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i went to my grandmas house yesterday and went swiiming and to get a tna ok when i first went in her apartment complex there were 3 guys i didnt really look or pay attention to them.. but then be4 i went to get tan i had to get something from my moms car and we i went up one of them was like hey andout of kindness i said hi back then when i was walkin to the pool air he came back up to me and was like do you see my friend over there he like you and wants to go out with you..i was like i dont know you and i dont know your firned he was like so he can get your number and talkn to you and get to know you and you guys can hang out. i wasnt wantin to talk a lot bc my mom was watchin all of this but she didnt know anything he said.on purpose will i was tryin to take off my clothes they throw there ball in water and wanted me to go and get it the basically wouldnt let me get a tan. my question is what am i supposed to do? i mean i would like it for the guy that likes me to come up to me and talk to me but he is too scared..he wasnt ugly i mean he had a really nice body. i was goin to go up to him but my mom was there so i was thinkin when i go back to my grandmas house what should i do? even if i dont go out wit the guy i can at least be his friend..can someone please give me some advice about what to say or do..
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I don't think you should get to know this boy. You don't know him and he could be dangerous. It doen't matter if you 'get to know him" on the phone. What happens what you two meet and hang out just you two and he hurts you. I would not persue this.! Think about it!
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Well sweetie I have been dating the same guy for about 2 years and I am the same way I am very scared to go up and talk to guys, but I just put that aside and went and talked to him and we hit it off right away. So my advice to you is to go and tell his friend that you really think he is cute and you would love to talk to him its just he has to come to you and if he cant then you go to him and start talking!
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Before even being his friend you haveta get to know him first. You don't exactly know a lot about these guys so before you go out with him I suggest getting to know him better before you go out with him. If you just go out, you might have a bad time because you didn't ever get to know him or his friend.
You don't need to worry about your mom. Just go up to him the next time you see him and make eye contact, smile, and just chat for a few minutes. If you're interested and like him, ask him out. If you're mom gets to know him also, maybe she'll like him too. Who knows? Maybe he's a great person.
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mystical_breeze (Alexa)
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You don't have to go up to him and strike a conversation with him exactly. Just make eye contact next time you see him, or smile, or just say a little hello. Anything to let him know that you are interested in any kind of relationship without you having to approach him. Hope I helped.
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