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im goin into 10th grade and i hav never had a boyfriend or been kissed am i a complete loser and how can i change this????
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your not a complete loser i am going through the same thing im going into 9th grade and ive never had a boyfriend either trust me there is nothing wrong with you have you ever thought that maybe it was because you dont make it odvious you want a boyfriend? boys can be kind of hmm whats the word? dumb about the whole dating thing if your really into a guy take up a common interest a club or something that might be at school try talking to different people if you dont get a boyfriend your sure to meet some totally cool new people and make tons of new friends and who knows maybe they will have some single guy friends in the same situation your in if your looking for a quick fix to your problem flirt like crazy if your not sure how exactly to do that ask a friend whos been in a relationship or two how exacty they went about snagging there guy smile alot and laugh at a whitty remark a guy may make the world wont end just because you dont have someone right now. hope i helped!
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You're not a loser. I think you shood just try to get out more. Or try being more social. Meet new people and get more friends. Sooner or later a guy will notice you!!
Wish You the best of luck!!
~Jenni~
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It's ok. Im going into 9th grade and I've never have either! So you're not a complete loser.. you just haven't found the right guy yet. You just have to walk around with confidence which'll get guys to notice you, because guys want a girl who is confident. And if a guy walks up to you, you have to calm down and just start talking and flirting. And then maybe you guys'll change numbers!! =) Go to the mall, or go to a skating place, but try to go to one that's not jam-packed...cause then there's more boys for you =P Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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OMG!!That's not a big deal.. you're not a complete loser..well, i hav never had a boyfriend or been kissed either..my parents always think that im not big enough to hav a boyfriend..i think you don't have to change anything..it's okay.. coz.. i have a cousin.. she is 16 and she doesn't hav a boyfriend.. or been kissed before..so..don't ever think that you're a complete loser..god likes you the way you are...
^_^
-ViTaChaN-
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This isn't a big deal. Why do anything?? But if this helps you feel betteR: I have many fRiends who aRe 20 - AND OLDER and they STILL haven't eveR had a Relationship befoRe!!!! Honestly, theRe's no Reason you should woRRie about this. Just because some of youR fRiends might have done ceRtain things does NOT mean you should have alReady done them also!! You'Re only 16, Hun - you have PLENTY of time still. TRuthfully, it's NOT as big of a deal as you might assume. HoweveR, if theRe's someone you know well and may slightly like, and you figuRe he just doesn't feel the same, then you *DEFINITELY* need to confRont him on this. Just be bold, be honest, and go foR it. It's the *ONLY* way to know FOR SHORE if he likes you oR not; you can *ASSUME* he does all you want... but you'll neveR know exactly how he feels unless it's coming stRaight fRom his lovely face. And if you'd like to spRing foR new guys entiRely, just tRy going up to one and giving it youR all! Just RemebeR to always be confident, and to SMILE, SMILE, SMILE! See, I have NOOO pRoblem appRoaching people, because I believe that I can do anything, so I just push my feaRs aside and go foR it!! I'll walk up to some man in the mall and tell him flat out, "You'Re hot"... and it always gets us talking. Why does it always get us talking?? Because confidence is sexy, and confidence shows. It's just a good ice bReakeR, you see? And even if he's involved, oR not wanting a Relationship at the moment, any man who is a QUARTER of a man will speak with you foR just having enough guts to go foR it! I have complete faith in you; and I think you should too. :)
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