Hello. Well, I'm a very fly girl. I love helping people, and that's why I'm here. I'm very girly, and my favorite color's pink.
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Gender: Female
Member Since: February 7, 2004
Answers: 14
Last Update: July 15, 2004
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wuts the normal weight for a 13 year old and 5'-5'1? (link)
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Ask your doctor. I'm 13, 5'3 and I weigh 96 lbs. I'm often told I'm underweight, but other times, I'm told its healthy. Who to believe, lol?
Love,
FG
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okie heres the thing: see iva had this reallie close frend since i was in 6th grade. we got along tite and stuff thah people started to believe thah we were going out and stuff alredy even tho we were just friends. at the end of 6th grade i moved and dint get to talk to "person" and i dint want to. i wanted to forget about "person" coz eben tho i liked him i knew there was like NO POSSIBLE WAY rite?
well at the beginning of 8th grade wen i finally did get to push "person" to the FARTHEST places in my mind i got to talk to "person" agin through AIM (coz i havent gone on fer like a whole year and a half) and started to like "person" agin. then after a month "person" told me "person" liked me in the 6th grade and that "person" still liked me. i was totally happy rite?
then i intro-ed "person" to like three of my closest frends and one of them like totally changed "person". "person" was soo different and by february "person" didnt even want to talk to me anymore- "person" only wanted to talk to my frend. i knew my frend didnt want to take "person" away or anything even tho she didnt knoe anything baout how i used to crush on him and stuff like that.
wen i went back to see "person" in my hometown, i ran into a couple of my other frends who kept telling me that "person" was sooooo different than how "person" used to be before i left, and they kept bugging me about how "person"
DID like me and that wen i left "person" went through an entire trauma. wen "person" talked to me "person" sed that "person" just turned all wierd and began hating everything since 7th grade. i felt soooo bad!!
is all his changing my fault or was it just something that was coming around? i mean, "person" wasn't anything like how people described "person" wen i was there and they sed that that was the first time "persons" been like that for a long time. so is it a yes "person" likes me or a no? its been bugging and everytime i tried to talk to "person" about it i just get too shy and it ends up to be a talk about one of our common interests or something. (link)
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It isn't your fault he changed. Everything happens for a reason, so I think it was just inevitable. Try to talk to him, so the two of you can sort out how you feel about each other. The rest can go from there.
Love,
FG
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How do you know when a guy likes you for you and not just your body? Ya know, cause some guys now-a-days feel intimidated by a girls mind and become lil punk asses!!! *wink*wink*p-boy!*
LOVE the THOMAS SISTERS! Ü (link)
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If they just like your body, all they will want is to get physical. If they love you for who you are, I think they will truly care about you and your well-being, your happiness, and you'll be able to tell when that happens.
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I need some help. There are some boys at my school that I like to hang out with. They are not the best looking but its whats on the inside that matters. Any good tips to tell if you are in love?
Sincerely,
Mea* (link)
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I think you're in love, when you, yourself can say you're really in love. There's no way to really tell. :-)
Love,
FG
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I recently just became boyfriend and girlfriend with this really nice guy. I really like him and I know he likes me, but he doesn't want people to know about us yet. A dance is coming up and I REALLy want to slow dance with him but I also don't want to give him away to all his friends. I also heard him telling someone he doesn't like anyone when i was right there. I respect that he doesn't want people to know...But i do. What should I do? (link)
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Ask him about it. You could start with just telling those you trust the most, those that you know will never backstab you by spreading the word.
FG
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Lately my boyfriend is being very cold to me. He doesn't want to hug or hold me, he barelly calls. I try to be very affectionate with him but it hurts when you get no affection back. He constantly thinks that I am either lying or cheating on him, which I am doing neither. I love him very much and I want things to work out between us but I don't know what else to do to show him I am good to him. What should I do? (link)
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Confront him about his coldness. Ask him why he's being so paranoid about you "cheating." Try to work things out, and listen to his viewpoints. If he still doubts you, and is still cold, then I think it would be best to give him the heave-ho. I know you love him, but why be with someone that doesn't trust you?
