I have this problem. I'm so scared of guns and robbers and everything. Everywhere I go I picture a guy with a gun coming to get something from me. I'm sick of it. I guess I just hear all the stories of things like that happening and I'm living my life in fear. How do I stop?
thanks
well that really is something to be afraid of, there's not really anything you can do to get it to just go away. try talking to people about it. whenever you feel scared just tell someone exactly how you feel..or write it down.
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i'm traveling to nyc this month and i don't know what to pack! what's the weather like? i know there's highs in the 60's and lows in the 40's, but i don't know abou the humidity/wind factors. What do you suggest? Sweaters or short sleeves with a track jacket?
i dont live there but if i was you i would take a little bit of everything so that way you'll be prepared for anything you need!
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Lately i have been "wet" down there more often and its even when im not horny or anything. why is this?? im 13/f
it's probably discharge.
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I have diabetes so i dont drink regular sugared soda. I mean i can but i dunno i just dont really even like it. But anyways ever since i got it i have been drinking diet coke. I know its not as good as drinking water but is diet soda bad for you???
its not AS bad as regular drinks, but it has the samethings in it. id consider it false advertisement. but if you're gonna drink sodas id stick with the diet.
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I know this ex-colleague of mine but not really that close to him. I think i have a crush on him but i dont really know if he likes me at all.
He's confident, witty and a workaholic.
However, he gets shy/uncomfortable, when i ask him simple personal questions for eg: Do you go for swimming. I think he has a problem of talking about himself to new people or just not that friendly.
So one day, i gave him some sweets via his secretary (i didnt really know him that well at that time in office) and he was quite startled and stared at me and waited for me to say something when i bumped at him at the doorway.
He had those puppy eyes..but didnt say word!.
I pretended not to appear interested in him becos i was too shy.!
Later, i sent him email and was able to chat with him about work..and he responded quite well except that when i asked him for lunch, he just disappeared and dint reply yes/no.,,which was kind of weird.
I managed to obtain his cellphone and he replies all my sms except the ones on personal questions.
So how do i even talk to him tru the phone as a friend, if he's that shy?
How do i get him to even talk to me like a normal friend?
Would appreciate your advice.
well he might like you more than just a friend, and hes afraid to tell you. maybe he thinks avoiding you will make it go away..i know it sounds weird but thats how a guy i knew was. he was afraid that i wasnt going to like him like he did so he just tried to stop so he stopped talking to me.
maybe you should just try and talk to him and found out how he feels. that might make things even more weird but its worth a try.
you should ask him in person if hed like to do something..like get lunch go to a movie etc. so you guys can just talk and do friend things..
thas really all i can think of. let me know if you have anymore questions
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can you still get pregnant and have your period? i mean i had intercourse a couple of days ago and now i feel my period coming but i might be pregnant... i mean we used condums and doubled up. so i dunno what to think...
if you're pregnant you wont get your period. obviously. but if you used condoms you probably arent, but theres always a chance
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Ok, I have no idea what to say when people ask me out and I don't like them. Everytime I end up saying something nice and i guess I kind of lead them on, but I don't mean to, I just don't want to be mean. So what can I say when I don't want to go out with them?
THANKS =)
honesty.
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I'm worried about my friend, she's involved with a guy that makes a fool out of her every chance he gets. i try to tell her that she should just leave him alone but, she wont listen. should i just let her be and sit back while she's being made a fool of?
she'll figure it out the hard way, or once she gets enough of it. you've tried,thats all you can do..let her deal with it.
♥ evy
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okay well this is the deal.
im ready to have sex i know i am. im with a boy right now and we've decided that were going to do it. im just really nervous cuz im not on birth control and im scared something is like going to happen to the condom, like rip. i told him that i was nervous and asked him that whenever he felt like he was going to bust he would take it out and then put it back it when he stopped ..
is that a god idea and if your not on birth control and you use a condom is it most likely you can get pregnant or is like 1 in every 500 people?
please comment back asap !! thank you !!
if you have to ask or you're worried, you're not ready.
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ITS LONG BUT PLEASE READ!
i'm a 15 yr old girl
this JUST happen.. i came home and EVERYTHING.. and i mean EVERYTHING in my room was completely rearranged, reorganized, stuffed in random places, moved across the room, just everything was completely wrong in my room. We just had new housekeepers come for their first day and all i could do was cry at the sight of my room. I really did.. i just cried, it's already late enough and it was going to take me so long to fix my room and put it back to normal. My mom apparently LOVES the new maids ??? i told her to come upstairs and i showed her how everything was wrong. all she said was "they just wanted to make it look clean" LAKDJFKSJ... there are no words for me to describe how upset i am.. am i over reacting??
the only reason i feel so upset is because my room is MY place.. it's the only place i EVER feel comfortable, i don't even like when my family walks in my room, it's just MINE and it wasn't even messy in the first place its just like the housekeepers had the sudden urge to throw random stuff into empty shoe boxes and put them under my bed ...??? so i've spent the past HOUR re-doing my room... i'm not even kidding, i told my mom that i don't want them to clean my room and that i will do it from now on and apparently she won't let me do that because she doesn't think i'll actually clean up...how do i show her that i don't need a maid? and am i over reacting??
just start cleaning and keep doing it, she'll see that you can do it on your own. but i don't think you're over reacting, id be the same way..i never let anyone in my room. just be chill about it, itll work out
♥ evy
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my friend constantly copies everyone, and changes her opinion to match everyone elses. she lies just to be the saem as everyone else. it annoys me SO much, and i hate it. how can i tell her how i feel??
i agree with assuager, and uh make new friends.
