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I have a feeling that my two bestfriends talk about me behind my back. Should I approach them or waht? I'm very confuzed about what i should do.
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you should definately approach them, and ask them what's going on, its better to have no friends then a million friends that secretly hate you, but theres a special someone for everyone, find someone that u could see yourself with in any situation
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tommy
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is this sara??? sorry my friend is going through the same thing! but i ask them are you talking about me? and if they are then why!?? if they are talking about you there not your real friends i would end the friendship for a little while and move on if they are talking about you
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Definately approach them or ask another friend to ask them about it. Don't jump 2 any conclusions or sound mad about it. If they are you need new friends. You have to be really careful though because friendships are very delicate! My friends have fights all the time over useless things. So please use your godo judegment you don't want 2 lose them.
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Definitely approach them! If they are truely your best friends, then you wouldn't have these feelings that they are talking about you behind your back! Just talk to them and find out if they are! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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if they were your true best friends you wouldn't be feeling that way! you would be able to trust that they would never do that to you! but if they are talking about you, i don't think they are very good friends!
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If you ask them directly, they'll just deny it (if they are). Just tell them that if they are, please stop, and if you think that they still don't, try to get better friends. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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i would ask them and talk to them about it. trust me ive been there and when i talked to them they listened
hope i helped
xoxo
peace
Greek Ouzo
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Definately approach them and let them know how you are feeling. They need to know that if they are talking bad about you that you know about it, and they need to stop! I hope everything works out for you- and I hope your friends wise up. =)
-Jennifer
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Approach
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Approach them about it, but don't be too agressive about it. Make sure they don't feel like they are being attacked and cornered because then it will just be ugly. If they are talking about you, what will you do? If they do get offended and decide they don't want to be friends with you, what are you going to do? Think of the consequences before you decide if you are willing to take the risk.
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deff. approch them. if it turns out that they are talking sh*t about you.. then they are total back stabbers and are not worth your time!
((x o ♥ Michelle))
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If a "feeling" is all it is, don't approach them. No matter how suspicious they seem, remember you could be wrong. It could be all in your head. If you have proof (And by proof I don't mean someone telling you someone else said something. By proof I mean you literally see or hear them yourself), call them on it. Otherwise let it go.
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