Well, last summer I met this guy at camp and he seemed really sweet, so we started hanging out. After a while we started dating and after about a month we had sex. After, we broke up and this guy at my school asked me out. He's really sweet and I like him a lot, but I still have feelings for the guy I met at camp. Then about a week after I started dating the other guy, the guy I met at camp wanted to get back together. Do you think I should get back together with him or is he just using me for sex? I really like the other guy and he's never mentioned sex once and he told me he loved me, what do I do?
naturally_sadie answered Friday July 21 2006, 10:21 pm: Hi....
I say don't give the guy you had sex with another chance. It's obvious he just wants more sex. I would go out with the guy from school because there arn't many guys that are like him, so don't let him slip away and get him while hes still available! Your so lucky because me and so many other girls would KILL to have a guy as sweet as him.
jumadel answered Friday July 21 2006, 9:36 pm: Hi, stay with the guy your currently dating. I think you havn't known the boy at camp very long and all of a sudden you have sex. This other guy wants love. Sex is nice but I would sooner have love don't you think? Daniel. [ jumadel's advice column | Ask jumadel A Question ]
DarkChocolate794 answered Friday July 21 2006, 7:16 pm: if i were you i would stay with the boy you are currently dating. it seems like the guy from camp is using you for sex or he's jealous that you are with another guy that loves you so soon after he broke up with you. the guy from school seems to like you for who you are and not for how much fun *ahem* 'in the sheets'you are. but i cant control you so follow your heart most of the time it will lead you in the right direction.
~DarkChocolate794~ [ DarkChocolate794's advice column | Ask DarkChocolate794 A Question ]
laycieee answered Friday July 21 2006, 6:56 pm: I think that maybe the guy you met at camp is just using you for sex. The guy you're dating from school seems really sweet and seems to really like you and respect you. Good luck :) [ laycieee's advice column | Ask laycieee A Question ]
JazziJazz answered Friday July 21 2006, 6:39 pm: It all depends on who you have stronger feelings for and what your looking for in a guy, and if you dont know then maybe that's the best place to start; but you shouldn't get back together with the guy you met at camp just because you have history together. If you really like the guy you met at school it would probably be easier and less stressful to have a relationship with him. Maybe all you need with the guy you met at camp is closure. [ JazziJazz's advice column | Ask JazziJazz A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Friday July 21 2006, 6:34 pm: well your ex could just want you for sex, or now that he has lost you and sees you with someone new already, he probably is jealous and wants you back. you sound kind of young if i were you i would stay with the current boy friend, the one who cares about you and all that good stuff even though you dont have sex with him, it seems like he respects you more. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
TEENAGExHEARTS answered Friday July 21 2006, 6:26 pm: i would stick with the other guy from school, not the one you had sex with. from the way you describe him he seems really nice and the kind of boyfriend every girl is looking for. [ TEENAGExHEARTS's advice column | Ask TEENAGExHEARTS A Question ]
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