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Friend or Not?
Sorry, this is so long but please take the time
to read it.We'll call my friend Trea (not her name)Ok, now Trea is the kind of girl who always tries to do the right thing. This boy hit me(we're still under age so it's not against the law.) He put a bruise on my arm Friday. So on Tuesday I (i'm a girl) tried to get him back. He is a lot quicker and stronger so when I went to hit him he pushed me downand I have a sint arm. Wednesday, (today) I went after him again because he had pushed me down Tuesday. I didn't expect to have everything happen that did. Trea, tried to stop me because he pushed me down and I scraped my elbow Wednesday. I was going after him again. I told her to leave me alone (I was mad) and not to tell anyone.My other friend told her the same thing. I went after him because my friend held Trea back. She secretly went and told the teacher on meand the boy. I had almost caught up with him and Trea grabbed my shirt from behind. I couldn't get loose because I was hurting and didn't bother to fight back. She took me to the teacher and they kept asking me questions. I answered as many as I could. They asked me why I hadn't told anyone about the fights. I didn't want to because they usually don't do anything. I can't talk to the boy or his friend (I like his friend but that's not the point) because the teachers won't let us. I don't usually cause trouble. This is my first time. My real question is, is Trea my true friend or not?
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She's your friend. As much as you might think she was trying to get you in trouble, she wasn't. She was trying to help you and make sure you didn't get hurt.
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I would say she is. I would have acted the exact same way with my best mate I expect. She was trying to help you. She probably felt it was her duty to get a teacher to help you, and she obviously didn't want you to get hurt any more. I dobut she was 'ratting' on you, but sincely concerned for you and your safety. Be glad you have such a good mate.
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I think she is a true friend. I think she was very worried about you and that is why she tried to stop you and told your teacher.
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What the hell do you think? That is a friend that cares enough about you so that you don't get hurt again. I think you need to think who is being stubborn in this whole ordeal. Because its you a guy hurts you and you openly admit it and that he is stronger, I wonder what most people would do, TELL. Yea thats true if you ask me your lucky to have a friend like that because next time you went up to him he could have hit you.
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Uh, excuse me for sounding rude, but DUH. Of course she is. She just didn't want you to get hurt AGAIN. And quit going after this guy, I mean, obviously he's stronger than you if he keeps hurting you. And remember, violence is not the answer, my friend.
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You're lucky to have a friend like Trea. A real friend is someone who looks out for you. She told a teacher because she was worried, not because she thought it'd be funny. Be happy she's your friend.
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Of course Trea is your friend! If she wasnt she would have sat back and let it happen. Maybe even get a little humor out of it, which is not what a friend would do. Wouldnt you do that for her? She did that to protect you! You should be happy she did. Oh and do you have Conflict Managers at your school? If so go see them about you and the kid.
Dont worry, be happy
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I wish everyone had a friend like Trea. Sometimes, we give in to emotion and the ability to think logically abandons us. In those moments, it's good to have someone around who can point out the errors we are about to make and hopefully, help us avoid any trouble that we may experience as a result. You say you knew that she was the type to always try and do the right thing. You knew that and tried to get him back anyway. Sounds to me like she was trying to keeo you from making a mistake that you would regret later. That, my dear, is a true friend in ANYONE'S book ;)
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