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so over it
ok so ive been dating this guy for almost 7 months. hes great but i dont see us going newhere. i think he deserves better and i should end it for his benefit. also, i dont think i love him like i thought i did. i dont want to be with him nemore.i think i love the fact of not being alone and having someone care about me. the problem is, he actually loves me and i feel like i have been leading him on. i dont know what to do or how to tell him its over. i still wanna be friends. i hope he doesnt go back to drinking and drugs*which he quit for me* i cant tell him in person cuz it would break both of our hearts to see eachothers faces. i never wanted to hurt him. were not right for eachother. but i dont wanna be alone. what do i do or say? i need MAJOR advice! thank you.
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hi, well this is hard...i aint good wit da breakin up pice of $@#t either...but wut u could do...is think everything over...think n try to figure out if breakin up wit him is wut u relly want...n remember n keep in mind that there is a sayin that says " a person who thinks dont deserve u thats the one who actually does" well...if u thought bout it and w/e n u relly wanna break up wit him b/c u dont love him...n w/e...then u must tell him even though it will break both of ur hearts...just tell him that u dont think the relationship is working...n everything at first tell him that u guys need a break to clear ur thoghts n w/e...n then durin that break if u still like him then go back wit him if u dont tell him that u relly lov him but not more then just a friend...he will get hurt but sometimes in life we got to let go of things...hope i helped good luck n best wishes to u :) xoxo effy
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I went through the same thing as you are.. kinda.. but anyways here is a quote that helped me and a few other ppl..
"Look, I guarantee that we'll have tough times. And I guarantee that at some point one or both of us will want to get out of this thing. But I also guarantee that if I don't ask you to be mine I'll regret it for the rest of my life. Because I know in my heart, you're the only one for me"
---Runaway Bride---
*You sound like you just wanna have someone, and he is RIGHT THERE.. so maybe you just kidna grew sick of him so just leave him alone for a few days BUT BE NICE IF HE TRIES TO TALK TO YOU! Mayve you just need a break from all of--it everyone does! rate me plz and im me at Kissxme321!
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Just dont make it a official breakup just call it a break and see what happans from there just say you think you guys rushed the relationship a little to fast more then you had in mind. And if you guys dont go back out that you will be the best of friends and you'll hang out no matter what but my best advice would be to not go out wtih someone right away-trix
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Tell him on the phone, tell him that you aren't as ready for a deep relationship as you thought, tell him you want to be friends and you don't want anything to change between you guys, you just don't feel you want a boyfriend right now...
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well....im not reeli sure butif i was u i wud just call him and tell him how u feel and just tell him that u dont wanna hert him and that u still wanna be frends u just dont think ur ment to be 2gether(like bf and gf)and if he loves u he'll understand the way u feel! well i hope i helped but if u need more help ill try to help u more!! =) good luck!
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