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ok, my boyfriend of 3 years wants to go into the army for about 4 or 5 years. i was just wondering, is there any chance of him getting hurt,dying,etc? b/c if there is..i cant let him go. please help me. ill rate high. (link)
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It's the army. It's not the safest organization in the world, I can't possibly see how it would be not safe. He's definitely going to get hurt at least a little. But you can't make him stay if he really wants to go. He should be able to make his own decisions. It is his life, just because you're apart of it doesn't mean you're in control of it.
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okay well, since the last 2 weeks school has started i've gotten alot of compliments, and i've been in this school for about 3 years now and well i've gotten compliments but the last 2 weeks i've gotten compliments more than i've gotten in the last 3 years!! is it because over the summer i changed alot?? and it seems like the boys are the ones noticing me, yeah i got a little bit taller and i look a lot better but is it me or them?? or is it because my breat grew alot more...
((i rate high))
tnxs (link)
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You are taller and you look a lot better since school ended last year, and you honestly don't know why you're getting more compliments?
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hi im only 14 and i m like rely hairy down there and i can never let neone seeme in my undies bc it is soo hairy! i want to be normal! its embarassing! and when i do shave Omg it gets SO RED AND BLOODY and BUMPY so many red bloody bumpies and the hair comes back! and im not like olny talkin bout the hair in front o have hair like all around my..umm..buthole lol help me!! ***thank you!! (link)
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Try trimming, not shaving.
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sO...i've been a vegatarian my whole life... but i never have ne protein! is that bad? what can i eat? (not eggs) and am i really unhealthy?
THANX IN ADVANCE! (link)
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I'm not sure where you live, but here's a list of foods you can eat that have a ton of protein in them.
Bread, American loaf
Lumpia(spring roll) wrapper
Macaroni
Pan de sal
Rice, glutinous
Rice, milled, white
Rolls (hotdog or hamburger)
Spaghetti
Wheat Noodle
Bamboo shoots, dried
Banana flowers, dried
Breadfruit
Cashew nuts, roasted
Cassava leaves
Chickpea
Cowpeas
Lima beans
Mung beans, boiled
Mung beans, green, raw
Mung beans, red, raw
Mushroom, dried
Peanuts, raw
Peanuts, roasted
Pili nut
Red kidney bean
Sesame seeds
Snapbeans, black, dried seeds
Snapbeans, fresh
Soybean
Soybean, boiled
Soybean cheese, soft
Soybean cheese
Soybean curd
Watermelon seeds, salted
White beans
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im 13 and never had a boyfriend. How old were you when you got your first boyfriend?? (link)
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I was four. that would make my girlfriend three. So my ex-girlfriend got her first boyfriend when she was three. I never had a boyfriend, and don't want one.
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Hey everyone! It's fabolouzxkay8! Ok I need help finding subliminal messages in songs. If you don't know what a subliminal message is, well its a message in songs, tv, and media that make you wanna buy or get something. Does anyone know any songs that have subliminal messages? I don't want songs from Britney Spears or Slipknot. If you do find a song that has a subliminal message in it, can you tell me where it is in the song when I play it? Thanks (link)
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On the Tenacious D album, Jack says donkey crap backwards.
Weird Al says join my fanclub on one of his.
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I have some questions so here they are:
1: What can I get my friend for her 17th or 16th b-day
2: How can I get a guy to notice me not just at school but anywhere(mall/movies/etc)
3: How can I get guys to flirt with me or like me
4: I want guys to think I would do stuff with them but really I wouldnt so how can I do that
5: LAST I dont smoke nor drink but I want people to know I can party and know how to have fun how can I
*!*if you can answer all 5 ?'s plez do*!* (link)
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1. If you don't even know how old she is, I wouldn't try to get her a card with her age in it. Unless you can find a "Happy 16th or 17th" card. You know her better than we do, get her a necklace or something.
2. If guys were ever going to notice you, they already do.
3. Flirt with them. If that doesn't work then you can't.
4. What? Do you want to get date raped?
5. Go to parties.
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I just started working, I only work weekends. Theirs a guy I like and we have the same working time sometimes. I think hes cute but I dunno if he'd like me. We're not dating anyone. Today I heard he wants a gf who likes to party and have sex! But of course Im not going to have sex BUT
*How can I get him to know that Im avaiable
*That I would want to date him
*If he likes me
...please answer back...I can rate if u want... (link)
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Ah yes. Every girl wants the guys who are only looking for sex, don't they? Also, dating people you work with always ends well, doesn't it?
