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Hey I'm Bryant! There is this girl I like and I think she likes me what do i do ? (link)
ask her?


I think I'm going to ask the kid I like out...in a note? He was just so cute today...it was like a movie...and he's not that average heartthrob boy either. He's a ghetto white boy. But he's just...i dont know...should I? What should I say? He doesn't know me but it's worth a shot right?
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I'm in your position now. I love a boy who doesn't know me and i don't really know him. I thought about it and I decided not to because I thought i'd be making a fool of myself. What do you think you should do?


some of my good friends go to a different school. recently, one of them met a friend that goes to my school. i'm scared that they'll be best friends and lock me out. What should I do? (link)
talk to your good friend about it


ok my girlfriends parents are neo nazi's. she a few bad grades and now shes grounded for over a month... this sux it means i cant do anything for her at all no two month annervirsy no dates no flowers nothig i cant even call her she has to call me...is this complete bullsht... we are trying so hard to stay together and it seems like one thin after another gets in our way we spend more time defending our relationship than atcually having one...her parents are cool but only to my face once i leave they say horriable things to my girlfriend...what can i do ive decided to start writing letters to her by snail mail since i cant see her or talk to her online but other than that i dont know what to do...i could use some help on this if anyone has any bright ideas please pass them my way thank you very much.


that was my question and you said i should talk baout our releationship and i was wondering what you meant (link)
I meant to just talk to her about the way you can't ever see her. I wasn't talking about breaking up with her. You can do that only if you want to. I hope this helps


do you mean taqlk about it as in see if i we should break up? -rabidweasel (link)
i don't know what question i answered so i can't help you unless you send me a copy of the one i answered


i really like a boy but i not sure how he feels about me . how can i find out???? (link)
IF YOU WANT TO ASK HIM GO AHEAD. IF YOU DON'T THEN JUST GET A FRIEND TO ASK HIM FOR YOU. AND IF YOU DON'T WANT TO DO THAT THEN GET ONE OF HIS FRIENDS TO ASK HIM HOW HE FEELS ABOUT YOU. I HOPE ONE OF THESE WORK. IF YOU HAVE ANY MORE QUESTIONS FEEL FREE TO ASK ME.


Who's better?
Britney or Christina (link)
Britney I'd Say Christina Used To Be Cool But Now I Think She's A Dork. You Choose Who You Like Best.


ok my girlfriends parents are neo nazi's. she a few bad grades and now shes grounded for over a month... this sux it means i cant do anything for her at all no two month annervirsy no dates no flowers nothig i cant even call her she has to call me...is this complete bullsht... we are trying so hard to stay together and it seems like one thin after another gets in our way we spend more time defending our relationship than atcually having one...her parents are cool but only to my face once i leave they say horriable things to my girlfriend...what can i do ive decided to start writing letters to her by snail mail since i cant see her or talk to her online but other than that i dont know what to do...i could use some help on this if anyone has any bright ideas please pass them my way thank you very much. (link)
I don't know how bright this is. I say you should talk to her about your relationship. What else can I say.


What does everyone here do to become a better writer? I want to be a writer when I grow up and I want to know if there are any writing excercises to become a better one. I know reading helps...but I'm just always in a writers block because all my writing is the same and it gets frustrating.
Know any way to improve my writing?
Anything...even if you think it sounds stupid.
Thanks! :) (link)
i don't know any good strategies but i think you could try to write different stories and see what youre good at. im good at writing fantasy i hate realistic. i can't write a good realistic story. but you may be able to write realistic stories. who knows? i hope this helps


okay here is the problem.
my friend entered in a beauty pageant and she is in the finals and she had them send ME info so i could enter. but my mother won't let me. my mom is 53 years old and im REALLY bummed out that she won't let me. i feel that im very pretty and that i could even beat my friend if i wanted to (not that i want to beat my friend) is my mom afraid that im not pretty enough to be miss teen of the nations? or does she think i will get a big head? im not going to get a bug head because thats not me. my mom use to do all this stuff when she was younger. is it that she WAY old or am i not good enough for her?
anyways im on this site to GIVE advice no ask but i really wanted some advice.
always
~kat~bare~ (link)
i say you should ask your mom again if she won't let you this year try again next year. you could enter anyways but that would be wrong. u culd tell her that u reaally want 2 do this.


