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how do u tell a guy that u like him?

Well, it just depends on the type of person you. Are you shy? But, just try sitting him down, IMing him, calling him, writting a letter, and just saying "I have feelings for you and I just want to know ho you feel about me." Or say "I've began to develop feelings for you and I want to know if you have feelings for me also." Just say something like that, it gets across you like him and that you want to know if he likes you too. Just tell him how you feel about him and then ask him how he feels about you. Hope this helps and good luck!!

xoxo Kourtney

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Hey. I thank everyone in advance. I'm an advice columnist on here, but I need advice.

Here's my problem:
I used to be BEST FRIENDS with this girl, Nicole. We used to do everything together - camping, swimming, movies, ext. About 8 months ago - we got in a huge fight, and ended our friendship. It was entirely my fault. About 4 months ago - we started talking again. She said she forgave me, and that we could still be friends. Since then - we've talked about 10 times. The problem is: I really miss her being around. Everyone in my family says they want her and I to be friends again. What should I do? Do I call her, or IM her more? Or should I just forget about it? I have more friends, but I really miss her. Thanks for all advice. I'll rate.

*Sincerely,
Ash*

Hey. If I was you I would call her up or go to her house and talk to her. Just sit her down and be like "I know that fight we had about 8 months ago was my fault and you forgave me, but I really miss hanging out with you, you're my best friend and I want you to be FOREVER and I just miss what we had. Do you think we could work at our friendship being the way it use to be?" Just say something like that and how you feel about it all. And just tell her how you feel about the situation you two are in. You guys just have to work at it and just become the friends you guys use to be! Hope this helps, if you still need help, just leave a message in my inbox! Good luck =D

xoxo Kourtney

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Okay, well I liked this boy from last yr ( i'm over him though), but I was always curious about him. Last year, he was an assshole to me like saying "piss off" on IM but at school, he's all flirty with me, staring at me, gives me looks (good), smirks at me or whatever, what does this mean?

Lilly

Boys are confusing, they seem to do that to girls. lol They play mind games with you. It's possible he does like you. But, if you're over him, then just try to ignore him and look away whenever he stares at you so he doesn't think you're interested in him.

xoxo Kourtney

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well, ever since i became in love with this guy i havent been myself...he told me he loved me but just wanted to be friends and well now he likes someone else, well i havent been myself...and i dont know who i am anymore...ive became so unreal it sux! how can i become myself again?

Aww... guys are such jerks sometimes!! He told you he loved you and now likes someone else? WEIRD. Hmm, well since you said you're in love with him and he just likes someone else now, maybe you became depressed and sad because of what he did to you. Try talking to him about how you feel and just be like "You know you told me you loved me and I felt the same about you and now you like someone else, that really hurt me and I just want to know why you did that, I mean if you love me why aren't we together, and now I'm not even myself" And see what he says. Just try talking to him about it. OR you could try going out and having fun to try to get things off your mind, by going to a friends house, a party, the mall, anything that is fun to do in your neighborhood or whatever. Hope this helps and good luck. If you still need help, just ask me!

xoxo Kourtney

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ok im 16 and i am pretty in shape. i am not extremely ripped but i have a nice figure. ive done a million sit ups and i know that i have a 6 pac just EGGING to pop out, but i need to lose a little bit of fat on my stomach for it to show a lot. whats a good, fast way to lose just a little bit of weight so that my abs will show a lot more?

Try running around your block and eating healthier, and drinking water and not pop. You should lose weight that way. Hope that helps!

xoxo Kourtney

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Okay.im 13,im 5'5 and I weigh 120 lbs...i have a nice tummy and everything and i have good arm muscles.but my legs just don't work.When I wear a bikini,if i put my legs close together,at teh top they touch!and it looks kinda wierd.What are some leg work outs i can do?Please answer..thanks.bye

Sit down and put weights on your legs and lift your legs up and keep doing that. Also, try running, swimming and doing laps, do the wall sit - meaning you go upgainst the wall and you pretend like your sitting on a chair. Try those, hope they work!

xoxo Kourtney

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Ok I like this guy who is two years younger than me. Is there something wrong with that :(

No, its not wrong for you to like a guy 2 years younger than you. Age is just a number! I mean, you can't help who you like!! So, its alright that you like him =D

xoxo Kourtney

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ok well i'm jst really mad about my whole "big family" thing i got goin on here i have 2 younger sisters Kirby(11) Kiersten(9) nd a older sister Christina(22) shes actually a half sister but jst the same i grew up w. her nd nw my momss pregnant .. ok so basically im the oldest and ALWAYS have all this "responsibility" nd i hate it i dnt wanna b here to babysit i wanna go out .. plus my family owns ANOTHER PIZZA RESTAURANT weve owned soo many nd i thought that my dad would stop changin careers nd stay an electrition but no so now i have stress to work there nd my moms pregnant so i feel evn more responsibilty i feel lyk the mom alot .. nd my sister kirby i cnt stand she always tries to put me down i guess but she has no confidence .. nd sometimes i jst wish i was nevr born lyk i dunno what to do w. my feelings i tlked to my bf about it but she dsnt have a big italian family lyk me my family goes on nd im always gettin lectured about suttin .. nd i dunno how to deal w. my feelings
please help .. xO0

