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meahhh.. 15/F
so theres this boy.. he doesnt go to my school, but he doesnt live that far away..
neither of us can drive and lately the older kid who we are both friends with has been away so we have no way of getting to eachother..
im afraid that if we wait to long, it could be really akward or we might not like eachother anymore once we finally chill.
what should i do??
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awh that same thing happened to me too.
my boyfriend lived 20 minutes away, and we barely saw each other, well sometimes on weekends, which was rare.
i started to worry that hes flirting with other girls and stuff, and started loosing my trust since i didn't see him that much anymore.
the best thing to do, is to talk alot.. on the phone, online, text..etc.
then you'll know whats up.
& if he realllllly likes you.
he won't stop liking you.
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Keep talking to him through the means of an instant messenger program, email, myspace, and blah whether you can or can't meet him. Just keep in contact as often as you can.
If you're parents or older siblings aren't into the whole meeting a person outside of school type thing or you don't wanna tell them...sneak. Find a spot where you both can meet at--perhaps like at a mall or something. Ask your parents if you can go there and the same for this boy and you guys can meet together...hey, you're not lying ...
Haha--or get your friend's sister/brother/parents to drive you =) ]
Ask one of your older family members to take you to see him. Or have him ask one of his. Ask a different older friend of yours to drive you. If there is no way to get to him, at least talk to him on the phone, because that is the next best thing to actually seeing him. That way you guys can still talk and get to know each other more, and it will be less awkward next time you see him.
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ok, me and my bf live about 200 miles apart and we only see each other about once a month. things used to be a little awkwards to start off with but i used to just laugh it off. cant you catch a bus or a taxi? if you wanted to see each other you could arrange a place that is in the middle of both of you, that way you dont have to travel the full distance.
if you keep in touch, like by texting, phoning or even on msn you are still connected and can have a convo freely.
i hope this helps, if not drop me a message in my inbox and i'll try my best to help ]
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