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ok here it is...
i really like this guy (lets call him n) but none of my friends know him! but i also like another guy (lets call him z) and i have never said 5 words to him. and my friends know about Z just not N and N is really sweet and nice and i think he might like me but i am not compleatly sure and Z i do not think he even knows i am alive! i mean ya sure i probly said hi to him once or twice but that is about it! and N know i am alive because i talk to him all the time cause well we are kinda friends well more of aquatenses and he is almost the same age as me just likeone year younger than me but Z is one year older then me wich is weird because i am like right in the middle! so wich one should i go for?
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Well which one do you like more? You might want to get to know "Z" better because then you will know what he is like. "N" sounds like a really nice guy though, and he seems like he likes you too. If you like "N" ask him out or just plan a day when you can be together. Introduce "N" to your friends, and if you like "N" just tell them you like him and not "Z" anymore. It shouldn't be a problem or anything, since it is your descicion about who you like.
Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze (Alexa)
*Edit: Okay .. thanks for giving me a three =/
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i think you should go for N because he seems like a better guy.
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Get to know them both, then decide. If you still can't, have an open relationship with both - you are dating them both, but it's not a committed relationship, so it's ok. Just make sure they know it's an open relationship.
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Hm...this is hard! I would try to get Z to notice you more,like say hey and have fun and be fun around him! He'll notice you more if you are outgoing.But on the other hand,N sound cool to.What i would do is-
Make Z notice you a lot more,and still talk to N,maybe your friends have 3-way and you can talk to N on the phone and 3-way your friends so they'll no him more! Try both out and if Z still dosn't notice you go for N
[[try like...3 days to get Z to notice you but if he dosent then dont go for it.]]
but i would go with N to give you a straight- out answer
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I say forget about Z. He doesn't appear to be worth your time. Besides you already have somewhat of a friendship with N, so it would be easier to turn it into something more. You say N is sweet and nice, and if he really is then chances are he might be interested in you too! If it doesn't work out with N you could always go for Z, but N seems like a much better choice.
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