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hi. im one of those girls who get all the attention from all the guys. yeah they literally follow me around and fight over me. i like the attention, sure, who wouldnt... but it gets realllllly annoying. like im trying to hang with my girls and they just keep talking to me and fighting over me and other girls think im a slut cuz all these guys are always FLIRTING with ME. its not like i come on to them.. what should i do?
thanx alot
-sick of being ms popular (link)
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To answer your first question, I wouldn't! It would freak me out if guys followed me around and fought over me. For your second one, tell all of the members of your fan club to fight to the death. After a victor immerges, kick him in the crotch as hard as you can. I think that will solve your problem.
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This is a note to all question askers: Pay attention to if your question has already been approved. DO NOT keep sending the same question out over and over again once it's already been accepted or the mods will just delete it. (Ie: The young girl with the question concerning a guy named Travis your question is visible on the 2nd page of he main pages and already has 5 answers). Thanks. (link)
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Never! I'll ask my question as many times as I want! Please rate me!
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ok like all my friends ave done something wit a guy like sexual n i really havent lke sometimes i really want to do something more wit a guy but my longest relationship was like a month so i ddint do anyuhting like i odnt like this kid too much but hes really sexually active and i wanna like do something wit him but i dunno how to do anhting and i dont wanna embarress myself im only 15 but time is running out and im still here wihtout sex lol (link)
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Time is running out? What do you mean by that? Are you deathly ill or something? If you are, please include that in your question.
I disagree with MFS. I think you should do something you'll regret, you kids do that a lot anyway. You'll learn the lesson in a harsher way than if you follow the advice. Be stupid and don't give this any thought.
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Hey everyone, Siren here...I'm lost on this. Here's my shpiel:
This girl has been my best friend for around 13 years. Last year, I got a boyfriend and she got really clingy; called me every day wanting to hang out. It drove me nuts, but I think she stopped calling once she realized I wouldn't abandon her.
That was the start. Now, I never wanna hang with her anymore...Being around her bothers me, and I can't figure out why.
She sits with me and my choir friends at lunch, but she doesn't speak to them, only me, and when she does, it's off topic. She'll interrupt a convo I'm having with another friend to talk to me about something else and it's...grr. I feel like I wanna talk to her sometimes, but I almost don't want her to sit with us...
I know sometimes friendships die, but I really don't want to lose her, and I hate feeling like I don't wanna be around her. I used to tell her EVERYTHING, all my secrets...she used to know the most about me of any of my friends, but I stopped telling her because she doesn't seem to...care?
It might be that I grew up a lot, and she hasn't quite, but I'm not sure that's the only thing that's screwing up our friendship. I'm sixteen and a girl, she's seventeen, if that makes any sort of a difference.
What should I do about this? I asked my dad (he's a psychiatrist) and he didn't know what to do; neither did my mom...so I turn to y'all. (link)
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Well, if a psychiatrist can't help, I guess there's not much of a chance that I can, but I'll give it a shot. This is a tough one, I'll have to think about it and get back to you when I'm thinking straight and not so tired... Oh well, I'll answer now. If I don't make sense it's because it's late.
Anyway, if the constant interuptions is all that annoys you, then I would tell her about it. I wouldn't seem too annoyed, just help her see it your way. If it's just her presence that annoys you, there's nothing you can do. You already know that there's often no escaping the death of a friendship, so you may just have to find a way to cope with not being her best friend anymore.
The increasing maturity gap you mentioned, I think, has a lot to do with this. Things that may still interest her, you may have already grown tired with. And her clinginess last year may have started a weirdness that still subconsciously exists between you two. I could go on and on about theories of why you two are growing distant, but that's not really important now is it? What's important is figuring out what to do now that the distance is here.
You may just have to accept that she has now become one of the annoying people you have to face. You could just wait for her to catch up to your maturity level, that is if she ever does. Whenever one of my friends or I am in a similar situation, we just bare through it. Since you don't see her as often, I don't think it would be much of a problem. Since your worried about losing her friendship, like LilMia811 said, there's always going to be a time when you may need her, or she you. I'm sure you'll never lose that. You can still tell her about something that's bothering you (well, maybe other than this) and I'm sure she'll at least listen. I doubt you'd ever lose that. And if you feel like you have, just talk to her about something that's bothering you. You might find that nothing's changed in that she's still someone you can tell things too.
Well, hopefully some of what I just said makes sense. I'm tired and off to bed. If you want to go more into detail with this situation with me you always can. I might make more sense later on, who knows.
