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How can you ask a guy if he likes you still without sounding desperate?...I know he used to like me but now he doesn't say it...he's not his old self..and I just want to know..how can I?
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i would NEVER ask a guy that stuff
most of the time he wont be honest
i usually just
ask his close guy friend
to ask him. and he'll be honest with him!
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By asking him, "Do you still like me?" Isn't sounded desperate what so ever. I ask guys that all the time. If you don't want to, just ask him "So, Who do you like these days?"
He might not tell you though =D
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try just saying, so, who are you into nowadays
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Just come out and ask him. It doesn't sound desperate at all. Maybe start up a conversation about it first. Like start talking about how things used to be, a funny memory or something. Then say somethin like "that was when you liked me... do you still?". Drop it into the conversation, so it doesn't seem to put him on the spot so much. It will seem like a bigger deal if you ask him out of the blue when you two are talking about math homework. You could also just ask him who he likes, to see if the answer is you. Or, you could always ask him online, so you don't have to be looking at him... But I'd advise to do it in perosn.
Now, if you ask why or why not or keep asking him, that's when it looks a little desperate, so avoid doing that.
Good luck =)
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i also agree but about the answer below. it is alot easier but the guy might think you are too shy to even ask in person and might not liek that. just a suggestion. but its still a good idea. jsut depends on the person. and deffinatley dont make this long speech about it. also jsut say like do you still feel the same way bout me? or do you still like me? then if you feel you have to say something jsut be like ok, i jsut need to know where i stand
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i agree with the other answer. i think that if your straight with him he shouldnt think that you sound desperate. it could be easier to do it over msn, phone or yahoo etc. that way you can just ask it and you wont have to feel shy about it or worry about it so much.
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Just as him straight up "So, are you still into me?" or something like that.
It is the playing around, the teasing the topic, and the long drawn out conversation that make you sound desperate. A straight-forward question makes you seem like a girl who just wants to know where she stands and will be cool no matter what the answer is.
Good Luck.
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