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What should i do?
Ok well i've been talking to this boy for a year and almost 2months.. We've been on and of with the best days and worst.. But through out it all I love him to death.. and i would do anything for him. But he lies/cheats but then again he loves me and is always their for me. And this other boy i went out with in the summer wants me to go to prom which i am going.. I still like him but i love the other boy.. And the one i've been talking to for over a year says you know if you get back with him were over.. and the other one thinks im going to leave him again because i did before... Who should i go for?! I mean their both their for me but the first one i've been threw everything with and he always tells me he loves me and he is sorry for everything.. But i dont want to hurt the other one..
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<center>ok i totally know how you feel with that guy that lies/cheats. but you have to think about this...if he did love you-why would he cheat and lie and hurt you? i know he says sorry and that he loves you and that just makes it all the more harder to realize that he isnt going to change. trust me i was with my ex for 8 months..he lied/cheated..on me so many times. and i always took him back..and he ended up doing it again over and over again. its time you try something new. if he did love you as much as he says he does..then you two wont be over for good. if i was you id go to prom with the other guy. just give him a chance!! you cant let the guy that cheats on you and lies to you hold you back. just say i know your not gonna like this but i decided to go to prom with (his name). and if he says you two are over then just say something like "oh what i go to prom with another AND admit to you that im going with him, but you can cheat on me and lie to me behind my back and i still am with you and forgive you??" i mean your telling him the truth, so its not cheating or hiding nothing. if things with you and the new guy dont work out. dont go back to the cheater/lier guy..make him come to you. it might take a little while, but if its meant to be and he loves you so much and cant live without you...then HE will come back to YOU. its time you stop forgiving him and taking him back-make him want you back for once....everything happens for a reason
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I cant really help you choose. Go for the one you love more and who you feel more comftrable with. Does the other one love you too? The guy that wants you to go to pron with .. you just like him but you love the other boy. Go with the one you love. Also make sure he is nice and that he wont hurt you in any way. Sorry if I didnt help much. I cant help you choose do what you think is best! x0
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Well, the one that lies/cheats doesnt understand that he has to be honest in a relationship. Tell him you need to know the truth and that you don't like keeping secrets from eachother. If he continues to do this go out with the other boy.
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The guy you've been going out with for a year and two months says he loves you, but if he really did and meant it, he would cheat and lie to you about it. Even if he's there for you, you deserve better. You may love him, but in the end he may just end up hurting you since he cheats on you. I suggest you go for the second guy. Even if you've been through everything with the first one, you can always go through it again with the second guy. The two fo you may not love each other yet, but it's better than going out with a guy who cheats. Hope I helped. =D
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