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I can't handle my brother!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HELP PLEASE!!
I am the middle child in my family and sometimes I think I don't belong with my siblings. Don't get me wrong I love them to death but... I am 13 a typical girl teenager. I like make-up, boys, fashion. But my brother does not respect any of my private life or social life. I am always baby-sitting for my little sister while my mom and dad are working and while my brother is out with his friends 24/7. It's not like I do it for my health i'm doing it for the $$$ but I need to get out too and especially since its summer. I am always fighting with my older brother and when ever I am on the phone with my boyfriend my brother always makes some rude remarks like "hey is this your tampon" or something like that something gross. I TOTALLY respect his private life and social life. My brother goes through my stuff, looks at my txt messagees on my cell phone to all my friends and my boyfriend and he goes on my screen name and talks to my friends pretending to be me. I have told him so many times that I need some space and he doesnt care. He gives smart remarks to me and I can't handle it. I've told my parents they yell at him yet when we're around my parents together he acts so perfect and he is older then me... how pathetic... but seriously I NEED HELP!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!! GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!!!!!!!!
Signed,
Brother Hater
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dude! I know that story. He'll eventually grow out of it, or move out b/c he's old enough. But in the mean time, and this sounds so immature, but play fire with fire, bug him,invade his privacy, look @ his texts. It works,trust me, i know ;)
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hi, well i got a tell u...that my bro use to be the same way..i use to hate everything...nosy pice of $%^T...anyways just give it some time let him grow up he will change wit time...(hopefully) for now i guess u have to deal wit it...cuz no metter wut he will still b like dat...trust me its from experience xoxo effy
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Omg the same Thing Happened to me,.. Like When My Brother Answered the phone n it was my friend,. he would go Hey LInds its your Lesbian,. *kissy kissy* ,. oh god and when he dropped me off at skewl,. he and his friends would scream out the window,. Dont kiss any boys in the bathroom,. OMg? like I ever did that.. He was Just trying to impress HIs gUys. But yea I think that hes Just trying to make you mad,. u sound like a busy person babysittin and stuff while everyone else goes n has fun.. I think u should tell your parents that he should baby sit a day so you can go out with your friends or sumtin. Hes just immature,. try to change your password on AOL.,or sont save it so he cant get on. n Sometimes theres a lock on cell phones - Just give it time and maybe he will growww upp!!
haha Good Luck with y0uR boyFriend*
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i think you should tell your parents to make him babysit for once so you can go and have a break i know how you feel i am the middle child too
~jessica~
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Hmm... I hate when brothers/sisters do that. It bothers me! Especially when they act all perfect in front of your parents because then your parents dont see how they really act. So do the same thing to him. When he's with his friends just embarrasse him like he does with you. And in front of your parents act all perfect, just like he would do. Just do exactly what he does to you. Because talking to him, wouldn't help, he would probably just laugh, because brothers/sisters are like that. So just basically give it right back at him! Have fun with it lol =P
xoxo Kourtney
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Dear bother hater,
I totally feel ur pain omg my brother acts the same way but...what i do is just play a game with him with somthing 2 tell him 2 go away or somthing or get some dirty dish on him remember your the older one and u know that he is youger
Signed,
Onlyme23
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if he does all thah and wont leave you alone... a) dont let thah get to you and b) make your life more independent... like say ahed of time wen you want to go somewhere and so if your lil sis needs a bebe sitter everyine noes thah your alredy gone thah day...fer your screen name and stuff like thah make a new password...ask for a lock on your door and your own fone line...things like thah... my lil bro is like totally the type and eben tho i love him i need as much space as he or you does too...so talk to your parents and make soore they get the msg...if they dunt blieve ya then gib them proof like a recording er sumthin...cold hard facts...ya noe?
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Dear Brother Hater , i have a older brother and he does the same stuff / one idea to help you .. you could get a lock on your door and change your password so he cant get on your screen name
love Ashley , ~ plz rate me ~
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Well on your screen name don't have your password saved, and if its not saved and he knows your password then just change it... if he continues to bother youi'd just bother him back...
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Give him a taste of his own medicine. Go through his stuff. Read his text messages. When he's on the phone with a girl, say "Hey is this your jockstrap?". Soon enough, he will get tired of it. Tell him that if he stays out of your life, you will stay out of his life.
As for the babysitting thing...I babysit too a lot during the summer, so I hang out with my friends after my parents come home or on the weekends.
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