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im confused
me and my best friend (hes a guy) went out b4...but now we are best friends. but i think i still like him...but im not sure. and i dont think he likes me but it always seems like hes flirting w/ me but it could be cuz we r friends...im confused please help.
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Go out on a limb and ask him if there's still a connection. You'll never know if you never ask. Im in the same boat with my bf. lol. You're not alone. Just go and tell him and you'll feel better about it cause he knows.
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do you realize this is the EXACT same question EVERYONE asks? people like you piss me off.
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Confused,
Let's put it this way... Boys are CONFUSING!!! I like to be out right and honest with someone to let them know i like them. some guys are a little intiminated by that, but if you guys are good friends its different. i think that since you guys are friends the flirting might be strictly friendliness. i think that you should tell him that you haven't forgot about when you guys went out and see what he says. if he says anything to the fact that he remembers it (fondly perhaps) then i think you should tell him you liked it when you were more than just friends. i hope that will help and make sure to update me!
~ItalianPrincess
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OK same thing happened to me. I plain out asked him about it. Turns out he liked me too but we don't go out. Since he's your best friend you are probably realli honest with eachother so just kinda bring it up. Be careful tho becuz it COULD kinda possibly ruin your friendship it has happened be4
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Well if you still like him, talk to him and ask him if he'll ever go out with you! In my opinion, I wouldn't go out with your best friend again because there is always that chance that you'll ruin your friendship! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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It's probably because you're such good friends! I wouldn't go out with him again, because there's always a risk of losing the friendship. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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I would tell him
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It's hard to tell with best friends. The only way to find out is to tell him how you feel. Don't be shy, just go for it. If he has a good reaction, ask him out. If his reaction isn't so good, go back to being a good friend. You can still build on the friendship. Maybe it will eventually lead to something more. =)
♥ lAuRa
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it may seem like he's flirting with you but he probably isn't. as you said, you both are best friends now! best friends act pretty close to each other!! you could talk to him about how you are feeling, just in case what he is doing IS flirting. everyone!! the only way to solve your problems is to talk about it!! so get talking!!
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well if you ask me the dating your best friend thing never works. ive never seen it work - ever. but if you think it will for you then i would talk to him - he is your best friend so you can talk to him about anything right? talk to him about it, tell him you like him and you want to go out - you like him as more than your best friend. see what he says.
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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if you guys are close friends just ask him, he'll tell you honestly
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Talk to him and tell him how you feel, and ask him how'd he'd feel about starting all over again with a new relationship . Air all of the issues out, if there are anything, and hold nothing back. Accept the fact that that he may not want to reform the relationship and don't take offense to this . Be there for him, unless he was a total snob about it . Talk to him about it and it should work out fine . No matter in what way order of events occur .
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