about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

My GF and i have been together for 8 months now and every once in a while she will get kinda upset at what i do sometimes but we always work it out. there are somthings that she does that bothers me too but i never bring it up i always ignore it, do you think i should bring it up or not? i need some help

Bring it up and maybe she would try to stop doing whatever bothers you. x0

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oh well my friend has this really great boyfriend. and i think i might be jelous..but i dont know. she knows that i thinks hes cute/hot and i promised her i would never go out with him jsut for her. but im knida jelouse of her. what can i do? thanks!

Its okay to be jelous but try to stay away from him because he is your friends boyfriend. You can still think hes cute and hot or whatever but dont do anything that will make her mad. Try to find yourself a boyfriend. x0

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im 13 and ive never had my period but ive ad the white stuff that comes before it for like 2 years. is this normal? and how long after the white stuff does your period come? thanks a lot.

Its normal but ist just discharge and you might get your period soon. x0

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I've always felt that there was no need to be in a relationship at my age(14) but i was just asked out and i think i have fallen in love. but my mother tells me there is no way you can fall in love so young. do you think its possible to fall in love at such a young age? if you dont think so what do you think i should do, i dont want to dump him or anything, but i dont want to waste my time and energy
if there is no point to our relationship.

Yes its possible! Dont let no one tell you different. Just because we are young doesnt mean we cant love someone. Most teenages dont know what love is. They would just say I love you to their b/f or g/f without meaning it and just to be nice. It might take you a while just to acually know if you really love him. You will know tho! x0

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my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 8 months and were like best friends! We have been fighting a lot lately and he jokes around (lies) too much. He always tells me he was lying shortly after but it really annoys me.. on my advice thingy he left me a question.. do you think im gay? and i said no just weird and he left be the worst feedback so people wont ask me stuff.. he never tells me when hes mad at me and i dont know how he really feels... help!

Tell him to stop. Dont just let him do that. Let him know that he isnt gonna do that whenever he wants. Ignore him for a while and see if he would care and if he does tell him how it feels. Maybe you guys are better of as friends because he doesnt seem like a really good boyfriend right now. Try to work things out! Good luck! x0

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What if someone said something offensive about you and you had a disablity, and ur friends and family didnt do much to defend you? I have the right to be mad right? I have the right to be mad at my family for not defending me right? what should i do?

Yea you have every right to be mad at them because they were supposed to have your back and defend you and they didnt. x0

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Ok well i've been talking to this boy for a year and almost 2months.. We've been on and of with the best days and worst.. But through out it all I love him to death.. and i would do anything for him. But he lies/cheats but then again he loves me and is always their for me. And this other boy i went out with in the summer wants me to go to prom which i am going.. I still like him but i love the other boy.. And the one i've been talking to for over a year says you know if you get back with him were over.. and the other one thinks im going to leave him again because i did before... Who should i go for?! I mean their both their for me but the first one i've been threw everything with and he always tells me he loves me and he is sorry for everything.. But i dont want to hurt the other one..

I cant really help you choose. Go for the one you love more and who you feel more comftrable with. Does the other one love you too? The guy that wants you to go to pron with .. you just like him but you love the other boy. Go with the one you love. Also make sure he is nice and that he wont hurt you in any way. Sorry if I didnt help much. I cant help you choose do what you think is best! x0

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R.I.P Pope John Paul II Karol Wojtyla


Now that he has passed away, how does everyone feel? What do you think is gonna happen? Is the world really gonna come to an end? - xglam0urx

No the world isnt gonna end! Its sad that he died but it was his time and he was pretty old. People are just gonna live their life normal. I really dont know what will happen I guess we will just have to wait and see. x0

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14/f
summer is coming up and i am going to be swimming ALOT. i got my period at the very end of last summer so i didnt have to worry about swimming. but now that this summer is getting closer i am considering tampons so i can swim whenever i want. my questions are what brand of tampons are best and should i start now so i will be more confortable or will it matter?

thank you.

To me the most comftrable is Tampex and Tampex Pearl. You should start now so you do get more comftrable and used to wearing them. x0

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Hey.. i got this thing with my parents, my moms ok.. i guess were all not so close.. but we still talk you know. well see my parents useally just argue.. alot.. but its becoming more violent. my dad hit me once before.. then slammed me into the tv shelf thingy. and sometimes into the walls. everytime i tell them to stop up my dad would tell.. you keep your mouth shut or i`ll shut it for you.. i dunno whats gunna happen after like.. 1 day thats over.. then they argue over somehting else thats really stupid. my problem is.. i have a hard time telling my friends. I got this one friend.. cause she knows how it feels and all.. and im bi i have a girl friend.. (ima girl to) and i have a hard time talking to her bout it.. whats a good way to open up.. sorry this is long...
i`ll rate.. please help.
thanks everyone!

I know how that is but it will be over and your parents will stop. My parents fought before and after a lil while they relized that they were wrong and they made up. It will go away. Talk to a friend you trust and they will understand. And also talk to your girlfriend she will be able to help you through this. x0

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Teen christianity is becoming an enormous problem. In hordes normal children are being brainwashed into believing their elders that the world will end within their lifetimes.
As a result kids aren't just kids anymore. Everything that used to be "fun" is suddenly a "sin." We're busy thinking about heaven and our church before we hardly even had a chance to see the world, and we're waiting for the "world to end."
What a crock of sh**. I personally don't even want to go with Jesus if there is an apocolypse. I never was attracted to Christianity. Your parents shove it down your throats before you even have a chance to thin for yourselves. It's a religion created by old men, for old men, and against personal gain or women in general. Well, being an AMBITIOUS woman and a FEMINIST I want nothing to do with this faith. I know I'll be getting some violent attacks from all of you brainwashed little turds about how right you are and wrong I am, and I'll sit here and sigh and understand because you're in a box that you didn't necessarily put yourself in.
So here is my question- what makes you believe anyway?

