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well i like this guy people think hes a geek but i don't know why. well he is really smart like he loves to read and stuff hes not popular but i am and people have found out that i like him and there laughing at me. i really like him and i could really care less what people think but i just don't want to loose my friend over something like this( that is if we start to go out) i am 13 years old an i'm a girl. please tell me if i should go out with him or just try to forget about him and keep my reputation. thanks a lot!
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Go out with the guy and if necessary lose the friends. To be honest, if your friends don't want to hang out with you because of your choice of bf, then they are not friends worth holding onto. A true friend would accept anyone that makes you happy.
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Aw, I am glad that you don't base who you like just on their popularity. That is a hard lesson to learn, and you seem to have figured that out at an early age. :-) Sometimes, the 'geeky' types make the best boyfriends because they aren't shallow, and they tend to be more respectful and compassionate because they know what its like to be teased and labeled. If you like the boy, I think you should go out with him. Your friends should be supportive of you and not base your friendship on who you happen to like or date. Try having a talk with your friend/s next time they tease you for liking him. Say something like, 'Listen, we are really good friend, and you mean alot to me, so it really hurts me when you criticizing who I like. I appreciate your concern in who I date, but it is really none of your business why I like him. Just because you don't see the side of him that I do doesn't mean you should tease me for it.' Hopefully that will get the point across to them. You can't help who you fall for, so trust your heart. Take the chance and ask him out, he sounds like a great guy. Hopefully your friends will come to their senses, especially if you talk to them and tell them how much it means to you to have their support. Good luck!
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okay if i were in your situation i would be the geek... but in a way im not that geeky because im like a popular geek if that makes any sense but i would def. go with the "geek" just because there is nothing wrong with being a geek. a bunch of people think that popularity is so cool and in ways it is but half the popular people are gay snobs anyway so why even bother about it. Its not gonna matter if you are popular or not in like 10 years from now. I would def. go with the "geek"
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first of all try and find out if he likes you if not problem solved.If he does tell/explain to your friends that your love relationships are seperate from friendship relationships.If they dont get that I say then if he asks you out...do it i dont care how nerdy he is.
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If you really like him, then it's none of other people's business and you shouldn't care what other people think. And if you seriously lose friend's because of it, then they aren't true friends and aren't worth the aggrivation. So if you like him, go out with him, screw what the other people think if you do really like him.
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Okay. Think about this. Is your friend really being a true friend? She should accept you for who you are and who you like. She shouldn't want to leave your friendship just because you like a "nerdy" guy that isn't popular, like yourself. If you like this guy, go for it. And if your friend leaves you because of this guy, she isn't really a good friend in the first place.
♥ Krissy
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Reputation and popularity are worth nothing. They don't last and all they give you are lackeys and a swelled head. If you like him so much, ask him out.
She who would leave you for going out with a "geek" (trust me, the geeks are the best, they respect you and listen to you) is not a friend. A friend would respect your decisions and stick by you no matter your decisions.
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well . . i think that you should go for him! becuz if your friends are willing to break up their friendship just becuz of a guy then there not your real friends they should accept who your goign out with or who you like becuz their not you! well good luck! hope you get the guy and evrything goes good with your friends! =) x0x
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If you really like this guy, then you should go out with him! Who cares what other people think! They could be missing out on a great person! And if you lose friends over this, then they weren't real friends to begin with.
♥ Always,
Maria
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