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forgiving friends
well here's the deal ive had a lot of trouble with this friend...so i will start from the begining so this guy we will call him "fred" well fred was going out with this girl "sara" so fred and sara were going out and fred would sneak over sara's house at night and they would do "stuff" well one night sara didnt wanna do the stuff but fred did and fred forced himself upon on her and raped her anally (they had never gone that far before)he wasnt caught till afterwards, he is now in a self help center...well the reason why he is in the center is not cus of raping sara is because he was caught molesting his sister...he later confused that he has molested his sister for the past 6 years now and his sister didnt know any better cus shes 10 now and it has been done since she was 4 and didnt know she was supposed to stop...so now he is in a self help center has been for a year now...his mom doesnt know i know what he did nor does he and they expect me to resume my freindship with him cus we were best friends..ive talked to my youth pastor about it cus im a Christian and i know i should forgive but its hard too speccially since sara was also a best freind and freds sister is like my little sister...i dunno what to do...should i forgive him should i stay friends with him or what because i know he will be coming back soon....
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since your a christian n' all that you can forgive him, but you can't forget...its really up to you, but in my opinion, a person like him dosnt deserve to have friends as good as you
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Move faaaaar away from 'Dawson' and his 'Creek'.
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Whoa dude you got a big burrden on your shoulders... well what i would do is talk to him and maybe show him the bible and get him saved.. then talk to him about what he did and tell him that what he did was bad and cut the friend ship off until like a yr. then start to talk to him... but what he did was a HUGE sin and i would NOT forgive him EVER... but thats just me and what i would do... hope i help lots of love
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I would stay the hell away from him. He's a rapist!! He molested his sister and raped your best friend. Maybe it's just me, but those type of people are the ones I try to stay away from. Who cares if they think you don't know and expect you to resume a friendship. It's just their way of pretending nothing happened. But something did happen. Don't feel sorry for him either, it's a risk he took when he did those things.
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