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Jealous of our realtionship?
Thursday i told my friends i was going out with my crush in my gym class. when i told them one of my friends ask me praivtely if me and him are going to kiss. i look at her and said "ummm yeah why?" she respond "well you know i dont like when people kiss"
(because she told me she hated when she see people kiss in movies or in person she thinks its gross)its odd cause we are all teens but why would she seem gross out when people kiss?
anyways i couldnt belive she said that and that made me think 'is she jealous of me or him? or does she want a realtionship too with soemone?' she never met the guy before and he is new to the school. so what do you think?
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I don't think she's jealous so much as a normal (if somewhat prudish) teenager.
I know things are different now for young teens from what it was 5 years ago when I was one, but I was really disgusted by the thought of intimate contact with guys... that all changed, of course, as I got older, but I started off as a bit of a prude.
Some people believe that things like kissing should be reserved exclusively for private settings, so her being grossed out by people kissing in front of her is actually fairly normal.
In no way does her behaviour indicate that she's jealous, though, so don't worry!
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well I think she is not used to people kissing because she never been through a relationship or dealt with that kind of situation before. So she mights be a little uncomfortable. But jealousy can be possibility. She mights be interested in him too. You should just confront her about the situation. Then why would she care?? is she going to be there when you and your guy kiss?? plus if she doesn't like it or think its gross when people kiss then tell her not to look. It might be harsh but its logic.
You can have a one on one talk with her and ask her what her deal is. You can confront her in a nice way. If she only say she isn't comfortable when two people are "interacting", then tell her to not look. If she sees anything, just turn away. its not a hard thing to do. You just gave her a solution to solve her problem.
hope I helped. good luck =].
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she might be jealous of you, but there are many people that find kissing in public a bit gross. sometimes there is nothing people hate more than turning around and seeing someone with someone elses tongue down their throat. maybe you should just ask her, or make a point of not kissing infront of her. that way she has nothing to worry about.
on the otherhand perhaps she is worried that you will start to spend more time with him that you will with her. just make sure that you say to her that if you were with a guy it wont effect your relationships with your friends.
hope this helps
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She might be jealous or most likely she just doesn't like it. If you want to go out with him & casually kiss, don't invite her with you. Try hanging out with her seperately or something. That is a bit weird, but you have to respect both your friend & your crush. Maybe ask her why she thinks its gross. Plus, if you guys are out on a date, you shouldn't take her with you anyways. If you kiss in school thats up to you. Maybe do it when she isn't around or tell her to let it go & that its a normal thing to do.
-hope that helped!♥
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