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Msn+Asking+Prom=?
Is it ok to ask the guy you like to prom on msn? I kinda work with him and we talk a little bit here and there. I think he likes me, but we haven't really hung outside of work. Would asking over msn be weird?
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Maybe ask him out for dinner before you ask him to the prom. You could if you didn't want to get to know him more, but try talking to him more at work or online before you ask him
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sure why not. ask him or wait for him to ask you
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I dont see why not, msn can be a good way to ask if you fear rejection because you would not have to see him face to face and see the reaction. But if you are really interested in this guy i would get to know him better face to face and then you would probably find asking more comfortable.
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talk to him on msn and get comfortable with him, then ask him at work..or hang out with him somewhere then ask him
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It depends on the guy, but if you have the opportunity to ask him in person it will be much better. It may be harder for you to do, but there's a better chance that he will say yes. If you're standing right there it will be much harder for him to say no, and he might have a problem with not being asked in person like I do. It's not a problem really, but I feel that if someone cares that much about me they should have enough confidence to ask me in person. I put off dating a guy for a whole month because he couldn't ask me in person. It's a lot more meaningful and makes a better memory when you do. If he says no it's going to hurt just the same so you're not really saving yourself in any way by asking him online. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain by doing it in person. I hope he says yes! Good luck!
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It depends on your way of thinking.
A lot of people have this energy to say things over msn that they usually can't say in person. Asking people out, breaking up, meeting new people... and sometimes it backfires. Not that the person won't say yes, but it may be awkward later on.
From experience, I was asked out by my friend through msn. I said yes, but it was a really strange date because he hadn't had the courage to ask me out in real life. Sometimes, that can happen.
I think it's up to what you feel more comfortable doing. If you prefer msn, then that is what you should do. Just make sure that it won't mean having a weird feeling the next time you see him.
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Get to know him better over msn, and then ask him in person. Most people would consider prom to be a pretty big deal so it would make sense that you get to know him better before you ask and then ask more formally. If it turns out that you ask him over MSN it's not the end of the world... but'll it'll be a lot sweeter if you communicate about in real life.
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