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friend to boyfriend
ok well i have a best friend who i really like . i liked him before but he didnt like me back becuz he was "confused". now that he isnt anymore it seems like he likes me. but im not exactly sure how i can find out. he wouldnt tell anyone if he actually did like me [hes very secretive] so i cant ask a friend to ask him for me. i dont want the whole world to know either. last time i liked him i told him and long story short he didnt like me back and the whole school felt bad for me. wats the best way to find out without actually asking him, im scared of regection i really really am. and i hate it becuz he has tried to make a move on me twice [i think] and i kinda backed off. he had his face really close to mine and i think it would have led to a kiss if i hadnt pushed him away. and then he sat really close to me and i kinda scoot away. and i dont know why i do this. i really like him and i want him to like me back. and im afraid that im maybe pushing him away but why? why would i do that?? i do like him. and im not a prude or anything. its like i dont even think about what im doing and then later i feel stupid. help please. i hate myself rite now for being stupid. bleh!
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Aww...i know how you feel! But i've never had the guts to actually tell a guy that i like him..if this guy is your best friend then you guys pretty much get along really well!! I think that your comfortable with him and you enjoy being with him and you easily open up to him!! But you might be a bit afraid that the relationship might get ruined somehow in the end...your just not used to getting too close to him!! Maybe he's confused becasue he doesn't know if being a boyfriend is better than being a friend..and if it's really what both of you want! Maybe he's not sure if it'll work out between the two of you..
If i were you i'd just go with the flow and see how it's going between us...then if he brings the subject up i'd ask him if he really likes me or not..as a friend or more than that..? And if he thinks the best way is staying as friends ..=( i dunno....regection is always tough no matter..=*( Just stick to being friends if that's what he wants..
but i don't know how you can find out weather he likes you or not...i mean personally id never have the guts to even ask....thats y...but if u do have the guts then ask him about how he feels towards you? What does he see you as? A friend? A sister? A buddy? Or more..? It'll be easier for you since you guys are good friends...If you do ask him or he brings up the subject then let it all out and tell him about what you feel and think..=) well anyways i dunno if that helped or not..but tell me what you decide!! Hope it works out for you!! tc :D
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u are not stupid... just confused. next time, go what feels right INSIDE. not what you think what will happen next. if you fell uncomfortable, have a talk with him and say, i just not ready for this yet. you will do great with this guy.
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well um, maybe you could do something together, alone. like watch a movie, where you sit really close. and maybe you could try making the first move. not completely. do what he did. get close. shuv ur face in his. then if he like, goes for a kiss, then you know...
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