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break up.. what to do?
Since of late i havent been really happy anymore with my bf, so i talked to him about it today and we decided to take a break. It didnt kick in yet that i was now seperated from him for awhile but as im writing this ... im starting to realize that maybe i shouldnt have done that.
I said i needed a break becuz i wasnt happy and i wasnt sure if i really wanted to be with him and even though this feeling was on and off... 75% of the time i was feeling that i needed a break so thats why i took it. I needed time to figure out if being with him was what i really wanted.
IM so scared of losing him but becuz we are taking a break we arent talking and im scared to admit that maybe i was wrong . Yet im also scared to go back with him and find that i really did need the break.
What should i do?
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All couples need a time apart. You need your space. True love hase to be found. sometimes its not black and white. are you geting my point. Sometimed you dont know you love someone tell you experince it. I think it was right. when you are ready get back togther
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awww...well gurl if u feel that u were wrong bout gettin that break...then wut u waiting for...go tell him u care bout him 2
n that u wanna b wit him...b4 its 2 late...best wishes xoxo effy
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If you actually feel you went wrong 'taking a break' just tell him, im sure it would hurt more seeing him with someone else than telling him you made a mistake! remember we all make mistakes you arent the 1st and you wont be the last! good luck!
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ok. i wud just wait a couple of days and see how it goes. cuz the fact is, he probably feels the same way u do. and it may turn out that it took that little "break" to c how much u 2 rly care 4 another. u kno? so i hope i helped. rite bak and i hope i helped.
~Lizzie
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Well you told him you needed a break.... you obviously wanted that didnt you? Give the break a while and see how you feel after a week or so... If you still feel like you want him back then talk to him... ask him how he has been feeling since you two separated.. if he feels the same whay you do then get back together.. if he says he's happy wiht it then tell him how you've been feeling and take it from there.... maybe you two will end up getting back together and being ahppier then ever! who knows!! just give it a shot...
Good Luck!!
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omg u sound like me!!!...my bf moved 10 min away when we wer goin out and like i saw him ery weekend but he left my skool n eryhing so i would like cheat on him n stuff i couldnt help it and i ddnt appreciate him i would get really mad if he didnt call me that nite or w/e i was jsus thinkin i was s0o unhappy with him so when he couldnt c me for like 2 wks cuhz he got all f's on his report card n his aunt wouldnt let him come out here i got s0o pissed i was like WATEVER I DONT WANNA SEE U NEWAYZ JUSS STAY IN L.A I BEEN CHEAIN ON U and i juss told him erything!! i thought it was gr8 until like a few days later....i missed him s0o freakin bad juss feelin like i couldnt call him and he didnt call me and we didnt speak n now he comes out to stay with his cuzin who live like around the block from me and ill c them or theyll coem over and i juss wanna hold hands with him and juss feel comfortable with him but he doesnt wanna...i feel s0o bad i made a mistake...i think u shuld tell ur bf that u wer wrong and u miss him....write him a letter or text or IM him or juss call him n tell him erything...dont wait till its too late like i did...if ur missing him then i tihnk u shuld tell him...
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