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Hey I'm mystical_breeze! I'm a Christian, so Jesus comes first in my life. When I'm older I want to be become a comsmetologist or a writer. I love the jonas brothers like whoa man :]

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i really like this guy (lets call him n) but none of my friends know him! but i also like another guy (lets call him z) and i have never said 5 words to him. and my friends know about Z just not N and N is really sweet and nice and i think he might like me but i am not compleatly sure and Z i do not think he even knows i am alive! i mean ya sure i probly said hi to him once or twice but that is about it! and N know i am alive because i talk to him all the time cause well we are kinda friends well more of aquatenses and he is almost the same age as me just likeone year younger than me but Z is one year older then me wich is weird because i am like right in the middle! so wich one should i go for?

Well which one do you like more? You might want to get to know "Z" better because then you will know what he is like. "N" sounds like a really nice guy though, and he seems like he likes you too. If you like "N" ask him out or just plan a day when you can be together. Introduce "N" to your friends, and if you like "N" just tell them you like him and not "Z" anymore. It shouldn't be a problem or anything, since it is your descicion about who you like.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze (Alexa)

*Edit: Okay .. thanks for giving me a three =/

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Ok, One of older friends, she is in highschool, going to be a senior, set me up with her boyfriends brother, we have been talking over the phone and internet for a while, and we finally met. I really don't know how to find out or ask him if he likes me, he told me to call him but he never said ne thing about meeting me. I'm really confused, and don't knwo what to do! I rate high for good answers!!

Call him girl! If he suggested you call him, do it and see if he is gonna ask you out. This isn't too big of a problem, because:
1. He already met you
2. He wanted you to call him
3. You like him!
I suggest just calling him and see what he says. If this subject comes up in the conversation, then ask him out if you're comfortable. If you're not comfortable around him, just wait and get to know his personality better.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze (Alexa)

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i went to my grandmas house yesterday and went swiiming and to get a tna ok when i first went in her apartment complex there were 3 guys i didnt really look or pay attention to them.. but then be4 i went to get tan i had to get something from my moms car and we i went up one of them was like hey andout of kindness i said hi back then when i was walkin to the pool air he came back up to me and was like do you see my friend over there he like you and wants to go out with you..i was like i dont know you and i dont know your firned he was like so he can get your number and talkn to you and get to know you and you guys can hang out. i wasnt wantin to talk a lot bc my mom was watchin all of this but she didnt know anything he said.on purpose will i was tryin to take off my clothes they throw there ball in water and wanted me to go and get it the basically wouldnt let me get a tan. my question is what am i supposed to do? i mean i would like it for the guy that likes me to come up to me and talk to me but he is too scared..he wasnt ugly i mean he had a really nice body. i was goin to go up to him but my mom was there so i was thinkin when i go back to my grandmas house what should i do? even if i dont go out wit the guy i can at least be his friend..can someone please give me some advice about what to say or do..

Before even being his friend you haveta get to know him first. You don't exactly know a lot about these guys so before you go out with him I suggest getting to know him better before you go out with him. If you just go out, you might have a bad time because you didn't ever get to know him or his friend.
You don't need to worry about your mom. Just go up to him the next time you see him and make eye contact, smile, and just chat for a few minutes. If you're interested and like him, ask him out. If you're mom gets to know him also, maybe she'll like him too. Who knows? Maybe he's a great person.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze (Alexa)

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im 14/f and ive never really had a true relationship. i think its because people just see me as the nice girl. plus, im not the prettiest thing in the world. what should i do to get guys to notice me?

MizzNiceGirl

FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT! Lol, okay most people answer this kinda question by stating, "Just be yourself," which doesn't really help much but tell you to be yourself (which you already do). To get guys to notice you, I suggest when a guy just randomly looks into your direction, stand in his way and smile so you know he's looking into your eyes. When you smile, show your teeth.
If you're a nice girl, then that is a good thing! Don't say that you've never had a relationship because you're a nice girl, because a lot of cute guys would love to spend time with a "nice girl". You don't need to be a different person to get a guys attention, because in this world, there is someone for EVERYONE, you just haven't found yours yet.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

P.S. I suggest getting into camps over the summer and activites so you can meet more guys who share your interests.

