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Is a 27 inch waist small, average, or large for a 15 year old girl? 5"4 (link)
um id say average probably...
maybe slightly smaller like 4/10 if 5 was avg.

=]


soo i have some acne but its basically gone down a lot because ive been on meds and creams. however, everytime i get a pimple it scars my face, whether i pick/pop it or not. ahhh IRRITATING! soo what can i do? i use bleaching cream stuff [tazorac] and it helps quite a bit but you can still see the scars.. so what can i do [no laser treatment, chemical peels, etc.. wayy too much $$], and why does it always scar my face and how can i prevent it? (link)
there are a number of creams and solutions out at the moment that can help reduce the appearance of scars, all of which are available at chemists etc. i suffer from acne and find that aloe vera gel works really well on getting rid of spots as well as reducing the scar tissue. sometimes scars will fade in time, but it often depends on how deep the scaring is.

i hope this helps


I was suppost to get my period Friday and it's Sunday and still hasn't come. Is this normal? I got my firt period during summer so is it still irregular? I usually get it every 28 days but it's late for some reason. Is this normal? (link)
dont worry about it hun, it is perfectly normal to have irregular periods for anywhere up to two years. but if your still concerned you can always talk to your mum (motherly figure), a close friend, or if you think that there could be a medical reason behind it then i would recommend that you consult your doctor.

hope this is of some help


well my myspace is wicked screwed up. the layout was taken off and everything was weird .. so i changed my password. now everythings fine except when i click to see my pics, it goes to some random website instead .. and the same thing when i click to look at my friends myspaces. howw can i fix it? (link)
it probably got phished by a company, you should contact myspace (or tom) and tell them i think they can fix it, if not u can always get a new 1!


Why is there not a lot of guys in advicenators man we need to step up. (link)
why does it matter? everyone is just here 2 give advice...


but anyways,probably because most guys dont like enjoy giving advice.its more of a girl thing i guess.........


I went to get what were supossed to be highlights last year. First of all, THEY WERE WHITE BLONDE! Second, they dyed ALL of it! Not just highlights! So, I freaked out and a month later I went to another hair salon, they made it red. THEN about two months ago, I went to another place and the guy added some brown and blonde highlights, so now it looks BARELY any better, but not as bad. The way it looks is really lowering my self esteem and how I feel about the way I look. It's already grown out about 3 inches, though. I seriously think I will kill someone if they screw up my hair again. & my parents will probably scream if I ask if I can go to another salon and fix it. What should I do? (link)
have you tried writing a complaint to the salon/s that did your hair in the first place? doing that could get you your money back and they may also sort the problem out. i am studying a hair dressing course atm and personally i would leave your hair a bit longer before dying it anymore, all of the chemicals will dry out your hair and make it look brittle and damaged. but if your still concerned about it you could try buying a home dying kit (a darker colour than your hair is now, as a lighter colour wont cover it)

i hope this helps


have you Taking Back Sunday fans been to a concert in the louder now tour? if so how was it?


or any other tour.


thanks:)

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i saw them once as a support band for green day over in the UK. i thought they were pretty good... deffo got the crowed warmed up for green day! and i would probably go and see them again if i had the chance!

hope that helps


okay, my mom has this friend who has a boy my age and im seeing him this weekend was wondering what i should wear to IMPRESSSS?


13/f :] (link)
wear whatever you feel most comfortable and confident in, confidence is one of the main ways in impressing a guy. you could glam up a casual look with a few simple acessories so that you look amazing and it wont look like you have tried to hard! simple yet effective.

there have been many surveys and tests completed and apparently having shiny hair attracts men... i dont know how true that is! but hey! its deffinatly worth a go =D

hope this helps a little



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Well is there anyway to get it covered like in the box above (the polka dots) like codes??

