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what do you do when you like a guy who likes someone else and it seems to you like he is flirting with you because he pokes you and look at you with a really cute face.i really like him so i cant just forget about him i just want to know what to do like to either talk to him or to leave it alone (link)
hey

well, does he know you like him? cause if he does, he might just like you cause you like him (almost as pity).

if he DOESN'T know that you like him, then he might like you and another girl. or, maybe he's just naturally flirtatious.

it seems to me like you really like him, so if i were you, i would like him and talk to him, etc. but i would try to keep my space. cause it's like, if you sit next to him during a class & such, and he is all flirty and cute you really fall for him. but then, when you see him with the other girl, it's like, this painful jealousy and / or hatrid (sp.) for her. it's just very painful. because then you're like, "omg i hate him. i hate him. he's done." and you see him again and it's like this ENDLESS cycle.

so i'd keep my space with him- like him from a distance. i wouldn't get his sn, and if you already do, just block him sometimes so he's not always on your mind. eventually you will stop liking him and let him and the other girl be together, or maybe he'll stop liking the girl and like you.

are you SURE he likes the other girl? or is it just an assumption. cause assumptions are bad - all my friends make these stupid assumptions that "he" doesn't like them because he LOOKS at another girl. it is completely ridiculous.

so, if you know for a FACT he likes that girl, just let fate run it's course - if you guys are meant to be, you'll be together in the end. everything happens for a reason.

and if he doesn't like you - it's for a reason, maybe because you deserve someone better.

SO, to answer your question, do a mixture. do not ignore him or he will dislike you but don't go talking to him 24 / 7 or you will get hurt.

i hope i helped & good luck with yerr boy :]


how do people make the little heart by their names? (link)
& hearts ;
without the spaces.

or


What exactly is a guido? Is it like some wierd guy who is feminine, or like an Italian pimp? Helpp! (link)
hey

check out this site - it's the BEST slang site out there!
it should clear up some of your questions - make sure you read all of the listed definitions - not just the first one

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=guido


what does this mean: (sp?) (link)
hey

people put it like if they aren't sure if they spelled something correctly.

like

"i want to sign up for after-school activities (sp?)"

it just means they are letting you know that they aren't sure of the spelling of the word of "activities"


how do people make the little heart by their names? (link)
hey

i dont know if this is what you're talking about, but

and symbol ( & )
the word "hearts"
and a semi colon ( ; )

& hearts ;



i hate shopping for swim suits. unfortunatley im not super skinny so i cant wear a bikini =[ really i need a tankini or somethin like that but i cant really find any, because all the places i look they have like 1 tankini and its ugly so any places would be great!

heres the sites i already looked at:

delias, wetseal, jcpenney, macys, and dillards.

thx! (link)
i usually get mine at target (there was one right next to where i used to live) and konls.


well i have acne. like on myforehead. i was wondering what works? like any products that ACTUSLLY work. and i wash my face every night before i go to bed if tht helps. (link)
toothpaste works. just not the crest kid's kind they give u at the dentist (the blue kind) lol ya.


ok you know the movie 13 going on 30? ya well theres a song in it called "Love is a Battlefeild" and who sings that?





thx! (link)
pat benatar sings it!


sorry i know this was in the wrong category..
but whats on 4.20.? details please. thanks. (link)
national pot day.
420 is the code that police use when they have found pot
ps if a question has no category you can put it in the "random weirdos" section..!


hi!
my video ipod just froze and i dont know how to unfreeze it! so please help! (link)
mine just did that.... this website helped.......

http://www.apple.com/support/ipod/


click on the signal that showed up on it when u turn it on, if none do then plug it into ur computer and it should unfreeze.


Does anyone have links ... or , just quotes they can type that i could put in my info. like from songs or just websites. i recently got dumped and id liek ot make my boyfriend feel bad. (link)
wittyprofiles.com,
it's AWESOME.


does NAIR && VEET work??
thanks in advance (link)
hey

i feel like veet takes a lot longer than nair. however people would beg to differ with me because nair may give you little cuts if you leave it on TOO long.

yes. they do work. you just have to be patient (not too patient though!) and let it work. i usually keep it on my arms for ten minutes, until i feel the FIRST sign of a tingling, or itching sensation. at that time, the hairs are loosened from your skin - you just have to rub a little hard in the shower to get them all off. if you wait TOO long, then it burns your skin, leaving little cuts all over your arms.

just follow the directions on the bottle - leave it in for less time than you think you need it. better having a little hair on your arm than burning your skin.


um what happens if you eat the red shell the cheese is in, in those littly baby bel cheeses? i havent done it before.. but the shell if kinda soft so im wondering if you can eat it.. and what it tastes like. or is it like.. some soft plastic?? (link)
hey

i suggest you don't eat it. yes, it is soft, but it IS plastic.

so if you do eat it, you might get kind of sick (nausea) and throw-up cause most people cannot fully digest that much plastic.

it smells like the cheese, and it's soft like cheese, so it makes you wanna eat it, but i strongly suggest you don't. it ends up tasting like plastic. and it gets hard to chew after a while.


