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A Friend...er More?
okie heres the thing: see iva had this reallie close frend since i was in 6th grade. we got along tite and stuff thah people started to believe thah we were going out and stuff alredy even tho we were just friends. at the end of 6th grade i moved and dint get to talk to "person" and i dint want to. i wanted to forget about "person" coz eben tho i liked him i knew there was like NO POSSIBLE WAY rite?
well at the beginning of 8th grade wen i finally did get to push "person" to the FARTHEST places in my mind i got to talk to "person" agin through AIM (coz i havent gone on fer like a whole year and a half) and started to like "person" agin. then after a month "person" told me "person" liked me in the 6th grade and that "person" still liked me. i was totally happy rite?
then i intro-ed "person" to like three of my closest frends and one of them like totally changed "person". "person" was soo different and by february "person" didnt even want to talk to me anymore- "person" only wanted to talk to my frend. i knew my frend didnt want to take "person" away or anything even tho she didnt knoe anything baout how i used to crush on him and stuff like that.
wen i went back to see "person" in my hometown, i ran into a couple of my other frends who kept telling me that "person" was sooooo different than how "person" used to be before i left, and they kept bugging me about how "person"
DID like me and that wen i left "person" went through an entire trauma. wen "person" talked to me "person" sed that "person" just turned all wierd and began hating everything since 7th grade. i felt soooo bad!!
is all his changing my fault or was it just something that was coming around? i mean, "person" wasn't anything like how people described "person" wen i was there and they sed that that was the first time "persons" been like that for a long time. so is it a yes "person" likes me or a no? its been bugging and everytime i tried to talk to "person" about it i just get too shy and it ends up to be a talk about one of our common interests or something.
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It isn't your fault he changed. Everything happens for a reason, so I think it was just inevitable. Try to talk to him, so the two of you can sort out how you feel about each other. The rest can go from there.
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hi, well a lil confusing there wit the "person" lmao...anyways...listen wut i think u should do is talk to "person" tell him once n for all how u feel...dont b shy...theres nothin wrong wit u likin "person" n everything :) so just tell "person" wussup...if "person" feels the same way the BEST WISHES...if "person" doesnt then try as hard as u can to forget "person" n move on wit another "person"...:) hope i helped :) xoxo effy
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You couldn't help that you had to move..& it's impossible for it to be ur fault he changed. People change because they want to, if they don't want to change then they don't. Maybe he did go through a trama or something, but that's not ur fault either because you couldn't help that you had to move. If he liked you then that's fine, he could have still kept in touch with you through emails and letters and your visits back to ur hometown, he didnt have to become a different person because of it. And i don't think you should talk to him about it, only because, he might get offended by it. cuz ur saying his changed which he might think that he changed for the worst and he might go through another trama about that or something. (if you do it once, chances are you'll do it again) unless he brings up the topic, don't talk to him about it. *And always remember its NOT ur fault for him changing, he's the only one that can make himself change*
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No its not your fault he changed. Its not your fault you moved, you didn't have any say in it! But some people do go through phases where they change, I have known some people who do.
But I would try to talk to him, even though you get shy, you want to know right? You don't want to regret it. Because down the road you'll think "What would have happened if I told him I liked him?" You don't want to think that! You can always try writting him a letter or something, exactly how you feel. And just tell him that you're sorry that you moved. And that you did like him in 6th grade and that once you guys started talking again you started to like him again! And just be honest with him and tell him how you feel. You'll feel much better and it's always easy to write your feelings down than actually trying to tell them face-to-face or something. And also tell him that you don't want to stop talking to him. And ask him why he changed and stuff. Just ask him whatever you want to know and tell him everything you want him to know. If you need help writting the letter, just ask I'll be glad to help =D. Hope this helps and good luck!
xoxo Kourtney
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