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I've been searching for ages for a dress for 8th grade graduation. I don't want to involve my parents in the actual dress buying, so I'm on my own in paying for it. I'd love to find something under 50$, but i might be able to go over that. I'd rather not buy online, because that'd involve my mom more than i'd like, but i think I'll have to. My question is that is there any good stores around Lexington, ky that sells awesome dresses?
Thanks!
try dillards they have all different kinds w/diff prices
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Usually, when a Scholarship Application or a University asks for a one page essay, is it implied as double spaced or not?
yep, double spaced.
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ever since ive been starting this diet i have been getting really bad stomach pains (not like period) but it hurts..this is my diet::
Day 1-eat a lot of food. everything i can. then i eat so much it makes me throw up..!
Day 2-eat nothing.at all..
[[repeat]]
um why wouldnt it be bad, you're making yourself throw up. just excersise and go on a NORMAL diet.
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Is it ok to ask the guy you like to prom on msn? I kinda work with him and we talk a little bit here and there. I think he likes me, but we haven't really hung outside of work. Would asking over msn be weird?
talk to him on msn and get comfortable with him, then ask him at work..or hang out with him somewhere then ask him
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I'm 16/f and my mom gave me her 2000 Lexus but my dad wants to sell it and get me a 2000 or 2001 Honda Accord and I looked at pictures of them, they seem very old style and I don't want to be driving in a grandma-style car. The two door Honda Accords are nice, but my dads making me get a four door. I dont have a lot of knowledge in cars -- so should I go for the Honda or beg to keep the Lexus?
lexusssss
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yea so im a 15/f i really like basketball & id love to play next year but im so nervous because there are a limited amount of spots! in 7th, 8th, & 9th grade seasons i played post, but because im not exactly the tallest im having to change to guard. im really worried about dribbling & outside shots any one got anything i can practice?!
THANKS
i dont really know that much about basketball but if i was you id practice everything, that way you'll be prepared for anything that you have to end up playing! good luck
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ok so i have a zit on my hairline its most likely from my sweat because i work out really hard everyday is there anything i can buy/do to make my skin less reactive to the sweat?
-wash your face 2-3 times a day
-take a shower after you work out
-keep your hair clean. the cleaner it is the more clear your face will be.
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Yesterday I went to PacSun with my friend. I walked into the back of the store, because the hoodies were marked down. As we were browsing, an employee walked past us and sort of stopped. We both looked at him. He went, "Hey!" in the friendlist voice. I was shocked by his charisma, really, I haven't seen anyone so gorgeous. I said "Hi!" back, and we both laughed like little kids. He asked me if I needed any help, and I asked him if he could find a medium for me. When it was time for me to buy it, he looked at me incredulously (but still friendly) and told me he'd hold it for me while I looked around more. I told him that was all I wanted and he kept insisting. Then, you know how you're staring at something so beautiful everything the person is saying is muffled? That's what happened, when I heard him say something about my face. I know it wasn't bad, because he smiled, almost flirtingly. I gave in and looked around more. When I went back, I said that was all I wanted, and he was like, "Are you sure? I mean It's not really the season for hoodies" Please note that when I was talking to him, I was beet red in the face and I was showing all signs of nervousness. He asked if I was alright about 5 times. He was like, "Is it something I did?" I thanked him and walked out of there. A few questions: Do you think he wanted me to stay because he wanted me to buy more, or stay longer because he was attracted? I never asked him his name, and I'm so desperate, I called Pacsun twice, then hung up because a girl picked up! I thought about him and regret how I never asked for his name..or age. I'm 14 years old. I hope to death he is young because If I ever hook up with him, I don't want it to be RAPE! I desperately need help. Pleaseeee. I will rate 5's.
Plus, what can I do when I go back to the store? I want to come back and say something, but I need suggestions. Thank you so much in advance. Sorry for the length.
he was probably just trying to get you to buy things. but it wouldnt hurt to know for sure, you should go in there like you're gonna buy a bathing suit or something and start talking to him..
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okay. i have this horrible rep. as the "Rich Spoiled Popular Bytch"! and it sucks. yeah i have money,& girls prob. wish they had what i have but im at a new school and i have only been there for about a month. since im 16 i drive to school. but everyone stares bc of my car. also everyone trys to be my friends just to see my house. i cant hide it bc i have already tried. and all my frieds have a lot of money too. i just dont like the rep i have for only being here for 1 month! please help me! i neeeeeed to loseeeeee this rep!
xox..
merzz
be friendly to them and talk to them, prove to them that you are what you're not. if that makes sense. but yea be their friends and let them get to know you & get to know them
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