Love,
FG
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I have this friend. She gets on my nerves a lot. She gets really jealous when me or anyone else isn't payin g her any attention. She is spoiled(no offense.) and always tries to make people feel bad. I don't want to be her friend, but she keeps on saying that she has problems and she's gonna kill herself because life is so bad. I have 2 questions. Is she my real friend? And is there any way I don't have to be friends with her? (link)
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Tell her that if she needs help, she should seek therapy. She certainly doesn't sound like she has problems. Trust me, I've been there. Tell her that you think it would be best if you guys took your own separate ways, for a while. If she gets all pissed with an attitude, tell her that being an attention whore is not the way to make things happen for her. If she gets really mad, then tell her, without being venomous or spiteful, that you just don't want to be close friends anymore. I hope I helped. Take care.
Love,
FG
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Is it possible to love a boy who failed kindergarden? I LOVE a boy who failed kindergaden. I just found out. He is soooo cute, though. He's my age and evything. I do't know what to do. it isn't that I don't like him and it isn't because I'm afraid my friends will tease me. I go out with him now. He moved and now he goes to my school again. The only problem is... when do I get to see him? PLEASE HELP! THANKS,
coolgirl57 (link)
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Hon, if you really loved the guy, you wouldn't give a f@*k about what your friends said.
FG
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Does Anyone know any good, free chat rooms to go to to meet people around the teen age? (link)
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I'm a member of an awesome website. Its for people between the ages of 13 and 24. It is great, you have lots of fun, and make mew friends. Its a message board, though, but its pretty instant most of the time. The website is www.spankmag.com
Love,
FG
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I think I'm going to ask the kid I like out...in a note? He was just so cute today...it was like a movie...and he's not that average heartthrob boy either. He's a ghetto white boy. But he's just...i dont know...should I? What should I say? He doesn't know me but it's worth a shot right?
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I don't think you should send him a note. Boys at my school hate receiving corny little love notes from girls. Just ask him personally, be straightforward. If he says no, be cool about it. All will be okay if you believe in yourself. Good luck.
Love,
FG
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how do I becom a better speler and reder? Im deslecksic (link)
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Ask your doctor for resources. He/she may be able to recommend you to a specialist. There's lots of programs and treatments for people with dyslexia, so don't give up. Lots of celebrities, like Jay Leno and Whoopi Goldberg have struggled with it, but now they are successful people, with awesome careers. Gwen Stefani is also dyslexic. If your doctor can't help you, look in the internet. I'm sure you'll find something that works for you. Good luck.
Love,
FG
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Ever since I was a little kid, I've been terrified to leave my house for fear of spontaneous combustion. Is this normal? (link)
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Don't worry about it. SHC is not real, just another of those urban legends. When I was younger, like 10 or 11, I wouldn't be able to sleep because I feared I would combust. It hasn't hapenned, and it never will. All those pictures they show on TV are digitally-made. They aren't real. But you should see a psychologist to get over your phobia. Take care, dear.
Love,
FG
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My crush found out that I liked him. I told my friend to tell him and she did (that's how she found out). Well I walked up as she was telling him, so he walked off. I didn't notice, but I pretend tripped him and smiled at him, you know, just to be funny. But he didn't respond at all-just with really icy body language. When I smiled at him, and he just looked down and walked off as if nothing happened--he didn't even make eye contact like he usually would. I know he felt my leg try to trip him, too.
He's found out before, and he always acted this way (distant), except for once, when he was cool with it (normal). But I don't want him to repeat patterns! He's also got a girlfriend who he's on/off with, but I HOOKED THEM UP IN THE FIRST PLACE! (Doh.)
I was about to cry in class when my friend told me that he said, quote, "I'm scared now...". My other friend who asked said she didn't hear him say that, but she said he just grinned.
Well usually while we're on our way to lunch, he says a few words to me then parts ways. Sometimes he purposely does something. Yesterday he faked going the other way, and bumped me and walked like in front of me so we touched. "Oops...uh, I mean this way."
He always goes the same way.
Well...I was wondering...what has happened? Is he intimidated? Does he think all the fun is taken out of the game when I 'surrender' by telling him the truth? Is he just not interested? Is he thinking it over? Is he scared?
I don't know, that's why I'm asking you. Thanks so much! (link)
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I fully understand this, hon. The same thing hapenned at my school with my friend and her crush. He'd talk to her, but when he found out he avoided her at all costs. Boys who take that approach are scared to have to be up front with the girl, and have to talk to her and all of that. They find it much easier to run away. At least that's what my good online guy-friend says. Good luck.
FG
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