I'm sorry =( My sister went out with an italian boy, they do have BIG families! And I know that you're under a lot of stress right now, heck I am and I'm only 15 lol. I'm like dealing with early parenthood too because my mom had a brain tumor so now me and my sisters and dad have to help around the house A LOT. So, I kind of know how you feel. But, try talking to your parents and telling them how you feel and tell them what you told us. And for your sister, I know its hard, but you just have to try to block her out. Thats what I try to do atleast. I just walk away from her and ignore her. But, I would try talking to your parents and just sit them down and be like "I'm under so much stress, I'm like the second mom here, and I don't care about me helping out, but I need to have a life also, and Kirby, she puts me down, and that puts more stress on me, now that you're pregnant mom, I just don't know what to do, because that means I'll have to do more work." Just say something like that and just tell them how you feel about the whole situation. I hope this helps. If you need to talk about it, just leave a message in my inbox. Hope everything works out!! =D

xoxo Kourtney

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well heres the deal...theres this guy...well just say his name is bob...so i really really like bob...and i think he likes me too...my stepbro and my friends all tell me he likes me n thinks im hot n other stuff like that...and when we are together we are like really flirty w/ eachother and all that and ive liked him for almost a year now and he knows i like him and we text message eachother almost all day everyday and i cant figure him out...what is the best way to ask him about it...b/c i think he likes me b/c of the way he acts around me like at partys he always gets me drinks n drives me around n were really good friends but i want to be more than that so what do you think would be the best way for me to find out what goes on in his head???
{im 15}

Aww thats cute! Well, you can do it by a lot of ways, like talking to him face-to-face, having your stepbro ask him, or in a text message. And just be like "I heard you like me, and I like you too, I have for 2 years now! And I just want to know if we could ever be more that just friends" Just say something like that. Because I mean he likes you! I can tell by the way he does things for you and stuff and I mean all his friends tell you too! lol. So, just ask him that way or something. Hope this helps, if you still need help just post a message in my inbox! Good luck!!

xoxo Kourtney

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I'm having some troubles getting guys to come up to me and start a conversation. How do I get them to start talking to me more?

Signed,
Guy Troubles

I'm not answering this because I want to get rated lol. But, when you notice a hot guy or whatever. Just look at them and just smile and give them that look or whatever. And keep looking over there so they get the hint for them to come over and start a conversation. Just give them that like flirty look or whatever. Hope this helped. Good luck!

xoxo Kourtney

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my boyfriend hasnt called me n like over 1 month n he has done it b4 n i dont kno 2 do
should i break up with him or stay!!

I would call him up and just be like "Hey, whats up, I haven't talked to you in a MONTH" And just see what he has been up to and stuff. And just be like "How come you haven't called me in a month? Were you mad at me, was it something I did" Just say something like that and find out why he didn't call you. But, if you don't like him anymore or if he treats you like crap, then I would break up with him. Good luck and if you still need help just post a message in my inbox!

xoxo Kourtney

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I had a friend, Trey Davis, well he died because he was chasing after his dog and a car hit and killed him. I wanna see how he's doing, and I wanna tell him how I'm doing. Sometimes I feel like he's with me, gaurding me. But at other times, I feel sooo alone. I wanna know if you can help me out plz!
.::Chelsea::.

Well, I can't help you out, I'm sorry. I'm sorry to hear about your friend too. But, he'll always be with you in your heart. I've lost both of my grandma's at a young age, so I know how it is to lose someone. But, he's in heaven now, and he's watching over you and always will be. He'll always be with you and he knows how you are doing. And the way you can talk to him, is by praying and talking to him that way. He's always with you and always know what you're saying. He's there with you, you just can't see him, but he can see you. If you need to talk about this, just leave a message in my inbox or something. Hope this helped!

xoxo Kourtney

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i have been talkin to this gurl on aim and everything was goin great until she sent me her pic and my dads friend said she was hott. he told me to tell her so i did n she got mad at me bc he said that! now she cant stand me and i didnt do anything to her for her to hate me! what should i do?

