxers, and just start out slow with a handjob. do it slowly & when you think he's gettinn horny, start going faster & then keep doing a handjob while you suck him. guys really like it when your lips can touch all the way up his penis, not just like the end of it. or, as they say, "deep throat it." but your goal is to work up to the blowjob - not start out with it.

when he licks you, just moan or say "ohhh" to let him know you like it. but only do it when you like it cause otherwise he will keep doing whatever he is doing when you don't like it. close your eyes & like girate your body so he knows your aroused. & enjoy, pretty much!

http://www.google.com/search?q=how+to+give+a+blowjob&start=0&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&client=firefox-a&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official
^ good helpful sites.


Ok.I'm basically not skinny. I've tryed EVERYTHING to get it to go away. I've done dieting, but I keep on braking them, and I'm already in about 1 thosand sports. So I'm thinking about only eating lunch and a little dinner everyday, but I don't know how bad that is for me. Like for lunch, a salad, orange juice (which is nasty), and for dinner maybe only an apple. So should I do it or not? Plus, I need to know if I should do it or not, what should I do? (link)
hey girl

i totally know how you feel - but it's way stupider to do that! you know why? cause the LESS food you put in your body, good or not, the less calories you burn off, and the slower your metabolism goes :/'

the problem is probably that you're turning the "fat" into muscle by doing so many sports! do only one or two - muscle weighs more than fat.

eat 6 "snacks" a day. one could be like, yogurt & cereal in a bowl, another could be a fruit cup, or even like a strawberry smoothie (low-fat). just get all your food groups in - not just fruits & veggies like everyone says. that way you'll get so many nutrients & vitamins that your metabolism will be fast throughout the day.

another tip is to eat your meals smallest to largest. aka, breakfast the largest, dinner the smallest. know why? cause if you eat the most food in the morning, it will keep you going & keep you energetic & active throughout the day. however, if you do it the other way around, all the food from dinner sits in your stomach & turns into fat. also, allow 2-3 hours after dinner to let the food digest. don't just hit the hay after dinner.


http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=176423191
kay like this is my myspace.. um do i look cute? check the pictures (link)
hey

OHMYGOD you are goooorgeous & i LOVELOVELOVE your side bangs! do not ever grow them out because they just flow with your face! they look best in picture number three "yummy"

you look really tan in the first one (in a good way) ha except your bangs are liiiiil messed up. but you still look cute.

my fave? pic three - "yummy".. gahhh i am SO jealous of your bangs! please rate & submit feedback & TELL me how you get them that wayy! adoohhhrable.

or please send me to your advicenators linkk i want my bangs like that!

thank youu erinn!

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hi im a guy 13, i was wondering how to get a girl to like you, and how to keep a conversation going...i want to know whats most important to a girl. (link)
hey

hm... well it all depends on the girl. like if she likes you, it's obvious cause she'll flirt with you, smile a lot, stare at you, do things to get your attention like ask you what you got on a test, etc. not all girls will like you, just like all guys won't like me. so the first question all depends on the girl. my suggestion is to not be forward with her. like if you like a girl, don't suddenly start talking about things & ask her for her sn / number & ask her to hang out all in the same week! super major turn off - to me at least.

just do small talk at first with her, like, "so, go anywhere for spring break?" or, "man i wish i did better on this test! what did you get?" this is a lot easier to do if you have a class with her. it might be sorta awkward if you guys don't have any classes together. it's also okay if she doesn't sit near you. but don't stare at her ALL the time. like sometimes it's okay, she'll like it.

