Question Posted Wednesday February 4 2004, 6:35 pm
I think I'm going to ask the kid I like out...in a note? He was just so cute today...it was like a movie...and he's not that average heartthrob boy either. He's a ghetto white boy. But he's just...i dont know...should I? What should I say? He doesn't know me but it's worth a shot right?
Additional info, added Thursday February 5 2004, 11:27 pm: and no ghetto boys do not suck....dont be so stereo type okay? the way they dress has NOTHING to do with their attitude...I have some friends who are ghetto...I didnt ask for critisism...just advice and if you cant give it to me please dont answer at all.
Thank YOu. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? FlyGirl answered Saturday February 7 2004, 6:36 pm: I don't think you should send him a note. Boys at my school hate receiving corny little love notes from girls. Just ask him personally, be straightforward. If he says no, be cool about it. All will be okay if you believe in yourself. Good luck.
blondology answered Thursday February 5 2004, 6:29 pm: Think Im Gonna,
I note is always a classic way to ask a guy out. You should ask him out anyway you feel more comfortable with. I think if you trully like him and feel like yourself around him you should just go for it. But if he doesn't know you then I would probally reconsider it. Maybe first you should get to know him more and then decide. You can't always go by looks and in your case I would go by whats deeper. Not just saying that he is cute.Good Luck!!
Hope that Helps,
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coolgirl57 answered Thursday February 5 2004, 4:25 pm: I'm in your position now. I love a boy who doesn't know me and i don't really know him. I thought about it and I decided not to because I thought i'd be making a fool of myself. What do you think you should do? [ coolgirl57's advice column | Ask coolgirl57 A Question ]
DruidX answered Thursday February 5 2004, 8:55 am: Of course its worth a shot. The whole idea of courting is to get use to and learn about the person you are dating.
With a note like this, I would keep it heartfelt [what you feel, not what you think he wants to hear] and fairly simple.
miSScxoxo821 answered Thursday February 5 2004, 1:15 am: OK, so he's the cutiest guy in the world. But maybe there's more to him than that. Or maybe he's not what you thought he was. But before you ask him out and rush things, get to know him first, and not just his name. Because if you rush it and ask him out he might say, "no" because he doesn't even know who you are. So, get to know him and he just might say, "YES!".
Sincerely,
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Cspinoza1 answered Wednesday February 4 2004, 10:50 pm: Girl everything is worth a shot, even if its a shot in the dark. But if you ask me you should ask him face to face not through a note, but thats up to you. So I say go for it taking a chance never hurts.
Pandabalism answered Wednesday February 4 2004, 8:48 pm: Whoa. He doesn't know you? Let's be a little mature, shall we? You don't go and ask someone out who doesn't know you. Try talking to him, and becoming his friend first. Geeze. [ Pandabalism's advice column | Ask Pandabalism A Question ]
shay*shay answered Wednesday February 4 2004, 7:01 pm: If he doesnt know you, do you really think he'll say yes? Is he that type of guy? If not I'd hold back for a wile and try to get to know a bit more about him. The outside may look nice, but you need to know whats on the inside to really like and know a guy. Trust me! [ shay*shay's advice column | Ask shay*shay A Question ]
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