Aww I'm sorry. She probably got grossed out when you told her that. So, when she is on again, don't say HI and wait for her to respond. Just be like "Hey, I just wanted to say sorry, I understand that you probably got grossed out when I told you that my dad's friend thought you were hot, but he told me to tell you that, and so I did, he was standing right behind me when he saw the picture of you. Please don't be mad at me" Just say something like that and just tell her the truth about the whole situation. Hope this helped. And good luck!

xoxo Kourtney

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ok i have liked this guy for 2 year and im very shy and i no he likes me but how do i got up to him hes shy so he doesnt want to ask me out and i really like him hes soo nice and funny..but i gotta talk to him more..i really dont no how to tell my feelings too him..please help me

.::COnfused Heart

Aww thats cute!! 2 years! WOW. Hmmm, well since you two are both shy. You can try writting him a letter and just tell him how you feel and just be like "I know you're shy when it comes to this stuff, but I'm also shy too, and I've liked you for 2 years now, and I just want to know how you feel about me, please write me back" Say something like that. Just tell him how you feel about him and you want to know if he feels the same about you too! Good luck, if you still need help, just post a message in my inbox again! Hope this helps!

xoxo Kourtney

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is it ok that i like older guys?? they are more mature and cuter in my opinion. i was wondering is this ok??

Yea, I think its okay, I mean if he's really oooold then NO.. lol thats just kind of disgusting. But, if he's like 20 and you're only like 15, then thats just alittle too old. Yea, guys are more mature when they get older though lol.

xoxo Kourtney

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ok well im 5'3 and im 130 am i over weight???...and my sister shes 5 foot and 80 is she under weight???and if she is underweight i dont know how to jelp her cause when ever she eats she doesnt gain weight....

No, I don't think your overweight! I think thats what you're suppose to weigh if you're 5'3, its like 110-130 I think. And for your sister, she is underweight, but she may have low matab. because you said she eats ALL the time. So, I wouldn't worry ladies! lol. You guys are fine! But, if you're worrying about it, just go to your doctor and talk to him about it and see what he has to say. Hope this helps!

xoxo Kourtney

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hi i was wondering my boyfriend wants me to and i want to but i dont know how but could you tell me how to give a boy head? thnks

Hey! It just depends on how he wants you to. He'll tell you how he wants it. All you do is you pick up his dick and you put it in your mouth and you just suck on it (BUT DONT BITE OUCH) and you just go back and forth. Like you can go slow and first and then go fast. It just depends all on your boyfriend. Just ask him how he wants it! Hope that helped!

xoxo Kourtney

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ok i'm scared to go to high school because i hear you have to shower in front of all the other girls!!! i really don't want to do that it's really gross!! what do i do??!?!?!

NO NO NO! You don't have to shower in front of girls. They have curtains now and you can take a shower in your swimsuit if you want. So, its okay, no worries!

xoxo Kourtney

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A lot of people judge people by their looks and not by their personality. i used to do that too. i realized you arnt going to become a better person and your not going to meet people by judging other people by their looks. It makes me want to cry how i am experecing this. I realized i have been doing that too. i told some people about this person awhile back whom i liked. he wasn't the greatest looking person and the people i told knew that. when i told them, they all looked at me in discuss. that night i reconsidered liking him because of what he looked like and how dorky he was. Now i could have become really good friends with that cretin guy, but because of people and myself judging him, i am not friends with him. Everyone will not notice this, but every look you give a person, if its bad it will bring him/her down. just think about it. How would ypu fee; about it, people making fun of the way you look, or the cold looks you get every day when you walk down the halls. you see every popular boy and girl with someone, having un. Then you see yourslef looking at them wishing you were them. Christina Auhulara has inspired me to write this paragraph, Her song "Beautiful" is a great song. I hope some day you will listen to this song and think the same this i do.

I totally agree with you! I hate when people judge people before they even know them or they just don't like the person just because they aren't hot or cute or pretty or whatever. And, sometimes people learn the hard way. And thats really great that you realized it, not to judge people or whatever. You must be a great person now! And I love that song by Christina Aguilera or however you spell her last name lol.

xoxo Kourtney

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well im having a few trust issues lately....ever since my bestfriend and me went out and broke up i havent been able to trust anyone....he told me he'd always be there for me and stuff and then breaks up with me and totaly ditches me as a friend all together and now me and him have absolutly no contact....not only that but thanks to him im having other relationship issues...i cant trust anyone and everone knows that all relationships are based on trust....i dont know what to do part of me says take a chance and get hurt whats there to lose. I've found the perfect guy but im scared to trust him...what do i do?
Sincerly
Confused in Love
Nikki
13-f-Tx

I have the same problem. Ever since some of my relationships I've had with guys, I always have problems trusting people. But, what I do is I talk to them for awhile and get to know them and if I'm comfortable with them, then I know I can trust them. But, I don't tell them everything just yet, I get to know them better and day by day I get to trust them more. And if I can't trust them, I don't tell them things I want people to know. And thats what I would do if I was you, just get to know this kid and see if you can trust him. If you still need to talk about it, just leave a message in my inbox. I hope this helped!

xoxo Kourtney

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