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What there to say about me? I'm 27 and a graduate of UCSD. Throughout my life most of my close friends have been girls so I have a unique perspective on relationships and sex. I know a lot about computers as well as random stuff in general. Feel free to ask me anything and I'll answer it to the best of my knowledge.
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how do you get an STD?? i know its by having sex with a guy but is it just from his sperm or his sperm mixed w/a girl's stuff or just from a girl's stuff traveling through his body to yours?? (link)
you get STDs from sexual content (few, but some can be transfered from any skin to skin content) with someone who has an STD. its just from sperm, doesnt have to mix with anything. blood also transfers it, so if you get blood from an infected person into contact with a cut on your body, you could catch it.


i remember a long time ago watching an anime that was like knights of the zodiac i dont remember what it was called and i hope someone could help me figure out what the name is. it might be knight of the zodiac im not sure cause i haven't seen enough of it to figure it out. i remember the characters having armor like in knights of the zodiac and i also remember the red character (the guy with the red armor) getting a white armor later on in the anime (white tiger or something) that about all i can remember does anyone know what anime this could be? (link)
not much detail there, but sounds kind of like ronin warriors. the red one can do a power up, where the others channel their powers to him, and he turns white.

http://img241.imageshack.us/img241/4033/rwdvddr4.jpg


allright. so i signed up a form once on a website months ago. recently i found out that they used my full name as a username for a 'profile' on their site with all my information (height, WEIGHT, LOCATION, ethnicity, full name!!)

i came to know about this profile when i searched my name on google.

i called the website service and asked them to cancel my profile, and they did that.

but on google, its still the first thing that comes up and you can easily see everything in CACHED. =(

there is a form on google in which u can ask them to not include a site on their search engine, but the site either has to be a dead site (404 error) or your own site.

does anyone have any idea what to do? i feel SO uncomfortable with all this information out under my name, and god knows who is 'google-ing' me!!

should I call the website service again and ask if THEY can do anything in the matter? Or should I wait a century for google to update its cached? And will it?


Thanks soo much guys (link)
search engine caches are temporary, so with the info off the site, it will be off google relatively soon.

you might wana check web.archive.org to make sure its not on there as well.

in the future, just be more carefull putting your full name and info into websites


My boyfriend and I are 17 and I have been on microgestin birth control for over 3 months. A couple weeks ago my boy came in me while having sex and after that i got a period but it wasn't my placebo week. A couple days after that period, he came in me again and so the following week (my placebo week) I didn't get my period. Is that because my body doesn't want to bleed again that quickly or I screwed up and may be pregnent? Please help. How effective are these BCPs? Should we still be using a condom? (link)
Birth control pills are quite effective, but its always good to use a condom as well. The added protection from pregnancy makes it highly unlikely that you'll get pregnant, plus, theres always STD protections. Its good, even if you both think you're clean, something might have happened, an accidental needle stick etc.

As for why your period is out of whack, I don't know. If you only recently started having sex, that could be screwing up your period. Also, the birth control pill takes a while to fully regulate you.


i had a verizon cell phone which i lost back in late October. I have been trying to look for it ever since and my mom has been paying the bill every month. I've looked everywhere and can't find it and i have insurance on my phone but i dont know if it will cover it. what can i do? Im not rich btw so i cant just like spend 2493495 dollars on a phone.

thanks=] (link)
i dont know how versizon insurance is, and if they will cover simply a lost phone. if not, you can get a cheap older phone for probably around 20-30 bucks. either way, better than paying the bill and not getting anything, especially if someone finds your phone and uses it too much.


ok i am getting to the end of my stick with this pc, its not exactly slow but it lags like hell in online games, i play World of Warcraft alot and i just started doing these battle grounds were i get 8 frames a second in mass battles which does not help one bit, anyways i wanted to ask any one who knows of a cheapish computer but is excellent for gaming on my freind has an Alienware PC it cost him £2500 and i know its not gonna be cheap for me to get one like that. do you know of cheapish but powerful computers that will play games well what ever they are (it will be a while for me to get a new pc kus i havent got a job yet, i also want to get it so i can tell my dad to stick this one up his arse because he bitches on about this one so much and he thinks he knows everything), thanks (link)
pretty much any computer with at least 2gigs of RAM should be good. youd probably also want a decent graphics card, but thats not as important


i sent sumbody a message & now i dont want him 2 read it
how can i delete it so he cant read it (link)
click "sent" if the message says "read" theyve already read it. if it says "sent" then they havent. if you delete your account, theyll never see it. other than that, theres no way.


