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1st of i'm 16 and i'm in 10th grade and a girl...and i have some pretty awesome best girl friends...well i make-out with a few of them...i don't mind it i actually have fun doing...but i wouldn't call my self bi...i read this thing online and it says that we experment to find out what we like...well i love makeing-out with both sexes! but i've never done more with a girl...i have and talked about eating girls out with my other best friend and we have talked about doing to each other...but i could never see my self with a girl...because i just love boys...but what i am getting at is it wrong to want to do this stuff with girls...it's mainly with my best friend...it's just a experment..is it wrong to experment with her? she has ate a girl out before..i mean i'm not scared to do it and i don't feel un-comfortable caouse she is my best frined...my point...does any of this seem wrong?

((i don't want the stupid rood people to answer this...or jerks who think it's "nasty"))

love: the girl who doesn't know!!

hey dont worry i've done it before a birthday! l0l! shhh dont tell! 0o it dosent mean anythin you just like to have fun! dont worry lots of gurls make o ut with there friends it dosent mean anything bad! dont worry! and your not experimenting on her if shes doing it too! well good luck! =) x0x

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I'm about to make my friend a cd and he said to put whatever songs are cool and new and I like all old music. Does anyone know any good songs that are r&b and are new?

"yeah"- usher
"get back" ludacris
"lovers and friends" usher,ludacris,lil john
"somecut" trillvile
"like toy soilders"- emienem
"my boo" usher alica keys
"drop it like its hott" snopp dog

good luck with the c.d =) x0x

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well, I REALLY like this one guy, I mean REALLY LIKE and I have a feeling he likes me too. I have two classes with him and he like stares at me, but like alot of the time, I think a guy likes me and he doesn't.... so I need like to figure out if he likes me, can anyone help me?

i have sumthing that might work it works for me . . well u have one of your friends go up to that guy and ask him if helikes you and if he says yes have your friend tell him that you like him too then if he says no and if he asks you if you ask you friend to say that just say no! lol act like you had nothing ot do with it! good luck! =) x0x

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ok, well i have started cutting because of problems i have at home, well now i started to do it for fun, and i dont know why i like to do it, but i do. and its not for attention because know one knows i do it. well anyways, i get urges to do it even when there are no probems at home. i dont know whats wrong with me, i mean i know its wrong and i shouldnt be doing it, but i just love to hurt myself. i need some advice, weather its what i can do to stop, or if you know why i like to do it for fun. plz help

well if you've been cutting to yourself for a long time and your probely just use to it! but just try to quite like do less amd less cutting and that should get you through it! i hope everything goes ok! =) x0x

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well i like this guy people think hes a geek but i don't know why. well he is really smart like he loves to read and stuff hes not popular but i am and people have found out that i like him and there laughing at me. i really like him and i could really care less what people think but i just don't want to loose my friend over something like this( that is if we start to go out) i am 13 years old an i'm a girl. please tell me if i should go out with him or just try to forget about him and keep my reputation. thanks a lot!

well . . i think that you should go for him! becuz if your friends are willing to break up their friendship just becuz of a guy then there not your real friends they should accept who your goign out with or who you like becuz their not you! well good luck! hope you get the guy and evrything goes good with your friends! =) x0x

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for my health project i have to find out what turns a guy on about a girl and what guys like a girl to do them! so guys please help me here! thanks bunches

i had to do sumthing liek that 2! well i read in the hleath book that muscles and looks alwayz dont turn gurls on for guys usally its how the guy treats her and if hes not afriad to be around her in front of his friends and stuff like that its not about the looks anymore!i would tell u wat turn guyz on but sry im not a guy! good luck with your project hope u do good! =) x0x

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can you get high off accutane? i don't know much about it, but im scared about my friend.
thanks

if you smell it like crazy and all the time yea probelly! good luck with your friend! =) x0x

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i have this firewall thingy and now it wont let me on aim and it keeps connecting.. vertifying name and password and then it will say connection lost when the connection isnt realli lost

i have firewall 2! well what u need to do is when ever the little chart thing pops up then make sure that you put it on HIGH it should work it did for me! good luck! =) x0x

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well im known to b really shy and i just get so nervous sum times. and theres this girl i like but i just cant get up the courage to ask her out ...any suggestions on how to biuld up my courage and wut to say..

ok well theres nothing to be afraid of becuz i am a gurl and gurlz are the ones that have problema with that kind of stuff and if she goes to you school of if you see her somewhere just remeber she might like you too and shes probely waitng for you to ask her out so just go up to her and say hey watsup i was wondering if u wanted to go out! it works! and if u would feel better then just ask her out over the phone! good luck to ya babe!=) x0x

