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Hey,
Im 15 years old, female, 5'3, and weigh 87 pounds All theese B.M.I things say i am dangerously underweight...even though i have a very small body frame, im also a late bloomer (I havent had my period) I go to the doctor regularly and they never said i was underweight...i dont feel like im too thin. Should i be worried? Does not having your period and being a late bloomer have an affect on ideal weight?

Thank you.

i have a friend just like you. if you have a small frame then you are normal being 87 pounds. and if you try to gain weight it will most likely all go to your stomach and i'm sure you don't want that. and not having your period has nothing to do with your weight. if you are that concerned then talk to your mom/doctor about it.

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I'm sorta pale and have dark hair so alot of people asume I'm goth and it really ticks me off! I just dont like outdoor activities and have a huge fear of bugs...I even think pale guys are way cute! I'm afraid maybe a guy wont think I'm as pretty because of my skintone...which isnt PAPER white I'm part native american so even when my skin is VERY base there is a little color in it and I have freckles. I dont know...I'm just worried guys wont think of me as cute/hot because of it..help?

if it really bothers you, then don't wear dark eyeliner, and wear lots of pretty colors. and if guys only judge you by your appearance then they aren't worth it anyway.

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i'm 17 and i've been wondering something confusing about girls.For instance take these two scenarios:

1)I went to a camp and this gal was looking and smiling at me alot and i did the same too, then later i saw her profile on the internet and messaged her,but she didint' reply back.So has she forgotten me?is she playing hard to get?she doesn't want to look desperate?she doesn't want to look to obvious?

2)Second scenario, I see this gal regularly when I pick my sis up for dance lessons,she keeps on looking at me and I know it, but after a while she stops looking at me and acts as if I;m not there?
Is it because she doesn't want to be too obvious?playing hard to get?forgotten about me?or lost feelings for me?

thanks for reading and I hope you can answer my question.

yes girls do hide their feelings. most likely the second girl is shy and doesn't want to seem to obviously staring or anything like that.

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I am a singer for a band and we have played quite a lot of shows,so lately I have noticed two girls who are looking at me but they both have boyfriends.So are they looking at me because they like me?or are they looking at me because they recognize me form the band?
So basically, is it just fame or something else?

And another thing, is possible that a girl who alredy has a boyfriend and is really in love likes another guy?

well the girls might just be looking at you because they think your hot. even though they have boyfriends, girls can't help but notice hot guys. if you don't think thats it then maybe it is the fame and they think its really cool that your in a band.

and for your other question. most likely no. if she has a boyfriend and is in love like you said, then she wouldn't like any other guy. but if she isn't really in love then it is a possibility.

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hey im gonna start 8th grade in august, and i still havent gotten my period. is this normal??

yes, its COMPLETELY normal. i didn't get my period until the middle of 8th grade. plus don't worry, nobody will know if you've had it or not.

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I asked a question about how much to pack, and this is what I plan on packing. I'm going away for 5 days.

7 tank tops & shorts sleeved shirts
5 pairs of shorts
1 mini skirt just in case
3 pairs of flip flops (I'm not gunna wear sneakers.)
11 pairs of underwear
1 face cloth
1 hair straightner
tons of earrings necklaces bracelets etc.
all my make up (mascara eyeliner lipgloss etc)
1 pair of sunglasses
3 bras
purses cell phone ipod all that good stuff
1 sweatshirt (its warm there)
3 bathing suits
3 pairs of pajamas
tooth brush and tooth paste
a hair brush and a few elastics and headbands
shaving cream and razor

Does that seem like enough stuff for 5 days of vacation? Or do I need more of something or did I pack too much? Or did I completely forget something?

ummmm 11 pairs of underwear? why do you need so much if your just going for 5 days? i'd stick with about 7-8 pairs. you could also bring a book/magazine to keep yourself busy. and what about anything for the shower or face wash or something? like shampoo & conditioner, soap, face wash and cleansar. oh and DO NOT forget deoderant! especially since its gonna be HOT :] and for your makeup, make sure you bring waterproof mascara, chapstick, and maybe some bronzer?

good luck, and have fun!

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Well, last summer I met this guy at camp and he seemed really sweet, so we started hanging out. After a while we started dating and after about a month we had sex. After, we broke up and this guy at my school asked me out. He's really sweet and I like him a lot, but I still have feelings for the guy I met at camp. Then about a week after I started dating the other guy, the guy I met at camp wanted to get back together. Do you think I should get back together with him or is he just using me for sex? I really like the other guy and he's never mentioned sex once and he told me he loved me, what do I do?

i would stick with the other guy from school, not the one you had sex with. from the way you describe him he seems really nice and the kind of boyfriend every girl is looking for.

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ok like i have big bags or circles i dont know what there called under my eyes. and people say to get rid of them you have to get some more sleep. but all i do is sleep. like i go to bed around 10 pm or 11 pm then i wake up the next day at like 11 am. i get like 12 hours asleep per nite or even more. so i was just wonderin how do i get them to go away? i eman there not bg but there dark. it makes me look like bad or like im on drugs or whatever so it like changes my appearance. sorry if this is in the rong category. so... does anyone know like what to do?? thanks

you can try covering them up with some concealor. or you can actually buy some beauty products that are made to cover up/get rid of under eye circles. i know that Clean and Clear makes one because i own it :] i'm not positive, but for some reason i think i remember hearing that putting an ice cube under your eye will help get rid of it. but i'm not too sure on that one.

