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A BOY THATS FINALLY WAITING FOR ME
okay so some of you guys may remember i had this problem with a guy named brandon and hes black and 17 and im white and 15 and i said that he wouldnt wait for me to losse my virginity and if i didnt losse it to him by friday then it would be over!!!
well now i just got done talking to him and he asked me a weird question he said if you could have one wish what would it be and i said for you to wait until im ready to losse my virginity so we just started talking and then sometimes it would be silent then he said babe imah tell you what forget friday and forget everything i want you to stay a virgin im gonna wait for you.Then he said whats wrong babe and i said nothing and he said i know when somethings on my babys mind.and i said i just really love you and he said i love you too.Then i said i dont want anything to be weird now between us.He said baby its not gonna be we still go out and i still love you.IM SO GLAD I CHANGED HIS MIND AND HES GONNA WAIT FOR ME!!! but what do i do now.......
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Hello there,
I have heard this EXACT situation before, except the ages were different.
In the situations I am familiar with, this is what happened:
Girl says: I want to wait.
Guy says: If you don't by this date, it is over.
Girl begs him to change.
Guy says: Ok, I love you and will wait to take your virginity.
Girl is really happy.
Guy proceeds to have sex with every available girl, while he is "waiting" for virgin girl to say OK.
If he is like others in this situation, and he probably is, then he IS waiting... waiting to take YOUR virginity. Doesn't mean he is waiting to have sex.
If you doubt any of this, have a look through the love life category here. Dozens, if not hundreds of questions that should help you see things for what they most like are.
I wish I had higher hopes for your situation, but I don't. Both my wife and I were virgins when we were married, but experienced similar things to what you are going through... "sorta-kinda."
Try and keep things in perspective, and remember your ages.
DN.
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P.S. You said you would talk to him about it... he will lie to you. Be advised.
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now, you wait until you're ready. which hopefully will be after you're married. any guy that can't respect that is messed up. it's all he wants. he's hanging with you as long as he can be he wants it. he's obviously desperate. he's a typical guy. do what you want, but he's wrong for you.
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so funny!...well now you WAIT until your ready.dont just go for it because he accepeted to wait!just enjoy the moment being with him and when the right time comes you will do it.It could also be a good way to see if he truly loves you by him waiting for real..maybe he just told you he'd wait hoping you being all touched and decide to do it yet.
well do waterver u feel like doing but alwayz keep your head straight and think about what might hapen next so you dont regret.
good luck
Larissa
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