does anyone have any good advice on how to have the perfect hairdo or style so u can make boys heads turn when u walk by? (link)
i don't know haw you would do it but i say you could make it really really really tall on top of your head. or if you want him to notice your hair just use a color that suits you and dye it with spray in hair color that washes out. it would look freaky, though.


if i had a dream about a boy that i dumped like a month ago and i liked the dream does that mean i like him? (link)
It might. Im not really sure. It might mean that he likes you. Or you could like him. Ask him what he thinks about you.If he says he doesn't ask one of his friends. If they say he likes you then he probably does but he's to afraid to tell you because-well I don't know why. If you think you like him and you don't have a boyfriend and he doesn't have a girlfriend then ask him out and see what he says. If he says yes and you feel comfortable with going out with him then you probably like him. If you don't want to ask him out then that's fine too. Just try something-anything and see what happens. You never know!


ok i have had to decide between to guys and i have picked my neighbor not only is he the man of my dreams but is every thing to me i mean im just the girl next door and have the look to but i ran into a problem i cant stop thinking about the other boy can anyone help me find a way to put him in the past as a boyfreind but also be my friend too? (link)
this one is really tough. i would probably just say ask the guy that you don't go out with just to be your friwnd. there's nothing you can really do about the way you feel.


well ive been doing this for about two or three weeks now and id like to get some peoples advice who have been doing the whole advice column longer than i....is there anything i should change. should i be alittle less harsh maybe not speak my mind so much i dont kno i would love someone to critique me thank in advance -me (link)
Dear rabidweasel,
i have only been giving advice for 2 days and i say you should speak your mind let them hear how you feel and tell them what you think but if you think you are being to harsh then its your decision to slack up and quit being harsh not mine


my guy friend has always had a crush on me and he would always- i htought. i always kinda took it for granted that he was there for me to be reassured that i was still attractive but i jsut found out that he really likes somebody else. any advice on how to deal? (link)
if he's just your friend and you don't go out then i would say to go out with a guy yourself and if you(meaning your friend and you) are dating then there's nothing wrong with having a crush. if he isn't dating this girl-or even if he is you should tell him how you feel he'll probably listen


YANKEES?
or
Red Sox
???
Make the right choice... (link)
i say choose who you want. it doesn't matter whose best. coose who you like the best. i can't make that decision for you


I have a friend. She is, well...a drama queen. Everything is a major deal and somthing to get in a massive fight over. She just has a way to totally ruin your whole day. everyday. So i was wondering...what cani do to help her change? i dont really want to break off the friendship but i dont want it to stay as is. please help (link)
i think you should TRY to talk to her. if she's as big as a drama queen as you say she is then she'll probably wig out. i dunno. if you try to talk to her she may wig out and she might not. just try it. if she's your best friend or even your friend she'll listen probably


I am a senior in highschool and once i graduate i would like to go into fashion designing or interior designing. I have "shadowed" an interior designer before and have helped people in their rooms with designs. I am also curretly designing my prom dress and would hopefully some day like to design my wedding dress. Just one concern.... What if i am totally out of my league and really have no clue with what i am doing. What if i go to college and major in this and then find out that it isnt for me? I guess its just a concern i have been having for awhile now, someone please give me advice. KT

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Dear KT,
I think you should follow your dreams and if you decide that what you major in isn't for you then i think you should go back to college and try to do something else if you really like designing then i would say go for it


ok im 13 8th grade 130lbs and feel weigh to over weight i want to look like a modle and im not doing this for the man of my dreams im doing this to look good. im pretty and got all the right looks but i feel to fat andi want to look good in a bikini aslo i want the man of my dreams to go woah!! when he sees me even thouhg he already thibnks that about me but he likes girlss like paris hilton and i kinda want her figure and everyones gonna say dont change you look for him im not im changing it so i feel good around him cuz right now i feel ot fat when im around even though everyone thinks im beautiful and skinny just help me do u think i could get liposection? or soemthing i have tried dieting but i just crave food to much but im trying to cut dwon on the fatining stuff im in a little bit of good shape i play soccer and lift sometimes but help me someone? (link)
i think you should just be yourself and go on a diet only if you want to you don't have to look like a model i want to look like one but i an't so i just have to accept the way i look and i think that when the time is right ill look like i want to


Ok my friend Kyle likes this girl who he used to date, but she's going out with someone else now. He wants my advice, but I really don't know what to say, can someone please help?
Kortni* (link)
tell him to wait. kyle will probably and eventually break up with her. if he likes her he should tell her when he thinks the time is right if she likes him she will probably do something about it




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