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well here's the deal ive had a lot of trouble with this friend...so i will start from the begining so this guy we will call him "fred" well fred was going out with this girl "sara" so fred and sara were going out and fred would sneak over sara's house at night and they would do "stuff" well one night sara didnt wanna do the stuff but fred did and fred forced himself upon on her and raped her anally (they had never gone that far before)he wasnt caught till afterwards, he is now in a self help center...well the reason why he is in the center is not cus of raping sara is because he was caught molesting his sister...he later confused that he has molested his sister for the past 6 years now and his sister didnt know any better cus shes 10 now and it has been done since she was 4 and didnt know she was supposed to stop...so now he is in a self help center has been for a year now...his mom doesnt know i know what he did nor does he and they expect me to resume my freindship with him cus we were best friends..ive talked to my youth pastor about it cus im a Christian and i know i should forgive but its hard too speccially since sara was also a best freind and freds sister is like my little sister...i dunno what to do...should i forgive him should i stay friends with him or what because i know he will be coming back soon.... (link)
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I would stay the hell away from him. He's a rapist!! He molested his sister and raped your best friend. Maybe it's just me, but those type of people are the ones I try to stay away from. Who cares if they think you don't know and expect you to resume a friendship. It's just their way of pretending nothing happened. But something did happen. Don't feel sorry for him either, it's a risk he took when he did those things.
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weLL i LiKe ThIs DuDe and i dont know if he likes me but we are talking and he was supposedly in love w/this other girl and he asked me 2 go 2 the movies las nite but i couldnt and today he "chilled' w/the gurl that hes in love with!! GRRRR!! i hate guys that just talk or w/e!! what do you think? (link)
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What's the point in worrying about it if you're not even allowed to date?
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ok im having trouble attracting boys, i have brown hair brown eyes and glasses, my skin is a light tan, im not sure what kind of makup and hair styles to use but what im doing now is not working. do anyof you have ideas on attracting guys? please help thanks a lot
**hailey**
oh ya im 14/f (link)
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Try not bathing, it works for me.
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I went to a football game last night with my friend Mary. We met up with her friend Anurag and then Drew [my homecoming date]. We were all having fun talking and laughing when we went to go sit down. Drew left for a bit behind the bleachers because he said that "He had to check on something", so we let him. It grew like an hour and he STILL hadnt come back. So me and Mary went to go find him. We went behind the bleachers and found Drew with another girl. Her hands were in his pockets with his in as well. She was practically up on him, really close anways. I asked him what was up with that. And he's like "Oh well i was just warming her up". I couldn't believe he had just done it right in front of me...it seemed like he tore my heart out and ripped it in half. He was my FIRST love, and i was his first too. I can't just let him go no matter what! My heart says no, but my mind says yes. I need some advice on what to do about all of this. I can't stop thinking about it..=( I rate high as well! Thanks for your help (link)
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You can't let him go? When it comes to logic, your mind kicks your hearts ass. Rarely should you ever follow your heart when your mind disagrees. Your first love is just that, a first love. Since he did this, I can almost guarantee you that the destruction of this relationship is inevitable. Get out now and save yourself the pain of having to do it later.
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Alright well this evening I did 20 toyota jumps, 20 front to back, 20 side to side, 20 scissors, 10 moutntain climbers, 15 curl ups, 30 crunches, 15 obliques on each side, jogged for a WHOLE 12 minutes and 15 seconds straight, and then I stretched my legs out since I jogged for a while. I got really sweaty doin all this and all that good stuff and I was just wondering how many calories did I burn by doing that short exercise session?! (link)
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About 2.
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Did any of you ever see that comercial for Smallville? It's on ABC Family (here anyway). Well, you know that song that's playing in the backround? It's driving me crazy cuz I wanna know the name of it. Does anyone know that name of that song? Thx.
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Save Me by Remy Zero is the theme, but I'm not sure if that's the same song on the commercial. It's a great show though, if you don't watch it, I advise you to.
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Ok, its my boyfriends and mine 1month on Wensday. And I don't know what to get him...what should i get him? (link)
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A candy necklace says, "I love you".
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Ok, well heres the thing...I still like my boy friend, I think...see I am not sure if I like him...or I just liked making out with him...lol I know it sounds childish but when I am in his arms I feel safe, and it feels like nothing in the world matters anymore...I dont know what to do because we dated for 3 days and then broke up for about a week and then we dated for another 4 days and then broke up and it has almost been a week, both of the times we broke up it was because he was flirting with another girl and had told his best friend that he liked her more then me, and his best friend proved it to me both times...I dono what to do...i want him back, I think...PLease help me I dont know what to do...I feel so good when I am in his arms and when we are kissing but I dont know if i just like the fact of feeling that way, or feeling that way "WITH HIM"....if you know please tell me!!! I need to figure this out because it is driving me crazy!!
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Since it's driving you crazy, I'll try to answer.
I don't think it's your exboyfriend you are dwelling on, I think it's the closeness. I think the fact that your not even sure whether or not you miss him or kissing him shows this. It's not like you're coming out of a serious relationship. You've only been together for a week. The problem is, this relationship was so brief it left you feeling things were unfinished between the two of you. Even though this was extremely short, it might have been long enough for you to grow used to having a boyfriend.
Truthfully, if this guy really does like that girl more than you, there's not much hope in a relationship working. I advise you to try and find closure. Try meeting other guys.
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