Thanks!
PS -- If you want to add me on myspace and/or facebook go ahead the more friends the better haha
Oh yea and my parents DO know about my myspace! (link)
hey

look i'm really sorry i dont know how to cover that up, but i just wanted to tell you that you are seriously one of the prettiest girls i have ever seen!

i tried googling it but nothing came up- i'm sure someone else can help you out thoughh.

or, go around myspace & find someone that has it covered up & message then to ask how they did it :] most people are pretty cool about it


14/f OKAy my dad has been battling cancer of and on since i was about 9 im 14 now and about 3 months ago all the cancer was gone and i was sooo happpy well last week he got realli sick and had to go to the hospital to get his kidneys fixed.. well they think he has bladder cancer now.. I cryed a little bit but i keep tryint to hold it all in... last time my dad had cancer i had a major breakdown with my 3 really close friends, i dont liek ot break down but they were thhere for me and they talked me through everythign.... well no i feel like i have noone to break down to and i realy feel like i need to just once and let all my anger and sadness out..but the friends i did it with last time we arent really friends anymore becausse we went to different high schools when high school started.. now i feel like if i want to talk to anyone 1. they wont care and 2. they will think differntly of me because i am the girl who is easy to become friends with but im alwsy the one to listen to there problems and i rarely let anyone know whats goign on in my life.. i feel like if i done have a "breakdown" soon something bad is goign to happen.. i dont wanna become depressed but i think i am on the rode to major depresseion and i used to cut myself and i really dont wanna start that up again but i feel that if i need to i will.....What do i do!!!!!!!?!?!? i cant go to any counselers cause i never feel comfortable with them.... how do i talk to my friends about it !?!?!?! im just soo lost iu dont knoe what to do with myself??
ANy advice will help
THank you in advance (link)
the last thing that you want to do is to start cutting yourself again. talk to someone at school, teachers can sometimes help (or at least they think they can). if you feel that you want to talk to your friends at school just explain whats happening, im sure that they will understand and will be willing to listen. you wont know until you try =) plus talking to people on here will help you and im sure you will get exellent advice on what to do. if you think that you will become depressed then maybe going to see a doctor will help you. if you feel like you need to talk to someone i am here, along with lots of other people.
hope this helped


Thursday i told my friends i was going out with my crush in my gym class. when i told them one of my friends ask me praivtely if me and him are going to kiss. i look at her and said "ummm yeah why?" she respond "well you know i dont like when people kiss"

(because she told me she hated when she see people kiss in movies or in person she thinks its gross)its odd cause we are all teens but why would she seem gross out when people kiss?

anyways i couldnt belive she said that and that made me think 'is she jealous of me or him? or does she want a realtionship too with soemone?' she never met the guy before and he is new to the school. so what do you think? (link)
she might be jealous of you, but there are many people that find kissing in public a bit gross. sometimes there is nothing people hate more than turning around and seeing someone with someone elses tongue down their throat. maybe you should just ask her, or make a point of not kissing infront of her. that way she has nothing to worry about.

on the otherhand perhaps she is worried that you will start to spend more time with him that you will with her. just make sure that you say to her that if you were with a guy it wont effect your relationships with your friends.

hope this helps


15/f. Is it possible to be at such an early age?

1. I don't trust ANYONE. Not even my parents. Nobody understands. Nobody WANTS to understand. They don't want it to be their problem. They shrug it off. My parents make up excuses to not have to deal with me, since I'm at the *uncontrolled teen* stage of my life.
2. I cut myself
3. I don't talk to anyone. I'm antisocial, and I seem to hate everyone/everything.
4. I cry for no reason. I'm very sensitive and have gone through a lot of personal pain in my life. (getting raped).
5. My parents's pressure over school is KILLING me
6. I seem to have the need to be PERFECT at all times, and it's driving me CRAZY.
7. I think life is worthless. I think *I'M* worthless. I'm incredibly pessimistic.
8. I want to see a therapist and have had suicidal thoughts.
9. I have a really serious case of OCD.
10. Nobody in school like me. People reject me/ignore me, and never want to talk to me. I have absolutely NO friends. And the people that ARE supposedly my friends, have no trust from me. I believe they're there to just use me and screw me over. I don't consider them anyone towards me.
11. I have no one to talk to. Nobody to spill my feelings onto and have them help me.
There are many more *symptoms*. But I didn't want to make it too long. This is pretty much an outline of what is happening to me. Am I seriously depressed? (link)
you sound like your in need of a friend, someone that you can talk to. you also sound like you may be suffering from depression, but as im not a doctor i obviously cant tell you that for sure. talk to your doctor and they will try and help you the best they can. untill then you are always welcome to talk to me about anything... i have been through a lot in my life and im a very understanding person.

hope this is of some help?!