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were can i get cute clothes and they are for a good price? thanks
luv hallie

Okay there are like a ton of great places to get clothes from so here:

If there are stars next to them, then those are my fave)

Walmart* (really cheap)
Fashion Bugg*
Macy's
Old Navy
American Eagle
the Limited Too
Gap (kinda)
Layne Bryants*
Claire's* (for jewlery only)

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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i just got a hair cut. it is like the first one on the page only a little shorter,do you think this looks good? --[[first one]] --

http://www.salonweb.com/hstyles/long.htm

It looks really good! If you like it too, then it must be nice looking because straight hair like that looks great (I wish my hair could look like this). Nice job! =)

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does anyone know where i can get xanga music codes for rap songs and some really cute backgrounds? thanks i rate high!

for music:

http://www.xanga.com/xanga_music

http://www.launch.yahoo.com

for backrounds:

http://www.starlightmks.com

http://www.nuthinbutnet.net

http://www.carrielynnesworld.com

http://www.matmice.com/home/funwhenbored


Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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my name is EJ and i have a friend that i have know for almost a year now and i have liked since the first time i saw her and i was wondering if yall could give me some advice on how to ask her out so if she says no we can still be friends

Sit her down and tell her how you feel about her. Don't pour out all your feeling at one time though so she'll have her opinion when you ask her out. When you ask her, do it casual so it can sound like a good date that won't be too uncomfortable. If she says yes, then there is a good chance that when you break up, you won't still be friends. If she says no, then just say something simple and leave the subject alone so it won't hurt your friendship.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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Whenever I'm alone, I keep thinking about how bad the world is and writing dark poems and stuff. Once I nearly cut my wrists with a sharp knife. Do you know any way to help me have a brighter outlook on the world? Thanks. -Elie

Some people go through a stage when they feel this way in their lives (believe me, I did). I suggest looking on the good side of things and all the good things you have to be thankful for. Thank God for all the people you have that care about you and talk to someone about your cutting. If you keep cutting yourself, then talk to someone professional about this problem. If you only did it once and won't do it again, then just tell yourself NOT to cut. If you have any good friends, talk to them when you're feeling this way, because usually friends can make a girl feel better. If you're not close with anyone in your family, try to get close so you can be happy.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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ok what do you do when you like this kid and your so called best friend sayd that she likes him also and then you fight over him and your best friend is starting to like all the same people you are and when you want to talk about them to her she complains an whines she likes them too and then he asked me out and i told her and shes didnt believe me an now shes all jelous i mean whats her problem all i know is she dont have a personality of her own and she thinks she better than me.... i nmean is that a friend what should i do????

uh...NO! She sounds like she isn't being a good friend at all. When a girl likes this guy and he finally askes her out, her bestfriend should be happy for her. If she is going around liking all the guys you like on purpose to make you mad, then what kind of friend is that? She obviously wants what you have and doesn't care what gets in her way to get it for herself. Friends shouldn't want to find which one that is better, because friends like their friends for WHO they are. Talk to her about this, and if she doesn't stop acting the way she is (I don't think she will), then break up your friendship. If you have anymore questions, feel free to ask.

Hope I helped,
Alexa

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im a 13/f. i have been getting this white werid stuff in my underwear for ALONG TIME NOW AND I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT IT IS. shouldnt i have go my period by now?

Discharge is what this is called. It can either be brown or white, and you get it after you've had your period for awhile. I got my period when I was 10 so I kinda know what it's like. Don't worry about it, and if you have anymore questions you should ask your mom or another female in your family that is old enough to know about.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze (Alexa)

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I care a lot about my friends but to some of them i kinda feel like im not that important to them and we always have fights and its really hard and i need to kno how to handle it cuz im tired of fighting and having to deal with it its really hard well plz give me some advice ill rate high
Thanx

Well I don't really understand your question, but if your friends fight a lot with you, then why be friends if all you do is fight? If you already talked to them about this and they STILL fight together, then just stop being friends with them. Friends weren't meant to fight, but the meaning of having a friendship is to show care and likeness between eachother. You need to be able to laugh and spend time together without fighting all the time. Bestfriends have small fights one in a while, however, all the time would just be plain annoying to have to deal with. If you have anymore questions, feel free to ask.

Hope I helped,
~Alexa~

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what do you do when a girl who you truly like chooses a different guy over you for the 3 time and still wants to talk

Well you need to tell her how YOU feel. There isn't much you can do since she is already seeing someone, but at least show her your feelings. If she knows you like her, she might want to make you jealous. When you talk to her, make sure it's face-to-face or on the phone (not online because then it might be a friend on her screename or something). If she feels the same way, she would break up with the guy she is seeing, but if she doesn't like you, you need to let her go.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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i'm 13.. and i'm a girl. this sounds really dumb but how do you make out? :(

Well making out basically just means its more then a small peck on the lips. Usually it's passionatiate and dramatic, and you just move your lips when you kiss him. Follow his lead when he kisses you, and just mirror what he is doing. Run your fingers through his hair, let him hold your face, etc.