Does anyone know of a program that works like Winzip (to open zipped files), that is downloadable and free? Thank you. (link)
winrar is the best one

http://www.download.com/WinRAR/3000-2250-10007677.html?part=dl-winrar&subj=dl&tag=button

its a trial version, but once it runs out it still works, it will just ask you to buy it every time you use it.


16 f

So I just found out my best friend is bisexual . Ok bigg deal right? So why doesn't everyone else at my school see it the way I do? Today in school I sat with her during studies and heard people wispering all sorts of stuff and I overheared one person in perticular say "omg maybe that's her girlfriend" it just pisses me off how people are so sterolistic these days and judge one another for the stupidest stuff I hate drama I hate stress I try to avoid it everyday and now because of that once stupid person everyone is beginning to get the idea that I too am a bisexual and I certainly am not (not that there's anything wrong with being bisexual I'm just saying I wouldn't fitt under that category) and the last thing I want to do is avoid her or stop talking to her because I'm not that kind of person . How do I stop everyone from thinking this way without going to that last suggestion? Or how do I avoid all of this?
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its high school, you cant really avoid drama. itll die down eventually though, just try to ignore it. or you could do something more scandelous for everyone to talk about, like flashing a teacher. make sure its a male teacher though, or else it would only hurt your case...
ok back to being serious. these things dont last long, people will eventually find something better to talk about.


i was on myspace one day when my spyware thingy popped up and notified me that it had expired, and all this techincal stuff i didnt understand. then something else popped up with the options "allow instalation" or "block instalation". i had no idea what this was so i kept clicking X. now, my computer is really messed up. the icons and start menu only show up when i 1st turn on the computer, then they disapear. just a minute ago, i was randomly taken to this website where it said my PC was infected or something, and it wanted me to run some kind of performace optimizer. (performanceoptimizer.com) i didnt do it becuase i wasnt sure. what should i do....? HELP! (link)
sounds more like adware than a virus, though those links angelofmercy gave are good as well, you need to run spybot
http://www.safer-networking.org/en/download/index.html

update it after downloading before running the first time. then run the immunization, that should keep your computer relatively adware/spyware free



ok so i need a good Algebra problem to ask him at lunch. It can't be too easy or i'll look stupid. It can't be too hard cuz i'll look to smart. So I need a good random equation. By the way i'm only in Algebra 1A so I probably won't understand it anyway lol. (link)
wow its been a while since ive taken algebra... you could always just ask him a problem you actually dont understand from your homework assignment, that way, worst case scenario, at least you have one less homework problem to do.


Ok. So i'm not a virgin, but my boyfriend is, and I want to have sex with him and all, but I don't know how to start off. Like I don't want to have to tell him what to do ("ok, take your pants off", "Come here," "do this do that") you know?
So is there anything I can do to make him want to be in control. We talk about it and stuff and he tells me all that he WANTS to do, but it never happens. Does that mean he's scared of me? I like him and all and think hes overly sexy but he's not that experienced and stuff. I don't know how to get him to warm up to anything either. I've always gone out with more experienced guys.

Help? (link)
youre the experienced one, youre gonna need to take the lead, thats the way it works.


I've heard from a few people that putting your laptop on your lap is bad, because it emits radiation and can cause some damage to human organs. Is this true? (link)
from what ive read, only bad for guys.

http://ezinearticles.com/?Bad-Effects-on-Having-Laptop-on-Your-Lap&id=402338


hey

you recently answered a question of mine,

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=525045

and i was wondering. what's up with the google desktop thing? if you have google desktop, do you know who wrote in your honesty box?

thanks (link)
no. i dont have google desktop, but im guessing you can set it up to tell you when someone writes in yours. you can then go on facebook, and check whose online, and guess from that.



