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i havent had a girlfriend in a while im a 15 year old guy. im in my first year of high school. im not ugly in fact almost everyday the upper class men girls always telling me how cute i am i hate it though the only thing is im short im like 5'3 and at my school thats short i dont know why i cant get a girlfriend i dont know what im doing wrong thanks i need advice!!

Just talk to different girls! You're cute, there's going to be someone who likes you! Good luck!
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~*Erin*~

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I have a feeling that my two bestfriends talk about me behind my back. Should I approach them or waht? I'm very confuzed about what i should do.

If you ask them directly, they'll just deny it (if they are). Just tell them that if they are, please stop, and if you think that they still don't, try to get better friends. Good luck!
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~*Erin*~

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me and my best friend (hes a guy) went out b4...but now we are best friends. but i think i still like him...but im not sure. and i dont think he likes me but it always seems like hes flirting w/ me but it could be cuz we r friends...im confused please help.

It's probably because you're such good friends! I wouldn't go out with him again, because there's always a risk of losing the friendship. Good luck!
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~*Erin*~

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isnt there a certain way to tell what bra size you are, i heard you take a measuring tape and find out the length all around your chest area but i dont know the rest about how to tell...cause every bra i try to wear never fits me right, please help!

First, you have to measure underneath your chest, and that's the rib size (say, 34). Then you measure around your chest and that's your cup size (say A). That's how you do it! I'm not sure the numbers for each size, but I'm sure you could search for it on Google! Good luck!
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~*Erin*~

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Ok i know this is going to souond stupid, but im willing to take that risk. ok how many holes does a girl have in her vagina? Because i looked and there was only 2 (counting your butt hole) but wen i wear a tampon i can still pee. Me and my friend were discussing it (i have NO idea why) so just give me an anwser please!

I think 2, lol.
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~*Erin*~

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Someone told me that dieting wont help you lose weight. IF i eat a salad for lunch everyday, will i lose weight? OR do i have to do other stuff too?

Dieting will help, but you still have to exercise and eat right! Good luck!
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~*Erin*~

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Okay so here's the deal. There is this guy at school who i have liked for a little while..So today i talked to him for the first time in a while and he was pretty quiet and so was I. He told a friend of mine he would ask me out if he got to know me better. My first question is..since we are both pretty shy is there a chance of this happening, secondly what could I talk to him about because i get nervous..thanks :-)

Just talk to him about anything! It could even be the weather! It doesn't matter what you talk about, as long as you talk! The more you talk, the less nervous and shy you'll be! And yes, I do think there's a chance! Good luck!
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~*Erin*~

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How mych money do u get paid for babysitting a couple of littel kids for about 3-5 hours?

It depends on how much you charge. I usually charge $5/hr. So if you charged that, you'd make $15-$25.
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~*Erin*~

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I really like this girl that I met in september. she's really flirty with me - and not with ALL guys (maybe just a few...whatever). And she went through this phase where she was a total bitch to me but she would have this cute little grin on her face assuming i didnt notice. like almost 3 weeks ago she was like - i wanna be friends and not a bitch and then she would talk to me and come up to me a lot again and flirt. I want to ask her out eventually, but i wanna know what the deal is - even if were "just friends"

k thanks

Just talk to her about it! Ask her what she's thinking! She might just be nervous, and she likes you, but doesn't want you to know. idk. Good luck!
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~*Erin*~

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i recently moved with my mom and brother just into town. i still go to the same school and everything. we dont have alot of money, while my friends do. i know for christmas i'm not going to get very much, and i'm ok with that.. but my friends go on about alll the stuff they're getting, and i dont want to hear about it. what's a polite way to tell them to just back off and shut up?

Tell them if they would please not talk about getting presents in front of you, because you're not getting much, and it upsets you when they talk about getting presents! They'll understand! Good luck!
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~*Erin*~

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I need help dumping my b/f of 1 week..I mean he is cool but I don't feel a *spark* when I'm around him or even talking to him! He is one of my friends and I'd like to keep it that way.. but I dont really wanna date him anymore.. can you help me please??

-Molly

OMG, I was in the SAME situation! I went out with this guy for exactly a week, and I decided I just wanted to be friends! Just tell him how you feel. Tell him you just wanna be friends. Trust me, he'll understand. He might be a little hurt, but he'll get over it! Good luck!
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~*Erin*~

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ok well for xmas my bf wants the avenged seventhfold cd and i have tried EVERYWHERE ive tried target, best buy, hot topic, fye, sam goody, circut city, cd warhouse i mean everywhere and i cant find it they either only have their newer one or they ran out do you know anywhere else to look? PLEASE HELP I ONLY HAVE A FEW DAYS!!!

Ok, search on Google! And try Ebay! Good luck!
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~*Erin*~

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i have a best friend [a guy] his name is chris. Well chris goes out with my EX bestfriend taylor. they are TOALLY different hes the skater type and shes the preppy bitch. i love chris with all my heart and i dont wanna him going out with this low life. taylor is already cheating on him and im sick of it. i told him but he doesnt care. and i really love him alot [ as a best friend] i mean i would think that he would listen to me but he doesnt and that makes me so mad because we are suppost to be best friends.. what do i do?