so i like this guy alot. he's really nice and sweet and funny and he likes me a lot too. he told me this about two days ago, then broke up with his girlfriend to ask me out. he hasn't asked me out yet, and i dont know what to say. i really do want to go out with him, but there hasn't been one girl he's gone out with that he hasn't cheated on.. so what would make me any different? should i talk to him? he's a really great guy but i'm just not dowm with the cheating thing. (link)
hey

well, there is always a possibility that he will cheat. like always. you can't change that - but perhaps you can lower it, or not care as much if he does cheat on you.

what would you talk to him about? say, "don't cheat on me?" i really dont think so ... even if you do talk to him, it probably won't change him.

alls YOU can do is think, well i'm a hot, smart girl and i am giving him a chance. if he messes up and cheats on me, his loss. not mine.

you just gotta keep thinking about YOURSELF. don't ALWAYS go out of your way to hang out with him. if he doesnt take the initiative to hang out, he's probably not worth it.

if he really likes you, he won't cheat on you. that's pretty much it. so be kinda, play hard to get. don't always talk to him - wait for him to come to you.

just stay positive - bad can always be turned into good. if he cheats, you'll meet a better guy, who is actually worth your time.

or, he may not even cheat, and you guys will be happy together. and good luck


hey
this may be stupid but whatz a bonner?
cuz this guy told me that another guy had a bonner in school?????
lol (link)
erection, hard-on, morning wood
theres a lot of names for it =]


What's a comeback I can say to someone who said YOUR MOM? And if it's a comeback that I won't get in trouble by the teacher, could you write it in captials? thanks (link)
"NO, I WILL NOT GO OUT WITH YOU!"
"MY MOM IS DEAD....THANKS."
".....AND?"
"WHAT'S YOUR POINT"
"MY MOM?? IS SHE OKAY??"
"YOU GONNA FINISH YOUR SENTENCE"
"I LOVE YOU TOO"
"OKAY"

hahah just stupid stuff


What can make my hair grow faster?? i really need them to grow!! i hate myself with short hair.plz dont give me medicin to take..just couple of tips or natural stuff
thxx in advance
Larissa (link)
Take plenty of vitamins and calcium, conditions the ends (prevents breakage), drink plenty of water, most people sleep with their hair up--don't. Sleep with it down, so the ponytail won't cut it off and prevent it from growing. But, what'eve people tell you- DON'T trim it once a month. It's a MYTH, it doesn't work. It just makes it NOT grow. DON'T TRIM IT ONCE A MONTH!!


okay so some of you guys may remember i had this problem with a guy named brandon and hes black and 17 and im white and 15 and i said that he wouldnt wait for me to losse my virginity and if i didnt losse it to him by friday then it would be over!!!

well now i just got done talking to him and he asked me a weird question he said if you could have one wish what would it be and i said for you to wait until im ready to losse my virginity so we just started talking and then sometimes it would be silent then he said babe imah tell you what forget friday and forget everything i want you to stay a virgin im gonna wait for you.Then he said whats wrong babe and i said nothing and he said i know when somethings on my babys mind.and i said i just really love you and he said i love you too.Then i said i dont want anything to be weird now between us.He said baby its not gonna be we still go out and i still love you.IM SO GLAD I CHANGED HIS MIND AND HES GONNA WAIT FOR ME!!! but what do i do now....... (link)
EDIT--I CAN'T DO THAT BECAUSE I DON'T KNOW WHAT YOUR COLUMN IS! TELL ME, AND I CAN ANSWER YOU.

now, you wait until you're ready. which hopefully will be after you're married. any guy that can't respect that is messed up. it's all he wants. he's hanging with you as long as he can be he wants it. he's obviously desperate. he's a typical guy. do what you want, but he's wrong for you.


i have a friend thats really skinny shes 5'3" and 70 lbs is she anorexic? im worried about her (link)
If she's 5'3" she should be anywhere from 130-153. So yes, 70 lbs is way under.


13/f and im mmy school has a record of a girl being able to do 963 sit ups . so far i can do 457 and i have 6 weeks to try and beat her record. i donth ave to but its a goal that iwantto accomplish . i'll put ofrht as much practice as i need. can someone please tell me if you think its p[ossible for meto be ablle to reach 963 sit ups . and if so how should o practice adn train. tahnk you sooo much ! (link)
hey

you mean at one time?

well, my suggestion is DO NOT THINK ABOUT THE SIT-UPS! say "okay whatever i ate cereal for breakfast and the orange juice finished and then i went to first period and robby looked at me and omg he's so cute.." just go on a rant. and pace yourself. like the first sit-up should be the same as the last sit up.

it's like running a mile - if you start out really really fast and tire yourself out, chances are... you're gonna be REALLY tired out!

just train and train and try to do a thousand - that way if you fall short a few it's no big deal. dont do 963 and then stop.. keep going, girl!

you can do it. just believe in yourself. if you have determination, you can do anything




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