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Can i ask seriously. When people come on this. Do they answer questions genuinely to help people and hopefully help them through a tough patch or whatever; or do they do it for ratings? It makes me mad when you see a confused person askin a serious question; only for it to be answered by someone. Who at the end makes it obvious(or seemingly) that they don't care byu saying "please rate"Ok i know they jus want acknowledgement and appreciation. But if the person is willing to or want to im sure they will. Why do you ask or say things like this? I really don't know so any answers are appreciated.
Anthony
Well I'm sure most people do this to help people.. I mean that's what this site is for =) There are some people out there that do just want acknowlegement and appreciation which is sad, because these people are coming to you for help ; and all you want is to be rated. On my site I do ask at the very bottom to rate, because I like seeing that I helped people alot and I like reading their comments, and it also lets me know how good of a job I am doing, because if I'm getting 1's from everyone then I'm not gonna do this anymore, cause I don't want to be giving people bad advive. And everytime I finish an answer I always go," Hope I helped!" =) So.. hope I helped!! hahaha..
Love,
MELii
does anyone know how to get rid of excima!
please don't say go to the dermatologist
i'll rate high
My friend has excima and she uses this stuff called Differin or something like that ; and it works REALLY good on her.. hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
ok well 've never been tanning before like in a booth but i'd like to try it but i dont know what to wear can sombody please tell me?
Well what you can wear is a bathing suit, but if you don't want tanlines, then just go tanning in the nude, because they sanatize the booth right after the persons finsihed, so whenever you get there, it's already cleaned and stuff =) But I wouldn't suggest going in the nude, cause that really increases the chances of getting breast cancer, I mean yes, I already know theres the chance of getting skin cancer, but you don't want both do you? But it's your decision.. I go in my bathing suit. Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
ok so i have an issue im 14 and ive never had a boyfriend everyone says its bc i dont make it odvious i want one but how do i do that im also not that great at flirting bc im too busy trying not to make a fool out of myself i want to know how to flirt the right way to get a guys attention without looking slutty or desperate and i dont want to hear the basic laugh and smile bc thats not specific enough for me i need to know what to do and fast so that when i go into highschool i can make an awsome impression!
It's ok ; cause I've never had one either and I'm turning 14 in 10 days!! =) But anyways, well yes, you do have to laugh and smile but what else you can do to flirt is just sit next to him and whenever he says something funny, just make a funny comment to it cause it shows you're funny which guys like =) and just forget about trying to not make a fool out of yourself..cause then if you're not paying attention to anything else ; you're not paying attention to him. He probably won't care ; yes, I'm sure he might laugh a bit, but laugh along with him cause then that shows you're comfortable with making mistakes and that you can joke about it. ( Trust me, I always make a fool out of myself in front of guys, but they usually end up forgetting about it later anyways..) And to not look slutty just don't be like," want head?" jokingly or something haha... cause him being a guy, he'll take that seriously haha!! But just be yourself ; and he'll like you for that. IM me so I can talk to you some about this! Like maybe some things you can say to people in certain situations!! Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
does anyone know some good layout sites for xanga with cute qoutes or back rounds thanks sooo much
xoxoxoxo
well some of the sites I've gone to:
www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=icons_layouts_4uu
www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=girlie_layoutsx3
..and if they don't have anything you like ( but girlie_layoutsx3 is a really good site, so I'm sure you'll find something =)...) but if you don't, you can check out their blogrings for layout things they've joined and there will be other people in there with layout sites =) Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
You know those spongey things that you use in the shower? I forget what they're called..neways! How long should you use the same one?
First: I think they're called...loofas =P haha.. but I change mine about every 2/3 months or so.
Love,
MELii
what age/grade will your friends start to act more mature, and start being more than just someone to laugh with. you know, when will it be easier to find that one true friend, cause i'm pretty young, and i dont think anyone is that mature enough that they are the kind of friend that will give you a shoulder to lean on when your sad, or you can call anytime just 2 talk, you know that kind of stuff. does anyone know what age>
Well there really is no age to whenever your friends will start to act more mature.. because theres still a few girls I know that act immature. As you get start to get older and go through things with people ; it just starts to happen. Like me and my friends, we've cried together, we've laughed together..we've shared really personal thoughts and I can trust them. But mostly people start to act more mature in middle school ; because you feel more grown up and you feel you should start acting a little more like it. Like me and my friends : we have moments where we act mature.. but other times, we just act so stupid and goofy.. but hey, that's what you're supposed to do with friends. So don't try to be completly mature. You have to be stupid and silly too =) You're young!! =) Hopep I helped!!