So, I've been watching the show Endurace: High Sierras, until all of a sudden, they stopped showing it. I got to the show before the final. Does anyone know who won? Purple or Green?
thankyou [: (link)
Green won.



i hope i helped :D


ok so my address bar isn't showing up what should i do??? (link)
hey

you can go to "view" "toolbars" and click the one that's missing

or right click on the gray area at the top, like near file, and check the one that's missing.


do you have any ideas when mariah's album will out this year?

Thanks

ps: DONT TELL ME TO GOOGLE IT. (link)
you may have already tried this, but have you looked on her website? if there is a new album comming out then usually it would be advertised on there. if not then you could always try asking in a music store to see if they have any idea about it.

i hope this helps a little


today when i was taking a shower i noticed my one nipple was really dark, like almost black.. does anyone know why this could be? (link)
it could be nothing, but on the other hand it could be something quite serious. if your still worried about it in a few days then i would get it checked out by your local doctor.

hope this helps


How can you ask a guy if he likes you still without sounding desperate?...I know he used to like me but now he doesn't say it...he's not his old self..and I just want to know..how can I? (link)
i agree with the other answer. i think that if your straight with him he shouldnt think that you sound desperate. it could be easier to do it over msn, phone or yahoo etc. that way you can just ask it and you wont have to feel shy about it or worry about it so much.


15/F
so theres this boy.. he doesnt go to my school, but he doesnt live that far away..
neither of us can drive and lately the older kid who we are both friends with has been away so we have no way of getting to eachother..
im afraid that if we wait to long, it could be really akward or we might not like eachother anymore once we finally chill.
what should i do?? (link)
ok, me and my bf live about 200 miles apart and we only see each other about once a month. things used to be a little awkwards to start off with but i used to just laugh it off. cant you catch a bus or a taxi? if you wanted to see each other you could arrange a place that is in the middle of both of you, that way you dont have to travel the full distance.
if you keep in touch, like by texting, phoning or even on msn you are still connected and can have a convo freely.

i hope this helps, if not drop me a message in my inbox and i'll try my best to help


15/m
well i allready started to shave last year. because i didnt like the facial hair at all. and now it is starting to grow quicker, but if i were to shave everyday, would it screw up my skin? like in the long term? i have sark skin, so when i do shave,m the skin goes a little greenish. so yeah, any help? thanks (link)
you wont "screw up your skin" by shaving everyday, although the more you shave the thicker the hair will grow. it will also start to grow faster too. make sure you use a good make of shaving cream so that your skin stays healthy (the skin on your face is very delicate). that way it shouldnt really cause any damage to your skin.
hope this helps


ok well i have a best friend who i really like . i liked him before but he didnt like me back becuz he was "confused". now that he isnt anymore it seems like he likes me. but im not exactly sure how i can find out. he wouldnt tell anyone if he actually did like me [hes very secretive] so i cant ask a friend to ask him for me. i dont want the whole world to know either. last time i liked him i told him and long story short he didnt like me back and the whole school felt bad for me. wats the best way to find out without actually asking him, im scared of regection i really really am. and i hate it becuz he has tried to make a move on me twice [i think] and i kinda backed off. he had his face really close to mine and i think it would have led to a kiss if i hadnt pushed him away. and then he sat really close to me and i kinda scoot away. and i dont know why i do this. i really like him and i want him to like me back. and im afraid that im maybe pushing him away but why? why would i do that?? i do like him. and im not a prude or anything. its like i dont even think about what im doing and then later i feel stupid. help please. i hate myself rite now for being stupid. bleh!

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well um, maybe you could do something together, alone. like watch a movie, where you sit really close. and maybe you could try making the first move. not completely. do what he did. get close. shuv ur face in his. then if he like, goes for a kiss, then you know...




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