ok i'm probably starting to get extremely annoying bu this is te last one i swear. It's just, what do i say? I mean if I was to say "Hi" he would be like 'hey?" and that would be the end of it. And what if he doesn't respond it would be really embarassing. I was thinking of when he was alone at lunch being like "Hey I heard you're really smart so maybe you can help me with...random math problem. Just ahhh you gotta be specific just plz try an' help me. (link)
yeah asking for help on a problem would be a good way to get a conversation going, if he knows the answer, so make sure its something doable. it seems like he likes you, so he will respond, so you dont have to worry about being embarrassed. directness works well, so after he helps you, invite him to hang out, if you go up to him at the beginning of lunch, ask him if he wants to eat lunch together. if he doesnt know the answer, you can always just say "thats ok, i just wanted to talk to you" most guys actually do like girls who make the first move.

let me know how it goes.



ok about the shy boy. I have asked some people in his grade about him, this is what i've found out. BTW this is gonna be long! He is shy,and has been picked-on in the past i guess because he doesn't meet societies standards of masculiity.He applies himself in school and gets extremly good grades. He cries a lot i guess due to low frustration tolerence. He also cried when people pushed books out of his hands(rude i know). He has never had a girlfriend which is good and bad for me. Good because compared to nobody i'm pretty good plus i'm giving him the time of day. Bad because if he did like me he may not have the courage to ask me out. Two boys in his grade(junior) said he was gay, which I highly doubt. He is on the swim team and plays golf. His family is fairly well off(he has a mustang convertible). He looks at me an awaful lot and as previously said moved closer to me. He sits alone sometimes at lunch. When he does sit with others he sits on the end. Which I think means he doesn't like to feel closed in. After he is done eating he goes and sits with the populars but is not necessarily included in the dicussion if you know what i mean. 2 other juniors said to go for it because if I would just talk to him I have like a 90% chance with him. Arrgh, I am just soo shy though. I honestly don't know if i'll ever get the courage to talk to him. I know I am just building him up as something perfect in my head which is why it is so hard. I mean he's only human. So my question is really 2 parts. 1-What do you think I should do as in like conversation..ect. and 2- Do you think I have a chance in hell. Please be honest. And I AM SOO SORRY THIS IS SO FREAKIN' LONG!! SORRY (link)
it seems like he likes you, so yes you have a chance. you really should just make the first move. next time he moves in closer, get up, and sit next to him and strike up a conversation.



Ok pretend that you are a 16yr old shy boy.You are also a super-genius and have never had a gifriend. Ok you look at me( an alright looking 15yr old girl) almost everyday. Then at a convocation you are sitting by yourself(like you always do) and you look at me like 2 or 3 times and I look back. Then you get up and sit in the row as me like 4 people to the left of me. You always look at me a lot in the hallway but never speak to me. Do you like me and are just shy about it?? Ahhh I need help it's so confusing!! (link)
well i was pretty shy at 16, had not yet had a real girlfriend, and am quite smart.

yes


i bought a new camera and a new memory card.. its the same type of camera and same type of memory card that i had before.. but when i put the memory card into the printer to upload the pictures it says "memory card error. 0 videos 0 pictures" when i have pictures on there... whats going on and how can i fix it? this has never happened before (link)
ok first off, there is an easy fix. simply format the memory card, you will lose all the pictures, but it will work fine.

if you want the actual pictures, you need a usb memory card reader, just plug it in, stick in the memory card, and save all the pictures, then format it.


how can you find out who said something on your honesty box? on facebook, i heard it's not anonymous anymore and people found a way to hack it. is that true? (link)
problem with the last bit in the previous answer is that someone doesnt need honesty box to write in yours, it could be any of your friends, or if your profile is public, anyone in your network. how do you know its not completely anonymous? because someone said so? well, ok ill tell you how. find out where the person who wrote honesty box lives, find out where they keep the honesty box server. obviously some kind of conversion happens to make a post anonymous, so if you are on the actual server, youd be able to see it. so yeah, as far as i know, its pretty much completely anonymous, its called honesty box for a reason, if you want to know whose sending you stuff, just remove it and have people write on your wall.


okay, so I downloaded ZIP reader by PKWARE, and it DOES unzip my files, but then what do i do?

i've been trying to download sims stuff, but it hasn't been working for me. i have Firefox if that helps.


Please help me. (link)
first off, winrar is alot better.

secondly, with sims stuff, you have to put all the files in a certain folder. it should tell you on the site, but i believe its my documents/ea games/downloads




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