Im not gonna say anything rude because I dont have a probelm with it. You can belive anything you want and who ever says something rude is stupid. Im sorry but I dont really understand when you said what makes you belive? Belive in god or what? Sorry. x0

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Im gonna try to make this as short as possible so no one has to read alot. There is this guy that goes to my church that plays guitar in the band.When i saw him i thought he was so cute and looked like a nice guy. I didnt know how old he was so i asked someone and they said they think he is 16.. and they also said I am to young for him becaue i am 13 but I dont think its that big of a diffrence. I wanna talk to him but im scared to and im never scared to talk to guys he is the only one. I dont know if i like him like that i just wanna get to know him and stuff because he may have a girlfriend. What should I do?

You just have a lil crush on him. But go ahead and talk to him! If he has a girlfriend then o0 well just be friends with him. No biggy! x0

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OhHh Mii gosh Tedeeza!!!((lolz)) i FriKeN MiSs YoU OhH sOoO dEaRLy!!!n No MaTtEr WhT pPl sAy i AinT mAd At YoU N i fRiKEn LoVE y3w!!(()) YoU ArE sUcH A aWeSoMe FrEnD!!!! I lOvE yOu HeLlaZ!!!! ((*))

Jessi? I love you too! I wish you never moved and I cant wait to see you! Im so glad we worked everything out because I would hate to loose you! I love you always! x0

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ok well my boy friend wants to do something today but i dont... what should i do PLEASE HELP

Tell him you dont feel good and you dont want to do anything today.

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Ok, i used to talk to this guy david and we seemed to hit it off pretty well. but then he accused me of "having something" with his friend John. But it was total bull. So we stopped talking. then, a couple of weeks ago he called me after i texted his cell. we talked for about an hour and then he had to go. We have been talking since. He told me he still liked me because he knew/knows i still have feelings for him. we made plans to meet at a dance club and hang out. seems good right? wrong. his girlfriend showed up so i got ditched. he barely talked to me all night. i was devastated that he would do that to me. but we got over it. now we are talking again and he is calling me and continuing to make plans to hang out. But he still has a girlfriend. and i dont know what to do because i really do like this kid. please help. i rate high.

~Confused (15/f)

Wait until him and his girlfriend break up. If you guys make plans again his girlfriend is probablly going to come and you would get ditched again and you dont want that but anyways.. try to get over him since he has a girlfriend even tho it might be kind of hard since you like him but that was totally ignorant what he did to you and its mean!x0

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What should I do if I get bullied a lot by kids at school? I go to a catholic school, too and its still happening. Junior High can definitly be tough. I get picked on by 7th graders and kids my age. What should I do? My parents and I have tried and tried but nothing has worked! I've gotten nasty emails and instant messengers, and rude and harassing phone calls. can you help me?
Deceivingxheart

They will never stop unless you stand up to them. Dont let them do that. And when they call you and stuff and say rude stuff just be like okay thats great... does it look like I really care. Dont care about what they say because people like that seriously are so immature. x0

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okay!

When people ask you for advice, then you answer, and they rate you low because they dont like your answer, and because you didnt say what they wanted you to! thats just bull! i mean, they are asking for your oppinion!

Anyone else agree or have this problem?

I wish they would realize, that its just what we think!!!

everyone thinks different!!!

I think the low #'s are just there if someone doesnt answer the question, or cusses you out!

Anyways-
Kels

Yea I know that gets on my nerves so bad! If they dont like the answer that no1 says then why do they ask. And why do they rate people low when its just their opinion! x0

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okay- so heres what I see.

I see all of thse girls, and some guys, asking about Sex. will I get pregnate this way, what about this.

and i always answer saying, you should wait, what if you get pregnate, and a whole bunch of stuff to think about like money parents will he leave you- just to name a few.

then the rest of the questions i see are either:
i think i am pregnat, we used a condom and it broke, i dont want to tell my parents, what should i do.

or

i got pregnat and my boyriend left me.

its so horrible!!

I dont believe in Sex before marrage or abortion!!


anyone follow me and agree with me on this??

anything else- leave on in my inbox!!

-Kels-

I agree.

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I want him and I love him so much but I'll never really have him. He has a gf and doesn't see me as ever being material. But I want him and he's a player so he would. So should I enjoy him?
And say "screw his gf" and just do whatever I want with him, cause I really really want him!!!

Go for it.

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i rate 5's to people who arent ignorent
ok so i have this friend joe.. me and him are the people in our group of friends who dont go out with somebody.. hes met alot of girls from different schools on the internet and we were talking about how we want to go out with people from different schools.. he told me hed hook me up with this one guy so this guy IMs me and asks for a pic.. i give him one and he says "wow.. damn" so i say can i have yours now and he takes a long time to answer and just goes i have to find one.. youll laugh at me anyways.. then he says can i just give you it tomorrow.. and well its the next day and he hasnt talked to me.. should i just leave it alone or should i ask him again for it? .. my friend says he has a nice build and hes mixed.. he cant be that bad.. any opinions?

Just ask him again. He probablly thinks you are too good for him so he might be a lil scared. He also might of forgot so talk to him. When he sends it to you and if he doesnt look good make sure you say something nice. l0l x0

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