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maybe i need to let go.


Question Posted Tuesday December 21 2004, 6:50 pm

i have a best friend [a guy] his name is chris. Well chris goes out with my EX bestfriend taylor. they are TOALLY different hes the skater type and shes the preppy bitch. i love chris with all my heart and i dont wanna him going out with this low life. taylor is already cheating on him and im sick of it. i told him but he doesnt care. and i really love him alot [ as a best friend] i mean i would think that he would listen to me but he doesnt and that makes me so mad because we are suppost to be best friends.. what do i do?

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Berri answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 10:09 pm:
Gosh, well, if you've already talked to him about it and he doesn't care, I guess the only thing to do would be to let him get hurt by her (which sounds like what is going to happen) and then be there for him afterward. You don't have to be all like, "See? I told you so..." but just...be there for him and be the best friend that you are.

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Courtney answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 9:14 pm:
Tell him how you really and truly feel which you've already done . Then after that, sometimes you really have to watch your friends do some of the most idiotic things ever . Meaning going out with this girl . If she's such a bitch,and he wants to go out with her, then support him . Be there for him . If she's such a bitch, then don't ruin your friendship over her because bitches aren't worth that . You should really tell him that you're inferiorated at his total disregard of your feelings and that you'd hope that in the future he'd consider them more wisely . Also make it known that you're there for him, even though you don't like the situation . Good luck and MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAVE A HAPPY NEW YEAR .

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mysticpixie05 answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 9:07 pm:
if he doesnt want to listen to you, then he will just have to find out for himself. if they are really into each other or atleast he is into her, then he will be hurt. and when he gets hurt he will run to you and you can just say you told him so. howver, they may be right for each other. he may not care because it is possible he doesnt reallyl like her all that much. maybe he is just in it for a peice ofr ass or something. i dont know. but youve already tried to talk to him so just let it gop. you cant push him.

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Shortie8959 answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 8:58 pm:
Try talking to him about again, but if he still won't listen, DON'T PUSH IT! Do whatever you can to try to prove it. Lol, I got this off of Drake & Josh, but record her doing something with another guy! I know, it's only on TV, but ya. Also, if nothing works, and he ends up getting hurt, just be there for him. Don't say, "I told you so!" He'll already know that! Lol. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~

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givingbackmonday answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 8:41 pm:
try talking to him about it. and if he doesnt listen dont push it. but if/when he gets hurt by her just be there for him

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charmed-cherry21 answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 8:40 pm:
Try to prove that she is cheating on him.

XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21

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