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Hey Im 13/f...i never had a REAL bf... I tihnk im afraid of getting into Relationships cuz my dad used to beat my mom..:-/* but every things all good now and they are divorced adn everything.. I never even kissed a guy....what shalllll i doo!*?
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Omg I'm so sorry you had to go through that.. it must have been real tough ; but good thing they divorced so everythings good now =) I can understand why you would be afraid to get into a relationship with a boy.. but it's okay to. ALOT of guys would never hit a girl ; there's just those rare guys out there that do.. just talk to them and get to know them. Most guys are really sweet and nice =) But if you ever do talk to a guy and it seems he can get mad pretty quick or anything ; then I might not talk to them anymore cause they either could be abusive, or they could just be hot tempered. But I don't know if I'd stick around to find out.. but after awhile, whenever you get to know a guy, you'll be able to trust them =) And I've never been kissed either ; but from what I've heard ; it just comes naturally which is what I think it does too =) Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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hey hun, im sooo sorry you had to live through that..well most guys are really sweet and if you really like a guy then go for it...im sure you know what signs to look for...alot of guys are really nice and wouldnt hit a girl (well all the ones i know) but still dont be afraid to go out with someone...oo and kissin i just got mine a few months ago...i had no clue but when it happens it comes really no lie normal to you..lol..
hope i helped xoxo shannon
p.s im 14
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Get into a relationship if you like somebody. Those beating things arn't going to happen with you and your b/f.
kenniski10<3
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Don't worry about it! I've never actually kissed a guy either! I have been in relationships but none of them were really serious! Don't worry! Just enjoy your life!
P.s. Im 13 too!!
Please rate! Hope I helped!
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I think its natural for you to be a little leery considering your family history of abuse. You probably know even at your age the signs that a guy might be an abuser, so don't let that hold you back. I would be more apt to believe that you are still a little young for a relationship that is real serious. When you are ready you will know it. Don't just start because everybody else is doing it. :)
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♥I totally understand how you're afraid to get into a relationship because of your past. Because you are 13, I think you should give "going out" a try, at your age it isn't considered a "relationship" and won't be as serios as your mom and dad's old one. Not all guys are the same you know. Make sure you find a guy you really trust that you know won't do anything to harm you. If you're still getting second thoughts, you aren't ready for a relationship anyhow, so put dating off for a while until you really feel that you're ready.
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You shouldn't feaR Relationships just because youR paRents didn't woRk out. I *suppose I could slightly undeRstand why you might feel that way, but you MUST know that not eveRy guy is bad, I PROMISE you!! Just go into this whole dating scene with an open mind, and you'll see that not eveRyone in this woRld has cRuel intentions. And if this helps you feel betteR: I have many fRiends who aRe 20 - AND OLDER and they STILL haven't eveR had a Relationship befoRe!!!! Honestly, theRe's no Reason you should woRRie about this. Just because some of youR fRiends might have done ceRtain things does NOT mean you should have alReady done them also!! You'Re only 13, Hun - you have PLENTY of time still. TRuthfull, it's NOT as big of a deal as you might assume. HoweveR, if theRe's someone you know well and may slightly like, and you figuRe he just doesn't feel the same, then you *DEFINITELY* need to confRont him on this. Just be bold, be honest, and go foR it. It's the *ONLY* way to know FOR SHORE if he likes you oR not; you can *ASSUME* he does all you want... but you'll neveR know exactly how he feels unless it's coming stRaight fRom his lovely face. And if you'd like to spRing foR new guys entiRely, just tRy going up to one and giving it youR all! Just RemebeR to always be confident, and to SMILE, SMILE, SMILE! See, I have NOOO pRoblem appRoaching people, because I believe that I can do anything, so I just push my feaRs aside and go foR it!! I'll walk up to some man in the mall and tell him flat out, "You'Re hot"... and it always gets us talking. Why does it always get us talking?? Because confidence is sexy, and confidence shows. It's just a good ice bReakeR, you see? And even if he's involved, oR not wanting a Relationship at the moment, any man who is a QUARTER of a man will speak with you foR just having enough guts to go foR it! I have complete faith in you; and I think you should too. Go get 'em, TigeR! =D
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