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Well, me and my friend have been friends like forever. WE are bestfriends and our families are extremly close. Well, she has tried braking the relationship every month and 3 or 4 times a month. I am sick of it!! And starting to get sick of her fighting. She can be oh so nice and OH SO mean. We only fight online because she doesn't want to fight in person. I think she might want the relationship to end but I really don't know. She says she will always come back to me every time we fight but sometime I think she won't. I really don't want to lose her but maybe the next time we fight this may be the end to our relationship. I need some advice with that. She used to say how I get all the guys, and how I am not pretty, and also how I copy her, and junk but like I don't understnad her. I have tried not telling her more close things so if we do lose the relationship she won't really have anything to say to anyone about my secrets. But Like I need help on what to do with her.....

well maybe shes useing you! and she only is friends with you when she wants somthing and if thats the case and it dosent change then it would be best maybe to just be friends not like BEST friends cuz it happened to me before and it worked out! good luck 2 yew! =)

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i think my best friend is either bulemic or anorexic. she weighs about 119 pounds, wears a size 0 jeans and she constantly goes on about how shes fat. SHE IS NOT AT ALL. she graphs her weight on a chart (i saw it) and it's REALLY starting to scare me. what should i do? talk to somebody about it, talk to her...? please help!!

ok well like whenever you spend the night with her or somthing see what she eats and if she eats a lot then goes to the bathr0om and throws it up or i fshe starves herself or can go a day wiht like hardly eating anything then u should talk to a docter or school nurse or consuler! good luck 2 ya! =)

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I have piano lessons and I love it. My mom says that im probably going to quit because I dont practice. But i do practice! She just never listens! I really really really dont want to quit Piano! Music is my life! I have an absolute passion for it! I LOVE music!
Ana

i play piano too and i love it also! my parents sumtimes say the same thing but maybe you should have a little concert for your mom and show her that you really do practice and that you LOVE to play! =)

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I want my boyfriend to kiss me first. But I think he wants me to kiss him first. And I dunno what to do. His best friend keeps telling me to give him a kiss, but I kinda wanna wait til he kisses me! I am really confused about it tho lol. I might just give him a kiss tomorrow and see what happens. What do you guys think I should do? If it helps I'm 13

well the guy should always do the first move but if he hasent done it and its been a long time then wait until your out at like the emovies or somthing and then wait tell everythings quite and then just go for the kiss! good luck =)

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ok i've had sex numerous times (with the same person who ive been datin for a mad long time) but the problem is i have gotten my period this month and ive taken several pregnancy tests and they all came back neg. why havent i gotten it yet? i would talk someone but my mom would be so dissapointed because my sister had kids at an early age and i'm her "last hope" please tell me wats wrong

im not sure cuz its never happened to me personly ut u could try to ask like your nurse or consler at scool that way your mom wouldnt know =)

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my boyfriend is really mean to me, he gets mad at everything, sometimes hes nice and sweet but then other times hes mean. like today i told him someone was trying to get wit me and he goes ok im like do you care? hes like no and i sad your a asshole and he said i know and then i said im gonna laugh when i die cuz the kid was really bothering me and wouldnt leave me alone and hes like punch him in the face. hes soo mean some times. how do i get him to be nicer?

i dont think that u can make anyone nicer but dont be to nice to him yourself =)

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ok i went on vacation and missed 14 school days. Im overwhelmed with the catching up i have to do ( my math teacher was a bi*ch and didnt give me my work) Math has always been my weak spot and its accelerated kind of so its going to be so hard for me..My teacher only stays after on mondays on tuesdays...Does anyone have a plan on how i can get my worked turned in..study for all my tests (in all the subjects) and make up my classes (we have an attendance policy) If anyone can give me a solid plan to follow that would be great..im just really overwhelmed. 5's for everyone..unless your a jerk. thank u!

well thats happened to me before and math isnt my favorite subject either but make sure that u dont try to do all your homework at once or all in the same day. you should try to do a little bit everyday then before oyu go to bed study for your tests hen in the morning go over them again! it should worked it worked for me! =)

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13/middle school
I don't know how to talk or start a convo with a boy (mainly a boy I like). Can someone please tell me ways to talk or start a convo without sounding like I like them? I am always so shy nd nervous so I really need help.

you could just start out by saying hey wats up? thats how i start mine and it alwayz gets good after that. =)

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Does anyone know of any basketball camps for in the summer?? cause my dad and i are going to try to find some for me..! please answer!*~ i rate..

and if you have any questions for me just ask =)
*thanks a bunch*

if you want a really good day basketball game you could try the YMCA.

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