Hope I helped,
~Alexa~

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so i wanna get this 'skin' for my xanga but i dont know how and its so confusing! and when i put the code in the box its just like says the code and not the xanga!

HELP PLEASE!!

thanks! i RATE HGIH lieka 5!

Directions:

1. go to a website like: http://www.xanga.com/crazy_layouts

2. Click on the layout you like and copy the code in the box.

3. Go to your "look and feel" section by signing in on xanga.com

4. Scroll down to your html header and paste the code into the box.

5. Keep scrolling down until you see "preview".

6. After you're satisfied with how it looks, it will ask you if you want to save it. Click yes!

Hope I helped,
~Alexa~

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Well I'm not really getting invited to too many parties. A girl named Katee had a huge party and I wasnt invited...I feel like a loser and left out....any ways on how to have more friends or something like that?

If you need more friends, then I suggest becoming more confident and getting to know other people and not caring what they think. If they think you're nice, then get to know them and have fun. You need to ignore all the bad things come people say, because people who make fun of others just means they're not comfortable with thereselves. To make more friends, I suggest joining different camps and doing things with people who have your interests. Before you know it, you'll be getting invited to a lot of get-togethers with friends and different people.

Hope I helped,
~Alexa~

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Ok so here is my problem i have a really low self eestem i sould nt cause i hear that i am pretty alought and tons of people like me [cheak our my advice column to see pic] but my self- eestem is still really low i hate the way i look and i am never happy i feel like i can't so anyhting right and everything i do i screw up. please help me.
Reality.

Everyone (mostly everyone) has someone they're not comfortable with. I mean, I basically think I'm okay looking, but there are some people who are actually jealous of me. You need to look in the mirror and notice the good features about yourself (nice eyes, nose, ears). I think it'll help if you just get fixed on something that you can be confident about. If you're good at sports, show off and be proud! I used to think I was ugly, but then I looked in the mirror and realized I had a nice nose and pretty eyes. You should do the same and see what's beautiful about you, because if you have a good heart, you're beautiful in your own way!

Hope I helped,
~Alexa~

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I am going out with someone that is a year younger than me and no one has really said anything to me about it yet but i have a feeling they will...i cannot stand when people continuously say crap to me about it...is it really wrong that hes a year younger?

No! A year younger does not mean anything except the fact that you were born earlier. If you really care about him, still see him 'cause it's your descision on who to date. I mean, if I cared about someone a year younger then me who liked me too, I would go for it because he could be a really nice person. When people talk crap to you about it, just explain to them you really like him, or just give them the cold shouler (ignore them).
Hope I helped,
~Alexa~

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I don't know if any one remembers me, i asked the question if i should dumb my boyfriend because all my friends said he was wearidand an @$$. Well i didn't, thanks to all you, we kissed for the first time the other night at a party now everybody is convinced that i'm on crack or something. What sould i do? I've tryed talking to my friends and they keep going on and on about how stupid i am to be going out with him. please i really need help!

Why should your friends go on and on about the guy you're going out with? It is YOUR descision about who you want to see, and they shouldn't be bothering you about him. Why don't you just tell them to stop and if they don't, ignore them until they finally give in. But if they're just kidding, then don't take it personally. They already warned you, so you don't need to accept their advice about him if you already know you like him a lot. If he is a good person, stay with him.
Hope I helped,
~Alexa~

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my best friend marissa moved to germany.i really miss her.i've known her since pre-k.we did everything together.she was like a sis to me.but what really sucks...is that before she moved we had a fight.well actually she was mad at me for somethin real stupid.i can't call her b/c i don't have her#.and i don't know if she still has her comp.but i want to apologize.please help me.what should i do?

Well there isn't a lot to do, but you could either
1. Look for her phone number by looking by her last name and calling her.
2. Send her a letter before she moves so she will get it in time.
3. Send her an email.
If you say sorry and she still doesn't want to accept your opinion, then why still bother? She will be moving soon so you won't be able to see her much and it will probably ruin your relationship as BESTfriends (sorry but it's true). You could still be good friends, but it will be hard being bestfriends when she lives far away.

Hope I helped,
~Alexa~

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