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ok here's the thing i hav this rlly gourgeous sister and everyone tells me omg ur sister's so hot ....... u dont looko like her. i am constantly comparing myself to her like weight and clothes and sports.she is super skinny im not saying im fat or anything cuz im not
but still she can get any guy she wants i can it always seems that she's better than me. (link)
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hi, well b thankful wit wut ur mamma gave u ...there are guys that wont think ur sis is hot...n there are guys that will like u more then ur sis...plus looks aint everything...personality is the one that counts more :)....just b u...get ur style...ur own clothes ur everything...b unique...b ur own :) wear somethin u like not something that ur sis likes ;) hope i helped xoxo effy
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I have this friend who is in North Carolina. She is going down there to visit with family and stuff. So, she's coming back up for one day and going to Missouri. While she's in Missouri she's going to miss our Tobacco Days Tournament. She's the one on our softball team that always keeps everyone fired up. I don't know what I'm going to do without her there. Please
help!
*Bethany* (link)
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just try to b hyper n try to keep the softball team fired up by takin her place...try to make the best out of it...xoxo effy
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okay I asked a question about the same guy a while back but I really need a new answer!Okay I wrote about a guy that I love and he had a girlfriend then and now he doesnt,should I tell him I like him even though he took another girl out to the movies?His sister is telling him I like him am I making a mistake by letting him know or what?Also he has told me he liked me b4 but I couldnt say it back but I have kissed him b4(his idea!)Any advice?! (link)
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well....if u relly care bout him...then go for it...n let him kno...u might get hurt out of it...cuz he might not feel da same way...but better regreat something u did then something u didnt b/c then u'll always wonder WUT IF?!?! so u doin good lettin him know :) good luck :) best wishes xoxo effy
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Since of late i havent been really happy anymore with my bf, so i talked to him about it today and we decided to take a break. It didnt kick in yet that i was now seperated from him for awhile but as im writing this ... im starting to realize that maybe i shouldnt have done that.
I said i needed a break becuz i wasnt happy and i wasnt sure if i really wanted to be with him and even though this feeling was on and off... 75% of the time i was feeling that i needed a break so thats why i took it. I needed time to figure out if being with him was what i really wanted.
IM so scared of losing him but becuz we are taking a break we arent talking and im scared to admit that maybe i was wrong . Yet im also scared to go back with him and find that i really did need the break.
What should i do? (link)
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awww...well gurl if u feel that u were wrong bout gettin that break...then wut u waiting for...go tell him u care bout him 2
n that u wanna b wit him...b4 its 2 late...best wishes xoxo effy
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is this a good poem:
Surrounded by friends, but she has none of her own, shes in a crowded room, but feels so alone.
Late one night she was lying in her bed, tear drops falling, thoughts running through her head.
Her hopes and dreams and she cried until she could no more.
Home she could no longer stay, so she ran far away, she left her quiet home that night, she went down the street and out of sight.
She didnt see the car until it was too late. she felt all emotions at once. Pain. Love. Hate.
Now shes somewhere where everyone cares and the streets are paved with gold. She looks down from heaven, shining her light upon the young and old.
So if you have a friendship that is strong and true, then guard it with your life, unlike the girl who spread her wings and flew.
did you like it?
i need advice. (link)
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.................................WOW........i dunno wut else to say...dat poem is like da best one i've ever read...keep up the good work................WOW....very nice!!! when U asked "did u like it" i was like HELL NO....I LOVED IT!!!!! xoxo effy
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ok so ive been dating this guy for almost 7 months. hes great but i dont see us going newhere. i think he deserves better and i should end it for his benefit. also, i dont think i love him like i thought i did. i dont want to be with him nemore.i think i love the fact of not being alone and having someone care about me. the problem is, he actually loves me and i feel like i have been leading him on. i dont know what to do or how to tell him its over. i still wanna be friends. i hope he doesnt go back to drinking and drugs*which he quit for me* i cant tell him in person cuz it would break both of our hearts to see eachothers faces. i never wanted to hurt him. were not right for eachother. but i dont wanna be alone. what do i do or say? i need MAJOR advice! thank you. (link)
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hi, well this is hard...i aint good wit da breakin up pice of $@#t either...but wut u could do...is think everything over...think n try to figure out if breakin up wit him is wut u relly want...n remember n keep in mind that there is a sayin that says " a person who thinks dont deserve u thats the one who actually does" well...if u thought bout it and w/e n u relly wanna break up wit him b/c u dont love him...n w/e...then u must tell him even though it will break both of ur hearts...just tell him that u dont think the relationship is working...n everything at first tell him that u guys need a break to clear ur thoghts n w/e...n then durin that break if u still like him then go back wit him if u dont tell him that u relly lov him but not more then just a friend...he will get hurt but sometimes in life we got to let go of things...hope i helped good luck n best wishes to u :) xoxo effy
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i liked this guy for a realllly long time, he knows but hes older and my parents dont like him and he only views me as a friend. every1 says how mean he is and stuff but hes extremely nice ta me, i really want to get over him thou because i know nothing will ever happen between us at least not rite away. i really think i am in love with him but i jus wana live my life rite now. i havent even had a stable b/f in soo long because i am so hooked on this guy its ridiculous! how can i get over him?! (link)
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try to do other stuff to entertain ur self...hang out wit ppl that loves u alot...hang out wit ur friends...try as hard as u can not to think bout him...close the door to him...n open the door to someother guy...give someother guy a chance to get to know u...n u gettin to know him ;) things will change wit time...u just have to try hard enough :) xoxo effy
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Hey i have a problem 2 of my best friends in the world r in a fight w/ each otha and they get mad at me if i go to 1 person's house and not theirs and they alwayz ask me who i like beta and if i say i like u both the same they will ge mad at me and i don't kno wut to do plz help thanx (link)
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well talk to both of them...n tell them that just b/c they got problems wit eachother that dont mean that u have to have a problem wit them...tell them u love both of them very much n theres nothing that can change that...tell them to put w/e its wrong wit them aside...n start being friends wit eachother again..tell them how much u miss the back old times when all of u use to be good freinds n use to hang out together :) hopefully they understand :) if they dont give it sometime they will :) xoxo effy good luck
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okie heres the thing: see iva had this reallie close frend since i was in 6th grade. we got along tite and stuff thah people started to believe thah we were going out and stuff alredy even tho we were just friends. at the end of 6th grade i moved and dint get to talk to "person" and i dint want to. i wanted to forget about "person" coz eben tho i liked him i knew there was like NO POSSIBLE WAY rite?