Love,
MELii
Hey Im 13/f...i never had a REAL bf... I tihnk im afraid of getting into Relationships cuz my dad used to beat my mom..:-/* but every things all good now and they are divorced adn everything.. I never even kissed a guy....what shalllll i doo!*?
Omg I'm so sorry you had to go through that.. it must have been real tough ; but good thing they divorced so everythings good now =) I can understand why you would be afraid to get into a relationship with a boy.. but it's okay to. ALOT of guys would never hit a girl ; there's just those rare guys out there that do.. just talk to them and get to know them. Most guys are really sweet and nice =) But if you ever do talk to a guy and it seems he can get mad pretty quick or anything ; then I might not talk to them anymore cause they either could be abusive, or they could just be hot tempered. But I don't know if I'd stick around to find out.. but after awhile, whenever you get to know a guy, you'll be able to trust them =) And I've never been kissed either ; but from what I've heard ; it just comes naturally which is what I think it does too =) Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
ok so here it is.....
i really like this guy and i have known him for about a year know. He likes one of my friends and he always tells me how much he likes her. I dont know what i should do. Should i give up and move on or stick in there and hold on to him??
please help me
Thankx*
Well I would talk to your friend first to see if she likes him because if she does ; just stay away and don't mention anything about you liking him.. because that'll create some weird tension around everyone. But if she doesn't ; then try flirting with him a little and seeing what he does ( if he flirts back at all ) and then just keep talking to him, because if he told you who he liked, he obviously feels comfortable with you and that he can talk to you. So maybe you two will just end up getting closer and closer, and maybe he'll like you!! =) Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
okay i REALLY like this guy but he LOVES my best friend and she DOESNT like him i WANT to tell him i like him but im afraid and i dont know how. What should i do?
I don't know if you should ; because then that would create weird tension around everyone because he loves your best friend, and then if he knew you liked him...what I would do is I would try to flirt with him alot and send him signals that you do like him, and maybe if he starts to like you, then tell him. Or maybe get your friend to ask him if he likes you at all and see what he says, and if you just want to plain out tell him, you could have your friend do that too. And just have her be like," Don't tell her I told you that." So then he'll be try and be normal around you so he'll know but there might not be a weird tension. But if you want to tell him, just call him someday and be like," I know you like my best friend, but I just need to tell you ... I like you, now if you don't like me at all just forget it, because I still want to have a friendship with you.." ( or something like that ) Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
in order to qet tested for STD's.. do you have to have your parents know ? my mom would totally like freak if she thouqht i was doinq anythinq sexual.. ive been w| my boyfriend 9 months.. i wouldnt have intercourse now but.. maybe oral & i want my boyfriend to qet tested. please help, i rate hiqh !! 14\f
Just go to Planned Parenthood to get tested. It's completely confidential. Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
i really like this boy and he knows i like him but im afraid to ask him wat he thinks of me,but i dont want to get rejected wat should i do.
You can always get your friends to ask him for you =) But if they don't know him or if they don't talk to him or something.. just the next time you talk to him, flirt with him and see what he does, like if he flirts back and stuff. But I wouldn't take that too much into consideration, cause some boys are just really flirty... Or you can just ask him yourself. Just be like,"Hey, who do you like?" and see what he says. Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
well im thinking about losing my virginity to my boyfriend... but im all about protection and talking about it first... but how do you bring it up? what do i need to know from him? also even if were both virgins... do we need to get HIV/ AIDS/ STD tested? also... whats the best protection to use... and where can i get stuff besides condoms? whats the best brand... and how do you know if im ready?
no dumbass answers please
ill rate 5s if you give good answers
Well if you two are comfortable with having sex, then you two are probably comfortable enough discussing it =) Just sit down with him and be like," I just wanna talk about, you know, whenever we have sex about using protection. I would suggest to use birth control and condoms to be on the safer. And I think you two should get tested before you do anything sexual to be safe side =) I'm not really sure about what kinda of condoms to use cause I'm a virgin, but I hear Trojans break...I would talk about it maybe with a friend that has lost her virginity ( if you have one that has ... ) or maybe another adult...or you can go to Planned Parenthood. And I'm sure whenever you go to get tested, you can ask them, and they know...=) And I can't tell you whenever you'll know when you're ready ; you'll just know. If you two love eachother and you both think you're ready to take it to the next step ; then you should. =) Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
I've been with my girlfriend for over 18 months. I'm 19 and female and i just transfered schools. She's 18 and is just going in to college. We're only going to be about an hour apart, but for some reason she thinks she's going to get her heart broken. I keep telling her that we will have to work together to make it work, but for some reason she doesn't think so. Is it possible that she wants out? Can our relationship survive while we're in college?
