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I have a major crush, and I need help rather quickly. PLEASE
Yesterday I went to PacSun with my friend. I walked into the back of the store, because the hoodies were marked down. As we were browsing, an employee walked past us and sort of stopped. We both looked at him. He went, "Hey!" in the friendlist voice. I was shocked by his charisma, really, I haven't seen anyone so gorgeous. I said "Hi!" back, and we both laughed like little kids. He asked me if I needed any help, and I asked him if he could find a medium for me. When it was time for me to buy it, he looked at me incredulously (but still friendly) and told me he'd hold it for me while I looked around more. I told him that was all I wanted and he kept insisting. Then, you know how you're staring at something so beautiful everything the person is saying is muffled? That's what happened, when I heard him say something about my face. I know it wasn't bad, because he smiled, almost flirtingly. I gave in and looked around more. When I went back, I said that was all I wanted, and he was like, "Are you sure? I mean It's not really the season for hoodies" Please note that when I was talking to him, I was beet red in the face and I was showing all signs of nervousness. He asked if I was alright about 5 times. He was like, "Is it something I did?" I thanked him and walked out of there. A few questions: Do you think he wanted me to stay because he wanted me to buy more, or stay longer because he was attracted? I never asked him his name, and I'm so desperate, I called Pacsun twice, then hung up because a girl picked up! I thought about him and regret how I never asked for his name..or age. I'm 14 years old. I hope to death he is young because If I ever hook up with him, I don't want it to be RAPE! I desperately need help. Pleaseeee. I will rate 5's.
Plus, what can I do when I go back to the store? I want to come back and say something, but I need suggestions. Thank you so much in advance. Sorry for the length.
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try and treat this like a big girl. immaturity is a turn off. just go back to the store on the day that you went before... like if it was a tuesday or something go back on tuesday... ok? since thats prolly when he works. look for him and ask him his name. then say something! just talk to him... and remember... giving him your # would be good. he'll most likely call you that way... seeing as he cant if you dont give it to him. dont be shy!
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Okay, one question at a time.
1. He wanted you to stay longer because he was attracted to you, not because he wanted you 2 buy more stuff.
2. Call back again, and ask if you can speak to a male who works there, and see if you can recognize his voice. If not, hang up.
3. Go back to the store and buy something else, even if it is just a necklace or something. If he is there, make a move and maybe he will ask you out =)
♥ kkkkkendall
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I dont think he wanted you to stay jsut to buy more stuff i think he wanted you to stay because he liked you like you liked him. It seems like it was love at 1st sight i wouldnt just let this fly by i would go back in when he is working and wi ould buy something else make it seem like you were just inn shopping then you should eithergive him a note with your name and number and see if he wants to hang some time or i would simply ask him for his name and ask him if he wants to go out some time.
hope this helps
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id would go back and see if he is there, and if he is ask him how old he is and be like i thought i saw you before somewhere, and if he is waaaay older just be like wow. nevermind thought you were someone else, and look around for a couple mins and walk out, if he is around your age, 15-16- maybe 17 then be like hmm, sorry i guess i was wrong, whats your name? oh really. im not sure if your the guy, sorry for bugging you. and then look around the place and then be like you have a blah blah in my size? and be like okaaay thanks, and if he seems intrested be like do you want my number? and if he says no, be like okaaay thats fine thought id be nice but i guess not, i thought itd be cool being friends. if he says yes give it to him and be like call me sometime, and leave. itll keep him guessing.
-sammay
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he was probably just trying to get you to buy things. but it wouldnt hurt to know for sure, you should go in there like you're gonna buy a bathing suit or something and start talking to him..
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Hate to say this... but I worked in retail for 3 years, and I know a good salesman when I hear about one.
Remember that they're trained to get you to buy more! If him being cute, friendly and flirty did the job, that's what he'll do. I know for a fact that I made more sales at my mostly male customer based job when I was a little flirty.
Sorry :( but there's no harm in going back and having a good look at him :P
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deffantly go back to the store and pretend your lookin for another sweatshirt! or something else!! if you see him there wait for him to say somehting to you unless your like cheakin out and yu say hi! but if he maes conversation just be like whats your name! yeah just follow your heart! if he like really old then be careful but yeah
hope i helped
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