well at the beginning of 8th grade wen i finally did get to push "person" to the FARTHEST places in my mind i got to talk to "person" agin through AIM (coz i havent gone on fer like a whole year and a half) and started to like "person" agin. then after a month "person" told me "person" liked me in the 6th grade and that "person" still liked me. i was totally happy rite?
then i intro-ed "person" to like three of my closest frends and one of them like totally changed "person". "person" was soo different and by february "person" didnt even want to talk to me anymore- "person" only wanted to talk to my frend. i knew my frend didnt want to take "person" away or anything even tho she didnt knoe anything baout how i used to crush on him and stuff like that.
wen i went back to see "person" in my hometown, i ran into a couple of my other frends who kept telling me that "person" was sooooo different than how "person" used to be before i left, and they kept bugging me about how "person"
DID like me and that wen i left "person" went through an entire trauma. wen "person" talked to me "person" sed that "person" just turned all wierd and began hating everything since 7th grade. i felt soooo bad!!
is all his changing my fault or was it just something that was coming around? i mean, "person" wasn't anything like how people described "person" wen i was there and they sed that that was the first time "persons" been like that for a long time. so is it a yes "person" likes me or a no? its been bugging and everytime i tried to talk to "person" about it i just get too shy and it ends up to be a talk about one of our common interests or something. (link)
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hi, well a lil confusing there wit the "person" lmao...anyways...listen wut i think u should do is talk to "person" tell him once n for all how u feel...dont b shy...theres nothin wrong wit u likin "person" n everything :) so just tell "person" wussup...if "person" feels the same way the BEST WISHES...if "person" doesnt then try as hard as u can to forget "person" n move on wit another "person"...:) hope i helped :) xoxo effy
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Well i had another question before but i think alot of people misunderstood it. I am Best Friends with 2 girls my age but one is moving to B.C and all my other friend wants to talk about is how she is leaving and stuff. But a couple days ago when she visited they hung out and left me alone basically when im there best friend too! Have any advice for me? (link)
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hi, hmmm well i dunno wut to tell u...sometimes things like that happens...just call them up n hang out wit them...see wut happend the first time...who knoes may be they have an excuse if they dont i guess u should find ur self a brend new best friend....:) xoxo effy good luck
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Is it normal to. . uh. . get zits and pimples. . um. . 'down there' :// thanks! (link)
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yah it happens sometimes...just dont shave more then once a day...n get a clean razor everysingel time :))) use shavin cream 2 :) that will helpxoxo effy
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my neighbor and i are really really good frineds and everytime i am around him i feel like the world has just stopped and i get this werid feelin inside of me do u think i like him (link)
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yup u do...the thing is try to find out if he feels da same...n if he does...then y not giving it a try :) xoxo effy best wishes!