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I have always wondered if you burn calories when you talk, sing or laugh. I know this is a weird question!

you burn calories all the time, whenever you move. so yes to your question, but talking and singing doesn't burn much at all (like maybe 5 calories all day), laughing burns a little more then talking but not that much.

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let's say... you're not really skinny.
I mean not like really really fat.
but not skinny.
let's go for chubby.
so you want to buy new jeans, can you well more like.

do skinny low rise jeans look good on you?
like latest abercrombie jeans, I would try them on if I could. But unfortunately I do not live in the united states of america. so my question is, do skinny low rise jeans look good on me?

(yeah I'm trying to lose weight so zip it)

I really need an honest answer THANK YOU!

skinny jeans only look good if you have thin legs (thighs and calves). if you do and you want to try skinny jeans you can try to go to the store Delias (if there is one near you), they just got new jeans in and you can try on there "Morgan Jeans". they are los rise skinny jeans.

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doesn anyone know where i can get eye shadow like this. http://www.mymostwanted.com/gallery/showphoto.php/photo/74238/cat/2352

or something like it?

thank you so much!

well i can't see the picture (it won't show up), but i'm sure if you go to your local drugstore you can find all of the eyeshadow that you'll need =]

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I'm going away for 5 days on Sunday. I have no idea how much to pack! I never pack enough and I run out of clothes by like the 3rd day! I don't want that to happen again!! It's going to be REALLY warm even at night so I dont need any long sleeved shirts. How many shirts, shorts, etc should I bring? I need a list please! If you were going away for 5 days what would you bring?? Please help!!! Lists only please.

if i was going away for 5 days i would bring like 3 tank tops, 3 short sleeve shirts, 1 nice shirt to wear out to dinner, and 2 sweatshirts (just in case). then i would pack 5 pairs of shorts, 1 pair of sweatpants, 1 pair of jeans. i would bring two pairs of PJ's, 5 pairs of socks, 6 pairs of underwear, 2 bras (i'm guessing your a girl). make sure to pack flip flops, sneakers, and nice shoes. but remember if you run out of clothes, you can always do the laundry :]

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hey im 15/f so my period is really irregular like it will go a few months without showing up. so is this normal n could it affect me having kids?

i'm the same way! i'm 14 and i got my period for 2 monthes and now i haven't gotten it for 5 monthes. but its completely normal, and you just have to wait for your period to become regular.

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My mom got me these new contacts: Acuvue Oasys with HYDRACLEAR plus. Well I was wondering about on the website, it said that up to 6 night consecutive wear. Does that mean that you can sleep with them in and not take them ou for up to 6 nights and its like alright to? And my mom got me 3 pair, and said that it was a year supply, but on the website it says two week replacement reccomended. Can they last 4 months each pair?

anything is greatly appreciated.

DO NOT sleep in the contacts. even if the site says up to 6 night conxecutive wear, don't sleep in them. they will dry out your eyes and that won't be good. if the website says two week replacement reccomended, then only wear them for two weeks and then replace them with a new pair. so the 3 pairs that your mom got you will only last you about 1 1/2 months. I have a different kind of contacts, and they said two week replacement reccomended, but my eye doctor said some people can wear them up to 3 weeks without any problems. so it is probably the same with your contacts too.

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Okay, well I have fat.
Obviously,
but like I have ab muscles,
I can feel them,
but they are under a lot of fat.
Its the same things with my hips, thighs and upper arms.

I know running burns fat, but is there anything else that works as well? How about jumping rope or something? I just hate running. Any help would be much appreciated.

yeah jumping rope burns A LOT of calories. or if you have DDR you can try doing that. there is a workout mode on their too :]

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hi. im looking for slow songs. like make-out songs. im not making out with people or anything they just relax me. just like the song "you got it bad" by usher. like as an example. thanks

try sexy love by Neo (sp?)

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my hair is a a few inches longer than sholder length and its kinda wavey so i always have to starighten it but does any1 have any good ideas for hair styles?

wow i'm the EXACT same way! and i have the same problem. i'm going to have to keep checking back to see what other people say.

you could try scrunching your hair with a little curl gel and light hold hairspray.

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hi i was wandering if anyone could help me find a cute middle name.... my daughters first name is gonna be Kylee ( pernounced like (kigh leigh) and i need a cute middle name to match with it. i appreaciate it! Thanks!!
*sarah*

oh i really like the Kylee May one that the other girl said. or you could try:

Kylee Lynn
Kylee Amber

try not to do Elizabeth since a lot of people have that middle name. it kind of depends on her last name. make sure you can easily say it and that it has a nice 'ring' to it :]

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Hi i am looking for a good job where you sit on a computer a type all day and get good pay. All my friends say accountant is that job but i dont know so whats a good job for that. heres some jobs people have told me.

Accountant
Mortgage
Finacial
insurance

but if you have any more please tell me. And tell me whats best out of all of them. remind you that i dont like to stand up in front of crowds and give a speech so no job that requires that.


Thankz Austin

what about a secretary of some kind? but my mom works for health insurance that that is what she does all day, sits around and types of the computer all day

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I just asked a question earlier today about my white & light brown chihuahua. Here are the two names I have chosen.

1. Princess
2. Isabella (Bella for short)

What do you guys think? 1 or 2?

definitaly #2

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