how to keep a conversation going? ask her about herself. like, the perfect way to start out, as i listed above, was to just ask her how she did on a test / quiz. then, start out with more personal questions, like siblings, hobbies. if you have one of your guyfriends sitting near you, say to him (while she's listening) "yo man you never go on AIM (or whatever instant messenger you use) anymore..." & casually ask her for her sn. she'll probably give it to you, unless she's a total butthead, in which case you shouldn't even be thinking about her. but most-likely, she's not :]

what's important to a girl? errmm a little vague, but do you mean what does she like in a guy or in a relationship? first off, all girls are different. if you go on advicenators a lot, you probably have heard this dozens of times. so i'll be more precise. all girls are different, but MOST girls like a guy to not ONLY think she's hot, but for her personality as well. MOST girls like guys who will bother to go out of their way for her, & ask her about herself. girls like being flattered with gifts, etc. when in a relationship. they like surprise gifts (most girls anyway) & don't just wanna date a guy for the physical stuff, like hotness & boobs. ha so just make sure you dont rush into things unless you are posssitive she digs you.

i'm assuming you already like a girl, so my suggestion is to talk to her a little bit & always sound friendly. but don't rush into it too fast. i know you're gonna wanna keep talking to her & just ask her for her sn & hang out with her / ask her out, already! but that might just freak her out, especially if she doesn't like you right now. say hi to her in the hallways, smile at her (not too much though) and just look at her from across the room for a few seconds. most girls love that.

i hope i answered your question & good luck with the girl :]


Got any suggestions of ways to say hi to him...i have him in gym but his friends are always with him and i dont really want to say hi if his friends are there..cuz of the whole "manly" thing..also I stand by his locker cuz my best friend is by him and also he's in my best friends homeroom and i go in there sometimes...any good ways to say hi to him without looking like an idiot? hahahah please get back to me...thanks for the other advice by the way! [:

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hey

well when he's alone in gym & you're passing by him, just make eye contact first (if he never sees you, don't say hi without first making eye contact) & say "hi" & smile. seem happy. if he looks at you, smiles & says "heyy!" then good job! you should be proud. but i DOUBT he'll be like, "um hi." do not say this when you're around all this guyfriends if you're not self-confident and / or not friends with them.

just be casual. eye contact. smile. "hey." who knows? maybe you guys will start saying hi to each other in the hallway. cause my guyfriend once said hi to me in the hallway ( i knew him from a couple of my classes) & now in the hallway we say hi by tripping each other, poking each other, giving dirty looks (jokingly) etc. so be flirty, be cute! but do NOT make eye contact from like 4309238423 feet away & then start walking towards him. allow 2 seconds of eye contact & be close enough to say hi. like in the hallway would be perfect.

i hope i helped & good luck with your boyy :]


Okay so here's the story...I was walking with my best "guy friend" (REALLY Lol) and also my best friend (a girl) and like this guy that I like i hardly talk to him (i know how gay) but i really like him....yesterday in the hall after school he came up and said hi to me...and my friend said he was staring at my group in gym when we were doing this stupid jumping jack routine in front of the whole gym class (there were 2 other groups doing it at the same time but my friend says he was staring at MY group). Now when I went back to school he doesn't really even acknowledge me..like i guess he looks at me but he wont say hi again....do you think its because of something "manly" that he doesn't want to get rejected in some way?? Do you think I should say hi to him since he said hi to me? Do you think he'd start talking to me then?? Or do you think I'd look like an idiot?? He is "popular" so yehhh . =/ Please help!!

~Wondering if I should say Hi (link)
hey

hm... that's weird! our gym class was doing jumping jack routines too...

aaanyway, yes, for sure, definitely say hi to him because he said it to you. maybe he withdrew because you haven't said hi to him.

go for it!

don't worry if he is popular - you must be popular too if he said hi to you :]


What does it mean to have fully developed nipples? (link)
hey

it means that they have expanded / gotten as big as they possibly can & can't grow anymore. this usually happens after your breasts have fully developed because as the breast grows, the nipple expands along with it... sorta like how your nose keeps growing until your face stops growing- your nose wouldn't stop growing if your face kept growing!

you will probably have fully developed nipples a few years after you finish puberty. anywhere between 16 - 25.

for guys, it would be later- like maybe 18 - 30. (maybe not as late as 30, but just making a point).

all in all, it just means that they can't grow anymore =]

i hope i helped!