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Hey Ive been getting behind in school REALLY bad and I say Im ganna study every night to try and get better grades but then I end up getting invited some where or Wanna do something with one of my friends so I end up not either stuffing or doing my homework or anything Do you have any idea how I could do both? (link)
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as soon as u come from school try to do ur homework...so u'll have free time for everything :)))) xoxo effy
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My family is always bugging me about my grades and about school and it bugs me.They always tell me to bring my homework home so they can see it but I never do and when I do They try and help me but I get frustrated with them and all this stuff .Our family is always in fights and Ive tryed everything to get our family together but its not working. (link)
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hi, wow i'm very sorry to hear dat bout ur family...n i totally understand u...cuz its very hard to consentrate in school when u having some other problem....but just try ur best...stop tryin so hard to put ur family together if its meant to be then it will happen...no metter wut u do...sooner or later it will happen...if its meant to b...bout ur grades
try to consentrate n do as good as u can so u can prove ur self to ur parents :) n then they'll stop buggin u ;) (hopefully) good luck..n best wishes to ur family...hope that nothin u dont want happens :) xoxo effy
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Hey! OK, I'm really shy. Its not that I enjoy being all by myself because I totally hate it... I love to be with people... but it’s hard for me to just walk up to someone because last year in classes we got to sit around and talk for the end of each period. When I tried to talk to someone they would be like "uh huh. Ok" and then walk away. However I’ve talked to each of them individually and they seem interested in talking to me (No, they were not just being nice) I’m moving to a totally new country next year which means a new school. I want to redo myself… like not be so shy anymore. Could you all give me some tips for me to be less shy? And please no advice like "just talk to people"… that doesn't work. I've tried. Thank you so much everyone!! Any advice is appreciated!
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hey, well wut i would suggest is...think of ur self that ur better then anyone there...n talk to ppl...like go in the canvo...or try to b as nice as u could...or u could just be like..go up to ppl b hyper...n stuff usually everyone likes hyper ppl cuz they fun to b round :) u kno wut imean?!?! anyways i dunno wut else to tell u...w/e works wit me...i adviced it to u :) so good luck xoxo effy
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hey folks... i need a little help here. i weigh 200lbs and am 5"7... (i'm 14, female) i really need to lose some weight. i don't need to lose it real fast... just like, 10 or 15lbs in the next month and a half... any tips? (link)
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hey, well u need to start eating healthy food...like salads...fruits...dont eat any junk food...also u need to exercise every day...u can start by walkin....n then wit time add exercises n everything..it will help a lot if ukeep it up :) xoox effy
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I really, I mean really like this guy.He is my age and he is 1 of my bro's friend's brother.He goes to school with me.The last few weeks of school me and him were becoming really close.Im scared that next year he won't remember me remember me anymore.What can I do? (link)
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well try to keep in touch
find his s/n or something...try to find a way to talk to him...may be ur brothers friend will help u :) xoxo effy good luck :)
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I am the middle child in my family and sometimes I think I don't belong with my siblings. Don't get me wrong I love them to death but... I am 13 a typical girl teenager. I like make-up, boys, fashion. But my brother does not respect any of my private life or social life. I am always baby-sitting for my little sister while my mom and dad are working and while my brother is out with his friends 24/7. It's not like I do it for my health i'm doing it for the $$$ but I need to get out too and especially since its summer. I am always fighting with my older brother and when ever I am on the phone with my boyfriend my brother always makes some rude remarks like "hey is this your tampon" or something like that something gross. I TOTALLY respect his private life and social life. My brother goes through my stuff, looks at my txt messagees on my cell phone to all my friends and my boyfriend and he goes on my screen name and talks to my friends pretending to be me. I have told him so many times that I need some space and he doesnt care. He gives smart remarks to me and I can't handle it. I've told my parents they yell at him yet when we're around my parents together he acts so perfect and he is older then me... how pathetic... but seriously I NEED HELP!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!! GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!!!!!!!!
Signed,
Brother Hater (link)
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hi, well i got a tell u...that my bro use to be the same way..i use to hate everything...nosy pice of $%^T...anyways just give it some time let him grow up he will change wit time...(hopefully) for now i guess u have to deal wit it...cuz no metter wut he will still b like dat...trust me its from experience xoxo effy
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I really like this guy but he doesnt like me im sad because I really like him! I dont know why he doesnt like me he wont tell me My question is how could I get him to like me? (link)
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hi, well if u relly like him n u relly wanna try to make him like u...that will b hard n might not work...so my advice to u is to move on...but as always its easy to say n hard to do...so if u want him to like u for who u are just b u...but if u wanna impress him n do wut usually guys like then...u got to dress up a lil bit sexy...n stuff...show some skin...put some make up on...light make up though...dont try to hard...cuz it will end up worst...also try to b talkative n nice n sweet :) show him a lil affection n that ur interested...usually guys likes gurls being interested ;) so if dat dont work then i'm sorry u just have to move on...xoxo effy
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There is this guy that I have liked for 2 years (I saw him in my 7th grade yearbook when he was in 6th and I was in 7th). I am now going into 9th grade. We see each other often and we are good GOOD friends. He is one of my best friends. Well, he flirts with me like no other girl. His mom even says he isnt the flirting type. All of the people who were in our drama class say that they think he likes me. He tries to make me laugh when I am sad and he is a sweetie for life! We went and played pool today and everytime I went to shoot, he would be saying something like "I know then...." and then he pauses, watches me (making it obvious), adn then when I am done, he starts talking where he left off. I took pictures of him the last day of school and they didnt come out. Well, he had his mom take a pic of him for me! My mom gave it to me as an early b day present (his mom and my mom work together! WOW SMALL WORLD!) Do you think he likes me? With all these clues? Everyone says he does but I dont know. Please help! (link)
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yah i think he likes you....may b he is 2 shy or 2 scared to ask you out...but i think he likes u as much as u like him :)))) xoxo effy
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