I know you probably don't want to hear this: but.. she might want out. I don't know.. because she might just want out ; but she just might want out because she's afraid of getting her heart broken and just wants to end everything before that happens...I would talk to her about it and explain to her how you CAN make it work, that you two will just have to work harded than most people. My friend and his girlfriend live about an hour away too, and they visit eachother about every other weekend, and when not that, they talk on the phone and chat online, which is what I suggest you two can do. But just try to hang with eachother as much as possible. Show her that you two can make this work out. Hope everything works out for the two of you! =) I hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
im goin into 10th grade and i hav never had a boyfriend or been kissed am i a complete loser and how can i change this????
It's ok. Im going into 9th grade and I've never have either! So you're not a complete loser.. you just haven't found the right guy yet. You just have to walk around with confidence which'll get guys to notice you, because guys want a girl who is confident. And if a guy walks up to you, you have to calm down and just start talking and flirting. And then maybe you guys'll change numbers!! =) Go to the mall, or go to a skating place, but try to go to one that's not jam-packed...cause then there's more boys for you =P Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
where can i get some relly good quotes for my profile not like mad pro quots there mostly old and used and every one has used them basicly plzz help
Where I go is wwww.Firehotquotes.com. They have funny,friendship,love, all them. Another one I use is wwww.wittprofiles.com they have some really nice ones =) Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
My boyfriend is 16 and he has a anger/authority problem. His name is John. He has been to the jdc 5 times and boot camp 3 times. I was just wondering if you think that will eventually cause a problem in our relationship or if it could cause him to get violent with me?
14/f P.S. we have been together almost 2 months now.
Well if he's been to jdc 5 times and boot camp 3 times, it sounds like he can get very angry and stuff which would present a MAJOR problem in your relationship. And I'm sur ehe will start to get violent with you, so I would try to get out of this relationship as soon as possible before anything happens!! And I really wouldn't try to stay in contact with him, cause if he gets mad you dumped him, he could do something to you! =( or he could still have the chance to hit you if you guys stay friends.. so I just might wanna steer clear of this guy.. I hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
k.. i really love this kid john, he loves me alot too. but hes going away for 2 nd a half weeks, he said he was gonna ask me out in augest the begniging (sp). should i wait for him to ask me out? or should i just TRY to get over him?
i rate high. =)
x.O.x. c.o.n.f.u.s.e.d x.O.x
I think you should wait because he's gonna come back it's not like he's gonna be gone forever =) haha and also if you loves you alot too, he's not gonna try and get with any girls in those two weeks =) I hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
I was wondering if anyone could give me the links to any (or as many) of these songs. Please. Or a website where to look. I'd prefer links though. But whatever works! :)
1. Two become one - spice girls
2. You know what they do to guys like us in Prison -My Chemical Romance
3. I will remember you -Sarah McLachlen
4.Swing life away by rise against.
5.girl - destiny's child
6."Best Friends" by Missy Elliot
7.use my shoulder - jojo
8. My Best Friend-Tim McGraw
9. Kryptonite-3 doors down
10. Ill back you up-Dave Mathews Band
11.Best Friend- S club 7
Theres a site where they have millions of music videos that you can watch. Just go to yahoo and then type in " music videos "..and then you'll see something that says "Launch Music Videos " or something like that. And it's completly free. And it's cool cause they have the top 100 songs adn stuff like that. =)Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
Ok, i had a boyfriend and we were totally in love, but we barely saw eachother (once or twice a month) because we both went to different schools and were in all honors and ap classes (aka TONS of hw). In the end he ended up breaking up with me because "I love you, but i really cant b attached to someone right now." We still ended up being best friends, but about a week ago he told me that he had never told his mom about us breaking up, and i asked him y. He told me that it was because he still loved me (after 2 months), and that he could never take down the picture of us that i gave him for valentines. We're going to the same school next year, and he wants to get back together then....should i go for it because i love him...or just not put the used gum back in my mouth?
I think you should definetley go for it! Because whenever he broke up with you, he told you he loved you still, he just couldn't be attached at the moment.. so all this time he's loved you and you love him, and I don't see why you wouldn't date someone if you love them =) And he sound slike he's a really sweet and nice guy and that you two have a really nice relationship. Cause you guys being best friends after shows that you still wanted to be close with one another and that you must be really comfortable with eachother =) So defienietly go for it. =D Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
p.s. This used gum just might be still sweet. =)
( haha!! I just thought of that.. haha it sounds really corny, but I thought it was funny =P .. )