14/f


i jog daily. i don't want bigger thys or to gain weigh even if it is with muscle. i have enough muscle. i want to get smaller thys and a butt. i am not fat, the rest of me is small my thys are just unproportional. will running slim me down if i run a little over a mile a day? if it doesnt, what will get my thys smaller (link)
hey

well, there aren't really any ways to "slim down" your thighs & butt except by creating more muscle.

by running a mile a day, you will intially be making them bigger with muscle.

to slim them down, i suggest not jogging / running / working out (except in gym if you must) for like a week & see if they slim down.

or, just eat healthy foods & not work out (in case you are concious about gaining weight by not working out).

you can always "slim down" by not creating muscle by joining a yoga class... you sweat it all out & it REALLY helps with stress. if you are a busy girl during the week, go to the class every weekend! TRUST me, it helps.

i hope i helped you out a little :]


my friend and i both use limewire, and our limewires will start up, but when we type in songs..no results come up
is there a problem with limewire? because i know this is happening to other people

i tried uninstalling and installing it again
and i just want my music

is there any way to fix this?
and if not..is there any other good programs to download music?

i tried bearshare but i didnt lyk it

thanks in advance (link)
try morpheus, if ur lotz president is stopping it, then he obviousely aint stopping morpheus. so yeah, use morpheus, it also filters out viruses out better


what the heck is that supposed to mean? is it some sort of code i dont know? or something?? (link)
hey

if you turn your head to the right 90 degrees, it makes a heart

you can also make a heart with two or more 3s, showing that you REALLY love something / someone

x3 can also mean a heart

example: mike x333333333 means you really really like mike. instead of just mike x3


do most people have this font: Script MT Bold on their computer? (link)
hey

i can't tell you if most people do, but i sure do. keep this question up to see what other people say.


Okay, I have to find a 4-5 minute monologue, and its from a movie i've NEVER seen, its called stealing magnolias or steal magnolias one or the other. I am doing Dolly Partons Monologue, i need a website to be able to read her monologue's she says in the movie thanks... (link)
no website actually has a monologue for any of the characters for STEEL (as in the metal) magnolias. is you look on those big movie database sites, and look on the quotes, it might be there. and it was also a play, so you could try gatting the book, if there is one, and reading it from there. maybe a library has it.


I have a shih tzu named Oreo, he's black and white. I just got a new brown and white shih tzu and I was just looking for a name that goes with Oreo. Any ideas? (link)
i say, you call it something thats brown and white. um.....cookies are brown and white, the white chocolate ones? cookie maybe? because oreos are a cookie. i say you think of a bunch of things that are brown and white. because oreo's are like sorta black and white. so yeah.


I badly want to download some MP3 files for my computer

(Akon-I wanna love you,Neo-I'm so sick of love songs, Justin Timberlake- what goes around comes around etc)

please please give me some website links where I can download free mp3
I've been trying so hard to find websites but all websites I manged to find so far had some sort of payments in it..

please give me websites where I can download free MP3. I would so appriciate it!
THANKS A MILLION IN ADVANCE (link)
there aren't any websites, but programs you can download. theres limewire, which most people use, but that gives me a lot of viruses. morpheus is better, because you get no viruses. I-mesh, is a program that combiones the search of morpheus, limewire etc, and gives you the best results it can find, aswell as filtering the viruses out. i use morpheus, but most people use limewire. try one out. hope i helped


So im 14/f and i got my FIRST period march 10th and ive got them normally and stuff but i have it now and like when i peed i looked and i was peeing blood (duhh) but when i was done peeing and i was gonna wipe but i looked down and blood was like still coming out and it wouldnt stop but i wasent peeing?
it was just like a stream of blood that wouldnt stop but i just wiped it anyways because it was still going after like a minute, ANYWAYS this is scarying me is it normal?? should i be worried??

whats wrong :[ (link)
Yeah. I've had my period for like 3 years, and I still have that. I'm pretty sure that most people do. Sometimes it's water and sometimes it's thick. If you wear a pad, it does the same thing in your pad (drips stringy) but you just can't see. Totally normal, don't be scared!