Try talking to him about again, but if he still won't listen, DON'T PUSH IT! Do whatever you can to try to prove it. Lol, I got this off of Drake & Josh, but record her doing something with another guy! I know, it's only on TV, but ya. Also, if nothing works, and he ends up getting hurt, just be there for him. Don't say, "I told you so!" He'll already know that! Lol. Good luck!
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~*Erin*~

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I have a pretty big emergancy...
My boyfriend gave me a hicky like 30 minutes ago and I was wondering if theres ANYWAY to help speed the process of it disapearing?
please help if my parents see this then i'll get killed!

I don't think there's anything you can do that'll get rid of it quickly, but use cover-up, foundation, concealor, or powder and lots of it! Good luck!
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~*Erin*~

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I'm 6'11" 430lbs Male. I need a plan for weight loss, and i need to lose it soon. My doctor has suggested surgery, and i do not want to go there until i absoulty have to. It is literally killing me. Please give me some low cost solutions on losing weight. Thanks.

Start by eating healthier, no more junk food! Rent exercise videos, go to a gym, and do sit-ups, push-ups, jumping jacks, and crunches before you go to bed! Maybe go on a diet plan, such as Atkins, South Beach Diet, Jenny Craig, or Weight Watchers. Then when you lose the pounds, you can start thinking about surgery and/or liposuction. Good luck, I know you can do it!
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~*Erin*~

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I have sort of a...strange question I guess: What exactly are a girl's hips made of, and is there a way to get rid of them once they develop? I mean I know that during puberty, you start getting hips, but I really don't like mine.

And also, I don't like the fact that my thighs touch when I walk or just stand with my legs parallel to each other. What can I do about this?

Thanks for any help ya' can give.

I don't think there's anything you can do about your hips, sorry. It's because of bone. And your thighs, there's probably some good exercises out there that can help thin them out. I'm sorry, I can't think of any right off the bat, but maybe try searching Google? Good luck!
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~*Erin*~

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What is a good brand of *ceramic* hair straighter that isn't too expensive (under $25)

There are some you can get at stores like Eckerd and Walmart that aren't too expensive. I'm not sure of the prices of all of them, but make sure you get the thin gold plated ones. They work the best, and there are probably some that are less than $25. Just look around! Good luck!
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~*Erin*~

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I keep having dreams about the guy I used to go out with. I guess I kind of still like him. Well anyway first dream was where I was yelling at my friend in the art room. (I'm in art with the guy I keep dreaming about.) He was sitting with other people at a table and not even noticing our fight. Then last night for the dream I was sitting in the art room once again. He was answering a question that the teacher asked. He answered it really good but the teacher didn't really care. I was amazed at his great response to the question. When I woke up this morning I had a headache and I never get those, especially when I wake up. Are my dreams trying to tell me something? If so, do you have any idea what?

I can tell you right now that I am no dream analyzer, but I'll try my best. In both dreams, there's always someone who doesn't care about something. (the guy about the fight, and the teacher about the guy--I don't think it matters that it's 2 different people) Your dreams might mean that you still like him, but he doesn't care. Does that make sense? I'm not sure if that's right, but I tried. I'm not real sure about the headache, maybe it was just a coincidence, maybe not. Maybe you can search Google, there's probably a website that analyzes dreams. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~

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ok here is the thing my mom is really annoyin she is always gone with her boyfriend but it "also has to do with business". And me and my brothers don't like my moms boyfriend but if either of us tell her that she will say ' what i can't have my own personal life' but the thing is she always asks us if we like him and if we say how we really feel she will just change it around so it is our fault and she can't have a life. O yea and she is ALWAYS down where her bf lives on business and stays there for weeks at a time sometime. but my question is how can i tell my mom how i feel with out her changing it around so it is my fault cause i have tryed telling her how i felt before and she started crying and said fine then i won't have a personal life or make us more money when i would rather have less money and a mother then more money and a mother that is NEVER home??? i need help because this is ruining my life please help i don't know what to do anymore!!!!! thanks

Try emailing her and tell her exactly what you just said. Just be sure to tell her that you DO want her to have a personal life, she has a right to, but that she's NEVER home, and you miss her and need her to be around. Use the guilt method, lol. Good luck!
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~*Erin*~

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im a guy and if a really close friend of yours, who happens to be female, is joking and messing around with you one day and one thing leads to another and you kiss....what do you do? shes really, really attractive. however...she has a bf. whom she does NOT like at all. and shes shown me that shes willing to kinda cheat in the past. shes a really great girl, inside and out and i think the world of her. and shes stabbed me in the back before plus her friends hate me cuz of a story she twisted around a lot. and, when we're alone she can barely keep her hands off me. what do i do?

I know you might not want to hear this, buy she might be using you. You said she stabbed in the back before? Hmmm..And she can't keep her hands off of you? She might not like her bf, but if she's stabbed you in the back before, but has her hands all over you, it just sounds to me like she's using you, because her bf sucks and you don't, but she might not like you enough to go out with you. Maybe try talking to her about it, and see what's really going on. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~

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