What do you list when you write a bibliography? Because the way I did it, it doesn't look right:

www.__________.com (website)
NDOANONFNFKFNSKF (name of web)
April.12, 20007 (date i foudn the site)

maybe it's in wrong order?

What about for books? (please write them in order)

thanks (link)
maybe you should do name of website, the address, then date. for books its:

name of book
author's name
publisher
and sometimes, the date you used it


wheres a place to get easier guitar tab with words under the tab for evanescence going under and imaginary and tourniquet (link)
e-chords.com and chordie.com are really good sites for guitar tabs. chordie.com rate thier tabs as easy, difficult etc, so you can pick which one you want, depending on whether you're a beginner, etc.


What do you list when you write a bibliography? Because the way I did it, it doesn't look right:

www.__________.com (website)
NDOANONFNFKFNSKF (name of web)
April.12, 20007 (date i foudn the site)

maybe it's in wrong order?

What about for books? (please write them in order)

thanks (link)
Here you go, this site explains it. :]

http://www.downersgrovelibrary.org/pages/writeabiblio.html


Im 14/f and Im really interested in becomimg a vegetarian/vegan. I was wondering do you have ot take any extra vitamins or anything? I already take One Source for Women but would I need any thing else to get all the nutrition I need? thanks in advance!! (link)
Not just extra vitamins, you need LOTS of stuff. If you don't get exactly what you need, you could be seriously harmed! Our bodies are designed to need meat. And if you are just doing this to follow the crowd, you could be putting yourself at risk. Please re-think this.

It is very easy for a vegan diet to meet the recommendations for protein, as long as calorie intake is adequte. Strict protein combining is not necessary; it is more important to eat a varied diet throughout the day.

So, how much protein do you need? The RDA recommends that we take in 0.8 grams of protein for every kilogram that we weigh (or about 0.36 grams of protein per pound that we weigh)


Meeting Protein Needs:
Protein Content of Selected Vegan Foods
FOOD AMOUNT PROTEIN(gm) PROTEIN(gm/100 cal)
Tempeh, 1 cup, 41, 9.3
Seitan, 3 ounces, 31, 22.1
Soybeans, cooked, 1 cup, 29, 9.6
Lentils, cooked, 1 cup, 18, 7.8
Black beans, cooked, 1 cup 15, 6.7
Kidney beans, cooked, 1 cup 13, 6.4
Veggie burger, 1 patty, 13, 13.0
Chickpeas, cooked 1 cup 12, 4.2
Veggie baked beans, 1 cup, 12, 5.0
Pinto beans, cooked, 1 cup, 12, 5.7
Black-eyed peas, cooked, 1 cup, 11, 6.2
Tofu, firm, 4 ounces, 11, 11.7
Lima beans, cooked, 1 cup, 10, 5.7
Quinoa, cooked, 1 cup, 9, 3.5
Tofu, regular, 4 ounces, 9, 10.6
Bagel 1 med. (3 oz) 9, 3.9
Peas, cooked 1 cup, 9, 6.4
Textured Vegetable Protein (TVP), cooked 1/2 cup 8, 8.4
Peanut butter 2 Tbsp 8, 4.3
Veggie dog 1 link 8, 13.3
Spaghetti, cooked 1 cup 8, 3.7
Almonds 1/4 cup 8, 3.7
Soy milk, commercial, plain 1 cup 7, 7.0
Soy yogurt, plain 6 ounces 6, 4.0
Bulgur, cooked 1 cup 6, 3.7
Sunflower seeds 1/4 cup 6, 3.3
Whole wheat bread 2 slices 5, 3.9
Cashews 1/4 cup 5, 2.7
Almond butter 2 Tbsp 5, 2.4
Brown rice, cooked 1 cup 5, 2.1
Spinach, cooked 1 cup 5, 13.0
Broccoli, cooked 1 cup 4, 6.8
Potato 1 med.
(6 oz) 4, 2.7


any good sites to download photoshop brushes for 7.0?

i googled already

thanks (link)
websoup.org > resources > brushes




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